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Posted: 2/12/2006 4:04:30 PM |
I LIKE predictable guys!!
BULLSEYE!!
I was WONDERING when someone was going to mention this. STABILITY....is this NOT a sign of STABILITY!?
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/12/2006 4:07:58 PM | [BULLSEYE!!
I was WONDERING when someone was going to mention this. STABILITY....is this NOT a sign of STABILITY!?]
Thanks, frrosty.....and yes, predictability is a sign of a stable person.
One needs to know that a significant other can be depended on. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 4:16:55 PM | AVOID THIS TYPE OF GUY...
1.ONES WHO TELL YOU THAT THEY JUST APPLIED FOR FOOD STAMPS
2.ONES WHO REPEATEDLY TELL YOU THEY ARE LOOKING FOR A JOB
3.ONES WHO ASK YOU YOUR INCOME RIGHT OFF THE BAT...
4.ONES WHO INSINUATE THAT ALL THEY WANT IS SEX ..AND TALK ABOUT HOW GREAT THEIR EX WAS IN BED....
5.ONES WHO COMPLAIN ABOUT HOW HIGH THE DINNER HE BOUGHT FOR YOU WAS...
6.ONES WHO DON'T TIP A GOOD WAITRESS
7.ONES WHO HAVE LOADS OF CHILDREN IN DIFFERENT STATES
8.ONES THAT LOOK WILLING AND ABLE TO WORK BUT GET SOCIAL SECURITY CHECKS....
THE LIST IS ENDLESS...
ETC ,ETC
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Posted: 2/12/2006 5:51:02 PM | | But alot of women claim they do not want this^^^^^^But look who they are with....ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS......SOOoooooo true......Look at Scott Peterson(the baby killer)He get thousands of letters all over the country from women that want to marry him...But would not give a nice guy the time a day....Drama ,drama,drama...Women love it!!!!!!!!! | |
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ray567
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Posted: 2/12/2006 6:04:10 PM | 8 men women avoid...I do agree and do try to avoid these types.
1.NEEDY - instant mothering...raised a son don't need to raise another..ability to share feelings is different
2.PREDICTABLE -nah...I like the surprises..who doesnt like nice surprises? But inconsistent is a bad thing.
3.ARROGANT-I classify an arrogant man as someone who thinks they are better...It DOES matter how men treat people and for that matter animals. self confidence is different..
4.BOORISH-yep..checkin out other women and fallin asleep wont earn you brownie points.
5.CHEAP- conservative yes..cheap no...
6.ARGUER-if you argue just to argue or to get someone pissed, major turnoff...to disagree is different
7.SELF RIGHTEOUS-nope, not for me. I dont want or need an ex-alcoholic or smoker or whatever to tell me how they f*ked up and now want to convert me....I'd probably do it more than normal just to PISS him off..
8.MISOGYNIST-I've seen a few of these on pof...then go to same sex...
I think if a man were made up of these quailities in a small amt then it wouldnt be that bad but to have them as a superior part of their characteristic would be too much..But the same 8 (I'm sure) can be used for women and the same can be said for them. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 6:12:07 PM | The 8 things that run women off have been the samething that ran me off from a lot of women I met especially online/
Especially when a women complains about men and how badly women kind has been treated by men. She is obviously know different than the guy who condiscends women. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 6:35:57 PM | I'm thinking about a different list ....
1.) First off probably whiny crybaby's who worry about how nice they are all the time .
2.) mustlebound guys who stare into every reflection to look at a new mustle that just popped up .
3.) Guys who complain about how much dinner is gonna cost . I hear this all the time from women .
4.) Guys who spend the whole night wondering about how their stock portfolio is going to work out in the next fiscal year .
5.) Men who spend more time hanging out with the waitress than he does with the woman he showed up with . ( My friends do this ? )
6.) Guy's who get intimidated and jealous about every guy who checks out his date . ( See this all the time ) stand up already !!
7.) Men who spend hours talking about boring shit ( I hear this alot too )
8.) guy's who take you to burger king and it takes about ten minutes to decide just how they want it . ( I've heard this one too ?) I mean burger thing is bad enough on a date isn't it ??
And this is from a guy ? But I hear things . | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 6:50:48 PM | | What are you trying to say?That this is bad traits...Well it maybe...But it doese not mean that women do not like it...My next door neighbor is like this to a tee...But he has women flopping all over him...And again ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS...I here women all the time they do not like this in a man..But look who she is kissing up to...MR.JERK...Oh sure they will complain to every TOm,Dick,And HARRY...But the bottom line is what they say and do are 2 different things.....And being a Jerk is not a bad person..I have met very few lonely Jerks.. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 7:17:11 PM | I agree with Garf - Countrygirlnga, that was a great contribution, thanks !!
