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Posted: 2/11/2006 8:26:17 AM | you know I've always said, take the worst guy out there, give him the right woman, and BINGO, prince charming!
To many times, people label, lump and steroetype guys, when basically they just aren't interested! I think it's a cop out! Give a man a woman who melts him, and he is yours forever!
Getting "laid" is one thing, it's actually pretty easy. I think it's filler till they do meet someone that melts them! Hence all the labels. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 8:30:58 AM |
I think alot of guys already know this stuff but aren't self-critical enough to acknowledge and fix the problems.
Right on the money! | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 8:53:53 AM | Small Hagrid I wanted to send you a message but alas your restrictions prohibit Canadians from messaging you.  So much for my two bits. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 8:56:58 AM | Wow Mark...who put salt in your cheerios???
In the years I have done this, most women SAY they want to be loved and cherished, BUT
what that seems to translate to is that they want a guy with MONEY, a BIG job, fancy
STUFF, a brand new car, and plenty of extra $$$ to take them on world travels.
If a person feels the need to brag to me about how much money they pull in, among other things...its a real turnoff. I'm not one to be impressed with money, never have been. And if I am around someone that feels that need to constantly brag when talking to me, I consider it a redflag and RUN!!!
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Posted: 2/11/2006 9:17:58 AM | It's not about if they brag about money....it's about what they do and what they can bring into your life. So if a guy has a boatload of money and can talk about his vacations, and his worldly activities, etc, then he's more attractive.
Money = Cool Activities = benefits to you = attractiveness to you.
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Posted: 2/11/2006 9:22:01 AM | | I have found in the past that those who brag about money really DON'T have it and are living wayyyyy above their means. Keep it real folks. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 11:02:28 AM | | And, does anybody think why are there too many Problematic men out there trying to cheat and gain their own benefits? Where do such guys come from? Who are their parents? Why could their parents not teach them their manners? Could we really categorize people the way we do in such definitions?? | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 11:14:18 AM | | From online, without even meeting the men, I have encountered Mr. Needy, Mr.Boorish, Mr. Arguer, Mr. Misogynist, Mr. Cheap...hence, I decided not to pursue dating on the net. It was my first time just 2 mths ago, and I find that it's not for me. The worst out of all was Mr. Needy and Mr. Misogynist....in fact, I know of 2 main users on here who scared me away simply bc they are who they are. I decided to just cut off my page bc of them. I am much happy on the forums, in complete anonymity :) | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 11:15:36 AM | @Frosty
"Hey, nobodies perfect, guess women are going to be put in a position to "Settle" with at least 1 of the 8.  | |
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| Thanks Dr. Belgarion !
Posted: 2/11/2006 11:30:19 AM | And in exchange, kindly identify yourself someplace within those types as
well.....you must fit into at least one of those little boxes since you were
able to stuff me into two of them so neatly and completely ????
I am always so grateful when I can present such an easy target for anyone
who needs one....and it amazes me how well total strangers know me, the
depth and insightfulness that can be so present between utter and total
strangers !!! People are just amazing.
Be Well, and Happy !
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Posted: 2/11/2006 12:32:15 PM | These eight things can all be traced to oversensuality by using pornography. Such a man is impatient, contentious, utters bombast, is inconsiderate, looks only after his own wants and needs, pressures women to have illicit sexual contact, truly does hate women because he sees them only as objects, has the same mentality about women that criminals do about their victims, is a form of predator; cannot control himself, exhibiting little tendancy toward delayed gratification, is selfish, cheap, frequently an adulterer, many times divorced, has little ability to empathize, is rigid in beliefs that justify his own sin, thinks everyone should be like him, has no tolerance for people who are different, has no class, does only what is absolutely necessary to survive, doesn't remember what a woman says, lies without any remorse, is only sorry for how he suffers when caught lying, tries to make women feel small and himself superior, belittles a woman's feelings, has no emotional depth, looks to women as objects for physical gratification, and only wants a woman who looks like a porno model.
