| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 3/3/2006 2:46:04 PM | Me, I am never looking for a one night stand. If I find the woman to be sexually attractive, then I am going to want more than a one time experience with her. Of course, if I don't want her sexually during the first date, there won't be a second date.
I guess my advice is, if you really want to know, then say no on the first night. If he calls and wants to see you again, then perhaps he wanted more than a one night stand. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 6/21/2006 4:42:28 PM | | i recently had a one night stand and it was great i feelt like i knew the girl for a while but i want more not just sex i want to get to know her i feelt good after it then kind of bad i dont know it was a toss up but i feel that she took the guys role on how guys just want some then forgit about you. when we kissed it was great if felt meaningfull but i am waiting to hear back from her maby i am not a typical guy some guys would be satisfyed with the one night stand buy i want to get to know her so maby i am not a typical guy | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 6/25/2006 7:00:49 PM | A couple ways come to mind:
You could find a guy that was severly beaten with an ugly stick he will more than likely want a relationship
Ask the guy if he would like to do it with your twin and you. If he does well that doesn't mean shit cause all guys will say yes. Forget this answer XXXXXXXXXXX
If you tell him that you are a transsexaul and still have your penis and he doesn't run then either he is a keeper or a queer.
Tell him that you are a good girl and don't believe in sex before marriage if his eyes don't glaze over, go down on him right away he is also a keeper.
Be good
If you can't be good then be safe
and if you can't be safe you are on your own..... | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:34:48 PM | Yes, I agree...make him wait till he sweeps you off your feet.....lol
Ladies, where are your moral values and self-respect for yourselves?? Nowadays, it is difficult to find women who have that.....very very sad and disappointing.
Women who use sex as tool will get burn many times | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 6/29/2006 4:08:15 AM | If a guy keeps staring/talking to your chest as if your tatas have microphones in them,hes probably after a one nighter
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Not quite Kat
If a guy your height talks to your chest he probably only wants a one nighter.
If a guy a foot shorter than you talks to your chest he's got a crick in his neck from looking upwards to talk to peoples faces.
If a guy a foot taller than you talks to your chest it's because he's actually talking to your face, which is in line with youre chest, but you are so hung up on only your chest that you cant see this. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 6/29/2006 5:05:40 AM | | There is no sure way of telling what a person wants. sometimes it might start out ot be a one night stand, but if the sex was really good it might advance in another direction. sometimes the intentions were not a one night stand, but if the sex was really bad thats all it might end up being! So ask yourself, did I whip it out on him and whip him good, or was it oh hum! If it wasn't earth shattering, then maybe that's why there wasn't a second date! | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 6/29/2006 5:23:15 AM | | Suggestion... DON'T have sex with him for a while. If he is interested in more than sex, he will want to be around you so he can get to know you. Guys who just want sex are pretty easy to spot for the most part. If you haven't given it up, and they have the attention span of a goldfish...it's not your brains they're interested in. Giving in to sex early can be a relationship killer for newly budding romances anyway, so my advice would be hold out as long as you possibly can if you want to know if it's something worth actually pursuing. I am speaking from personal experience here... a couple with potential got ruined very quickly because we let our hormones rule. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 6/29/2006 5:55:52 AM |
The waiter; this one is the most dangerous for your heart. This is the person who will not bring up sex. They will treat you right, respect your personal area and will always be there for you. They will be genuine with all they do but they have a hollow soul that allows them to dump you once they tire of you. What you don't know is while they are giving you most of their attention, they will usually have at least one old vic they keep seeing. People continue to luv these types after they know their is no future with them. This type can't let go of the hope that one day they will be honest and do the right thing in a realtionship so they keep one or more from the past around. They hate to be alone. This type might wait months to get into bed with you. Then it'll be fireworks and all that jazz till this type finds a reason to get you to reject them. If they can't get you to break up, they'll break it up. Usually by going out on you. The way to test the water is to tell this type you are waiting for marriage before you have sex again. If they believe you are serious, they will slowly fade away, but politely. If they think your words are just wishes, they will test you to see.
