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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 2/19/2006 11:39:59 PM | I want both too ...but I gotta feel the love...before I "feel" the love
pass me the aspirin will ya I need to work this knot out in my back...
Yo man your just being an honest gentleman lol everyone wants both and you just nailed it dude
I don't think you would get very far on the first date with this one...try it see what happens... | |
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Posted: 2/19/2006 11:48:40 PM |
atleast hes being honest lol you gotta give him his props for that one
Not if Your his date..... 5 minutes into the date he blurps out..."Umm can I take You to Bed"????,,,,,,,,,,,, | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 2/19/2006 11:53:26 PM | | nah but nowadays when you have a personality you can do anythign because the lady will know its harmless especially if they realize your joking... I ran around the city in a thong lol everyone knew it was a joke, thats why i said gentleman will joke, yet they dont brag, and the guys who want one night are insecure you should know youve seen alotta guys in your lifetime so far. im 22 and know this lol why cantyou | |
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Posted: 2/20/2006 12:53:10 AM | Im a little bit smoother than that glimmer man.... I would just give her "The Look.." 
Even if its a one-night stand though.. we still have to work to get it....(like.. jumping through hoops type work...) unless the girl is just a total smiz....... A relationship... steady sex... .also a lot of work.........
So the way I see it.... it kinda all balances itself out....
Brooklyn 4 Prez........ | |
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Posted: 2/20/2006 6:29:20 AM | HONEY IF YOU DATE IS SINGLE AND LOOKES GREAT, AND YOU ARE REALLY GOOD IN THE SACK
THE QUESTION WILL ANSWER IT'S SELF , HE'LL EATHER STAY OR MAKE PLANS TOO BE RIGHT BACK, WITH TWO MEN AND A TRUCK,,,,,,,, | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 2/20/2006 6:43:45 AM | I don't think your meeting the right types of guys in the first place...!
There are a LOT of gentlemen on here. You just have to sift through a lot of Jerks to find them !
A gentleman will put the honest truth down on his profile from day ONE IE: LONG TERM, Dating..... | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 2/20/2006 6:57:32 AM | | The simple answer is "the wait". If he likes you for you then he will begin to show interest in other things together besides sex. If he is pushy to get you in the sack then it is clear what his motives are. If he truly seeking more he will wait and respect your parameters. Even if you really want to become intimate stay reserved until you know its the right moment. But also agree that spontaneous sex right from the gate doesn't mean he is going to skate. If the passion is that hot it may just happen. You will know by his kiss. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 2/23/2006 12:19:53 PM | [The waiter; this one is the most dangerous for your heart. This is the person who will not bring up sex. They will treat you right, respect your personal area and will always be there for you. They will be genuine with all they do but they have a hollow soul that allows them to dump you once they tire of you. What you don't know is while they are giving you most of their attention, they will usually have at least one old vic they keep seeing. People continue to luv these types after they know their is no future with them. This type can't let go of the hope that one day they will be honest and do the right thing in a realtionship so they keep one or more from the past around. They hate to be alone. This type might wait months to get into bed with you. Then it'll be fireworks and all that jazz till this type finds a reason to get you to reject them. If they can't get you to break up, they'll break it up. Usually by going out on you. The way to test the water is to tell this type you are waiting for marriage before you have sex again. If they believe you are serious, they will slowly fade away, but politely. If they think your words are just wishes, they will test you to see.]
Alaska, Thank you soooo much! I am usually very good at weeding out the players and never give them the time of day. However, I have been sucked in by a "waiter"! He left me feeling so hurt and confused; when we were together he was so amazingly attentive, sweet, and sincere. He actually waited three weeks just to kiss me! I totally fell for him, but after about 4 months, he totally tired of me and did exactly what you said, he tried to get me to dump him and when I didn't, he ended things (nicely, of course). He kept in touch with me for a few months (as friends) until I finally told him to go take a hike. I was just sooooo upset, thinking that something was wrong with me and that I had lost "The One"! But now I see that he was not the one, he was a total user.
Now, there's not much a disecerning woman (or man) can do to detect and avoid a waiter, but it sure saves one a lot of time obsessing over "what went wrong?" after the waiter has exited the building! He/She simply did not feel that connection that they made you feel, because he/she is a user and got what they wanted from you, whether it was sex, companionship (for awhile), money, external validation, etc! So, if you've been burned by a waiter, just realize that while it hurts, he/she is the actual loser because they cannot form true bonds with other people while you are a caring individual who can truly connect with another person! | |
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Posted: 3/2/2006 2:25:47 PM | | I would have to disagree alittle there about the day one IE: Long term or dating. I myself am recently divorced (2 months) from a 21 year marriage, and the last thing that I want to do is get right back into one. Some of us guys would just like to meet some new women and have some new friends to talk, or hang out with. | |
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Posted: 3/3/2006 12:46:25 AM | Sometimes men really confuse me. They ask for my number say they will call me and... they never do.
A few weeks ago I was dating this guy and everything seemed to be going well even though we had only known each other for a short time. He used to call me all the time and make me feel special. Even though I hadn't known him very long, one night we were hanging out and one thing led to another and, well *poof* one night stand... I know it's easier said than done, especially if you thought "this one might be the real deal"...
Blondiegirl and Phantomkitten, intellectually you knew; emotionally you refused to accept the truth, even though it is obvious to you, because you wanted who you know you couldn't have.
It's as simple as 1+1=2. If you are doing well and he's who you want, because you know he can attract prettier girls, he wants a one night stand. If he's doing well; that is, he's not really good enough for you, he wants a permanent relationship. That's just the way it is. You want the Alpha male, you can't keep and the other man--well, you don't want him anyway because he's not sexy. You wouldn't ever take your panties off for him, but you can't help youself when you meet an Alpha male. I believe it has something to do with natural selection. You want to make babies with the Alpha male because he has better genes. | |
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