Best Wishes,
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Posted: 2/12/2006 7:29:59 PM | 8 types of Women that Guys avoid
1. Talks too much
2. Doesnt want sex
3. Wants a prince on a white horse, but doesnt want to ride the horse first
4. TALKS TOO MUCH
5. TALKS TOO MUCH
6. TALKS TOO MUCH
7. TALKS TOO MUCH
and finally
8.TALKS TOO MUCH
its more of a joke, so ladies dont get offended - although you could consider this next time you go on a date, trust me it does help | |
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Posted: 2/13/2006 9:15:40 AM |
6.ONES WHO DON'T TIP A GOOD WAITRESS totally. small hint while in canada: 15% is a LOUSY tip (anything less means you're a****oach)...15% is what you'd tip if you thought the service was lousy. 25% tip is best...tipping any more is only for stupidly rich people who rack up $400 tabs.
the WORST morons are those who rack up huge tabs and drop like omfg $10 tip.  | |
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Posted: 2/13/2006 12:57:56 PM | All in all i think the dating game now has more pitfalls and more higher standards and sometimes we guys tend to think being ourselves is not the way to be on a date.
I think also that buddy there who says he is not bitter, he has just met the wrong women. I have been there many times over the course of being single for the past 7 years. It can throw you off, make you jaded and bitter. But then you have got to wake up and realize, not all women are the same and just look at it this way. Not your loss, it is there loss. I am sure there are things in your life you enjoy and makes you happy. Those are the things to look at and concentrate on. Never let people bring you down either. I did and it is not a good feeling at all.
There are lots of great women out there, they are just hard to find as they do not try to make themselves noticable like the shallow ones. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2006 1:01:14 PM | Frosty- Good Post...but then I always like the way you think...
Sam-I, too, think there is a 'match' for everyone...all it takes is the right combination...and they are all over each other...
Mark- I feel bad for your experiences with women, but it sounds to me like you are going for the wrong ones. Maybe you should try going for the type of woman that you normally thought wasn't your type...maybe she REALLY WILL be your type. You know what they say...."you can't keep doing the same things repeatedly, and expect to get different results"...it just doesn't work that way...learn from it and move on. She's out there...keep trying!!!
HB Doug- A man who has money and brags is a turn OFF, not a turn ON!!
Reenie and Frosty-I also say that predictability is a GOOD thing. My lifelong stability is broken up right now, and it's not real easy to deal with. I'm always saying how 'I want my stability back', these days...
Hi JD!! Haven't seen you in a while!
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Posted: 2/13/2006 1:32:08 PM | What a GREAT thread!!!
Squirrly, I tend to agree with you. Women typically avoid men who *rant* about 'all women' (or 'any woman' for that matter :-). I'm sure the same is true for men when women *rant* about 'all men'. There's nothing worse than a first (or second) date with a guy who bad-mouths his ex. It's just plain bad kharma and looks bad on the person doing the *ranting*. 
I think the key is to try to stay positive, optimistic and keep the faith. 
I personally only have 2 types of men that I avoid:
1. Men who portray themselves to be someone that they aren't; and
2. Men who don't accept me for the person I am, fully and completely.
Seems like pretty simple stuff but it's complicated just the same. It takes a while to figure out who someone *really* is and who you *really are* when you're with that person. If you can't be yourself and/or say what you think and feel, obviously that's a major red flag.
Honesty and integrity will never steer you in the wrong direction when it comes to dating, online or otherwise. If it doesn't feel right, chances are it's not. Why waste anyone's time?
Only we know what type of person is right for us, right? ;-) | |
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Posted: 2/13/2006 1:45:49 PM | | The only type of man I avoid really,is "bitterman"...he got hurt and is angry at all women,and jumps to conclusions over every little thing....btw there are bitter women out there too... | |
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Posted: 2/13/2006 2:45:22 PM | Frosty....you ain't none of them bad guys...you have always come across as a wonderful guy.
Number one is a big one for me...I know we all have our insecurities but if you cannot show some faith in the relationship, it won't last. Just the way I am...I get sick of feeling like if my lips are not permanently puckered up against the guys azz, he is thinking I am looking for someone else.
Squeak
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Posted: 2/13/2006 2:52:53 PM | I can deal with needy, I can deal with predictable, but I will chew up an arrogant man and spit him out covered in acid.  | |
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Posted: 2/13/2006 2:57:58 PM | wow im only about half of these! i thought id be at least 6 or 7 when i saw the title of the thread. yay me!
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Posted: 2/13/2006 4:18:29 PM | DC,
Thanks for your kind thoughts - that may be the kindest, most helpful reply I have
gotten in any of these forums !!
Your definition is one I hold very dear - and I actually work at NOT making the same
mistakes over and over - but in this subject, the mistakes are as different as the
different people there are - so many, and so varied.
That may be exactly what I am baffled about - having met a batch of very different
women, and deliberately allowing myself to meet and spend time with folks that DID
seem outside of 'my type' - how things went as they did anyways ????
And yes - I haven't quit trying, I do believe there is one woman someplace that may
be found if only I keep at it...
Thanks !!
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