Alaska2004 hit the nail on the head with this one ladies. Waiters are the worst, and the one's that'll hurt you the most. These are the kinds of guys that will screw with your head, and your heart, and then drop you like a hot potato once they've gotten what they want. And there are LOTS of them out there. They've learned to play the game well to get what they want. I know guys who have flat out TOLD me that some guys will do or say whatever it takes to get in your pants, and if they have to play that game for 6 months even, they will do it, meanwhile playing that same game with a dozen other girls at the same time, ensuring they get some fairly regular action. Unfortunately, these guys are also the hardest to peg. So if you happen to get screwed over by one of them, even after doing what you thought was right and waiting, well, don't beat yourself up about it...just realize the guy is a jerk and be thankful you're not with him. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 8/9/2006 3:51:46 PM | Let me throw in a little bit of perspective here..............
Very few guys look for one night stands..... unless of course the sex is so bad..... that we have no desire to go through it again... but for most guys... (like myself) who are not Don Juan...... when we have sex with a woman... we would usually like to keep having sex with her.... for as long as we can......
but guys dont like to be tied down either....
thats where it gets tricky......
because women equate sex with love..... and guys dont....
basically... what Im saying is... you have a relationship... versus a one night stand..... but theres also a lot of room inbetween.....and when women figure that out... theyll be one step closer to figuring US out..... and believe me... were simple... Its a lot easier to figure us out... then it is for US to figure YOU out......
Oh.... and for those women that like to play the poor little victim... after the fact...... remember this... no one put a gun to youre head and made you have sex with the guy... (I hope... ) Ya did it because you like him.... Keep that in mind...........
Yes.... some of you may not like what I have to say here.... but Im just telling it like it is.... | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 8/9/2006 4:15:09 PM | | Personally. I"m the blunt/candid, straight forward kind of person. Ask him outright. " Do you want a one night stand or do you see this as potentially more, because for me, if your looking for a one night thing, Move on, no sence wasting my time or yours. Thats not what i'm here for." The response and his facial tells, will give you your answer. However if you arent the candid/blunt sort.. You could drag it out for an entire evening and go by his reaction at your front door at the end of the night. lol | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 8/9/2006 4:38:43 PM | | It is very simple. Do you think you are doing well to date him. Otherwise, if he can date women better looking than you, it's a one-night stand or a sexual fling. However, if he is the one that is doing well, very likely he wants a relationship. However, even that is not true in every case. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 8/9/2006 5:10:47 PM | I think very few people of either sex are 100% one way or the other. And that's a good thing. The two extremes:
100% absorbed by the idea of a relationship:
Not happy with themselves and want someone to complete or legitimize them. Mostly into the idea of a relationship rather than the real thing, and anyone who ventures into that trap soon figures out they need to escape.
100% absorbed by the idea of a one night stand:
Not happy with themselves and want someone to complete or legitimize them. Mostly into the idea of sex rather than the real thing, and anyone who ventures into that trap soon figures out they need to escape. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 8/9/2006 6:24:36 PM | Oh boy-- this gets scary-- so just how many men are we gonna end up sleeping with until we find the one who ISNT just a one night stand? LMAO
Sorry, but given my own instincts kinda suck on this issue, it makes one wonder what the options are other than to wait- but then making the man wait makes him angry thinking your using sex as a commodity-- oy vey!  | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 8/16/2007 10:05:18 PM | | Well, I dont know....I recently dated a guy and we didnt sleep together, until the 3rd date, we were together for prob 3 or 4 times, and then he left no phone call, nothing.....Now, I just met a guy and I am so skeptical about how to act...We went out on our first date and he actually asked me out for a second date before he even kissed me....and as hard as it was we did not have sex that night....second date.....maybe..but I think him asking me out for that second date before we did anything at all showed me he was into me... now i saw him on tues night.,,our second date is on Saturday and he has called me everyday and always asks me to call him and when i call him, he always returns my call, so maybe this could be it....but being honest, it is gonna be hard not to jump into it again, but I am just gonna let the road take its course, if it was meant to be it will be. | |
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| how do I tell if a guy wants a relationship or Just a one night stand?
Posted: 8/17/2007 6:54:39 AM | blondiegirl.....First things first.
Lesson one.....Men have two heads.
If head number one get's frisky then he wants you to call him when YOU get frisky.
If you call head number two, then he's usually busy and not in the mood to talk to you.
Head number one usually likes female company after a few drinks, unlike head number two who is sober and needs to focus it's attention on his wife or g/f.
Chances are you were hitting it off with head number one, before head number two came on the scene.
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