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 SexyandBrainy

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 26
Insult?? Misunderstanding?? Trying??
Posted: 2/10/2006 1:13:36 PM
Who knows, who cares!!!

It's a free site with all sorts of people wanting all sorts of different things, are you that insecure in how you come across to men that you honesly need us to tell you what message you give them because one nut sends you a weird message?

C'mon now!
 TiredofBS

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 27
Insult?? Misunderstanding?? Trying??
Posted: 2/10/2006 1:20:18 PM
I just read through your profile. You....Clearly state your not seeking someone Domineering. If this....person is in fact eloquent in his use of the english language, there should be NO misunderstanding. I would chalk it up to a bump in the carpet. You've blocked him, and that's all you can do. Smile and don't lose any sleep over it : ) Just my 2 cents. JD
 Soleil24

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 2/10/2006 1:24:24 PM
mind reader:

Your profile does not project submissive at all. You seem intelligent and attractive.

He has no idea if you are submissive (unless you have told him so).

He wants a weekend of hot sex with a 'submissive' woman. He has chosen you to be his 'pleasure lady'. From what you said, it sounds like he means he it is the sexual sense. As in he is the 'dominant and you are the 'submissive'.

If I got an email like this, I would be insulted. And frightened. I don't think this is a SAFE encounter.

This may be a misunderstanding of cultures, however. He may have heard of Amsterdam's red light district and in his ignorance, is painting every female within 1,000 mile radius with the same brush.

Run as far away from this one as you can.
 TiredofBS

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 29
Insult?? Misunderstanding?? Trying??
Posted: 2/10/2006 1:26:32 PM
Thank you for the inclusion "Not all men are that way" : ) My profile is and reflects who and....what I am. JD
 mind_reader

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 30
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Insult?? Misunderstanding?? Trying??
Posted: 2/11/2006 2:44:57 AM
Thanks you guys, different point of views, but, I was really offended yesterday since that was the very first time to have received such an email.
I have blocked the guy anyways. It could really be the matter of East-West, closed-minded,
open-minded. I am over it now, today is another day.
 lazyboy

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 2/11/2006 3:03:15 AM

I got an email on POF a while ago from an Egyptian guy who wanted to trade camels for me. He thought I was worth 12 camels. I'm still not sure if that was a compliment or an insult.


And who exactly is suppose to clean up after the camels?

Why can't we guy's get cool offer's like that? All I get is some chick from
Russia named Olga wanting to play sweet music to my ears and cook me dinner....oh wait, that would be cool if she wasn't such a liar.
 kce33

Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 32
Insult?? Misunderstanding?? Trying??
Posted: 2/11/2006 4:15:45 AM
geez' i would think that a 49 year old man or woman receiving email for sex from someone that is half way around the world from them would have enough common sense to just delete and block the sender......
i would not even have enough nerve to post something like that....

kce
 S_Davina

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 2/11/2006 5:09:52 AM
She *did* delete him. She's just asking if there's something about her profile that might be sending the wrong message to men like him.

She's also generally not as used to this kind of poison as we are in US/Canada. There are cultural differences and language barriers here.
 ~iiCe~

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 34
Insult?? Misunderstanding?? Trying??
Posted: 2/11/2006 5:26:57 AM
I am sure that there is some foolish woman who will take him up on that offer... there always is....
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