This man is violent. He may not be physically violent, but violence is anything that robs a person of the love they need and deserve. Any man who does not love a woman for who she is is committing violence against her. Any man who is willing to trade sex for a meaningful relationship is probably addicted to porno. If a man is arrogant, without any basis for his grandeur; full of himself, he is covering up a porno addiction. The list goes on and on, but there is no man who uses pornography who will treat a woman right. This is written all over them. But, to a woman who has nothing, and has been victimized by the beast of lust repeatedly, this is always her answer. If a woman doesn't respect herself, actually setting herself in competition with pornography, she will lose. She will be defeated every time. He will always choose what looks perfect, but in the end is bitterness and empty. In the end, this man is an illusion of beauty. He is a promise that cannot be kept. He is a dream that will turn into a nightmare.
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Posted: 2/12/2006 11:54:05 AM | Oh yes Houston, we have liftoff! Great list, and I'm sure myself and others can add a bit to it.
A contribution: The Educated Man.
Gals say they're tired of boring, drooling backward-hat dorks without a brain cell to speak of. Understandable. I'm sure they're sexually exciting, but in the long run, a bore.
Enter one educated, degreed individual. Gals are always impressed with this at first, but soon realize that they're overshadowed and overwhelmed by the complexity of such a relationship, and they tend to feel inferior, even if he's a blue-jean wearing, everyday, homebody sort of guy.
Water will always seek its own level. Consider educational parity when dating, and everyone involved will be much happier.
Another recent poster here is an obvious example of this. He's well educated, well spoken and not afraid to share his opinion on any interesting subject. But no matter how intelligent and confident he may be, gals will probably perceive him to be arrogant, pompous and argumentative. Thus, he's dead in the water and he will likely bitter because of it.
My advice for educated individuals: speak not of your education and try to avoid any sort of intellectual discourse early on in any relationship, unless you know for a fact that your date is degreed as well.
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Posted: 2/12/2006 12:12:51 PM | Swansword wrote:
"has the same mentality about women that criminals do about their victims"
I thank you for provoking thought on this one, and I must agree: sociopathic personalities are everywhere these days, and should be avoided like the plague they are.
Guys (and gals!) who have a deep-seated sociopathic ideology view others as a resource to be exploited, without any consideration for anything but their own needs and wants. Most don't even see themselves as being predatory because they cannot fathom the concept of victimization, or even agression for that matter.
I've never made the connection between sociopathy and so-called pornography addiction, but I have now. This is pretty creepy stuff, but worthy of protracted discussion.
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Posted: 2/12/2006 12:26:34 PM | These men's sites and mags are a joke. They're like male versions of Cosmo. 
I mean, yeah, a good bit of those are common sense. You don't need an article to tell you that. If you do, you have bigger problems. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 1:40:15 PM | Small Hagred:
You can't win!! You know the saying 'you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink' or little boy blue with his thumb in the dike. Not going to happen.
You say things trying to be sincere and you will always be accused of being bitter, especially if your opinion doesn't toe the line. And even if you are a little frustrated, you should be allowed to be, just expressing feelings and being human. Women expect men to let them be like this, so why doesn't the respect go the other way? It's a 2 way street.
Just take solace that you are a good person.
On that note, I would rather be outside doing activities that are fun and enjoyable rather than reading more men-bashing threads, fun as it is, really. So, it's been a slice, got my two cents in too, had a few laughs, but good luck and adieu to all. | |
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| Travisty.....
Posted: 2/12/2006 1:56:40 PM | (Just in case you peek in....)
Thanks !
Be Well, and Happy !
mark* | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 2:00:43 PM | Your welcome, splitting the road house tonight.
Just getting my last few licks in before I saddle up and out of here. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 2:21:51 PM | | lol i hope im none of those guys... i dont think i am ive never had any complaints | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 2:25:13 PM | Great...nice to know I'm ****ed from the start. At least now I won't get my hopes up.
DAMN YOU FROSTY! | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 3:16:05 PM | HEY.... what about the 8 Types Of Guys Women Love?????
Id want to know where that post is huh! | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 3:45:11 PM | *sigh*
IN the name of Optimism and welcoming the new guy, (and to stop Grog from sobbing all over the floor); I will find this list and post a thread about it.
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Posted: 2/12/2006 3:47:39 PM | | You forgot one last one "Guys that build their dating strategy on Doc Love's advice" | |
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