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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/23/2006 9:43:26 PM | | Well I guess any guy could say this in a forum, but I don't fit any of these catagories (Please keep reading). Although I know freinds who could probably fit all, and add a few also. One freind of mine is always **** this, and **** that, when it comes to women, even I get anoyed. Another freind starts out paying for a girl on the first couple of dates and then turns the table till they leave. He has the looks and can get away with it. If I was a women and new some of these guys, I would head for the hills. Now in all fairness men could make a very ,very long list of things to make them run for cover if they encountered this particular type of women. I have meet a couple of women that added a few types to avoid. I took out an ad in the paper to warn other guys about them. I say dont be to picky to start with, try to work with small issues if something seems to click. Myself I fall to fast when I meet a women, then I find the out things I try to deal with and it doesn't work. So as others do, I dont stop looking for the special love. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/23/2006 10:15:24 PM | Interesting thread.....read it all.....and it's pretty clear to me there is an extraordinary amount of disappointment, negativity, and generalization on both sides of the coin.....I'm glad someone started the "8 types of good guys" thread, because they (we?) are out there.....
I for one, pledge not to allow my past negative experiences to blind me from something good in the future. As someone who once loved with his all, I believe it can happen again, and though I doubt it will be found electronically, I will continue to make the best choices I can, and the let the rest take care of itself. That's all I can do.....that's all anyone can do.
Now...........where the hell is my porno....... KIDDING! | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/25/2006 12:30:38 AM |
I for one, pledge not to allow my past negative experiences to blind me from something good in the future.
You're so not gonna fit in here then. The negative and the whining and the generalizing are what all the cool kids are doing.
/sarcasm
What constantly amazes me is that the negativity crowd wants/expects/hopes for a date or two.
Bizarre. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/25/2006 7:26:53 AM | | ya bizarre that someone is not made of concrete and can accept and embrace rejection over and over huh? Sad when someone let's rejection bother them I mean if someone let's that happen then what? | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/25/2006 10:38:39 AM | It's a fact of life. If you're gonna let what others do affect you so much, you're going to have a $hitty life.
The whining negativity just puts a final nail in the coffin. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/26/2006 6:04:04 AM | LOL You sound like a real winner I have no problem attracting women and I dont have to be a jerk to do so.Sounds to me like you've had some bad experiences that you dont want to take responsability for yourself so now you are bitter and resentful towards women because you dont understand whats really going on.Women dont like cry baby wusses either man so build a bridge and get over it.Realize you dont have to be a jerk to have a good woman but women dont like bitter wuss bags either.Or go ahead and be that way and see what kind of woman you attract.I think you'll find that it aint the kind anyone else would want | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/26/2006 6:12:50 AM | hahah good one, but women want one thing first PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, and if it was so easy to impress and snag women to date, every guy would be dating someone...all a game and the ball is in thier court and we play by thier rules...
Hey one more thing, I guess letting rejection get to you after years is low? Everyone is different. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/26/2006 6:22:47 AM | | Mark I gotta reply to that one.If you think that appearance and money are the two most important things a woman notices about you YOU ARE DEAD WRONG.In fact everything you said was totally wrong. Money and appearance are important to a certain extent.BUT your attitude is everything.Next time you go out on a date take her to a descent resturaunt but dont go overboard.Chilis is fine Cheddars is a good choice to and suprisingly affordable.Be yourself.If you try to impress a woman with money and looks she'll see right through it because believe it or not women have brains.This tells her that you have nothing to offer and you are trying to impress her with something other than your personality.And if you take a look around you'd see that nice looking women date homely looking guys all the time.Looks are important but not everything.And If you think these guys must be doctors or something your wrong.I know a guy whos a trash collector and he has a beautiful wife.What your problem is Isnt your money or your looks but your attitude.A woman can sense it when she talks to you.You are already set up for failure before you even ask her out.You are sabotaging yourself with your views and opinions about women and what you think they want.Negative thinking will destroy any chance you have with a woman no matter how you try to hide it they'll know It shows in your actions and they way you carry yourself.Havent you ever heard of Womens intuition? Well it really exsist women are much better at detecting your true personality than men ever thought about being.Some almost seem to be psychics when it comes to this.Get rid of your negative views improve your confidence and realize you are good enough to deserve a good woman and start talking to women honestly without being clingy jealous or negative and see what happends | |
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Posted: 2/26/2006 6:35:49 AM | | Yeah If you are a slob then women aint gonna want you.You are right.BUT what i mean is DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.Dont sit on your couch eating twinkies all day and expect Angelina Jolee to walk into your living room naked.And No the balls not in thier court and I play by my own rules.And you know If you have been getting rejected for years maybe its your fault.But I know its much easier to blame women than it is to realize that its something you are responsible for.No woman is going to be attracted to a man thats negative and out of shape and clingy and a crybaby.Sorry man but thats just not what they are looking for.Sure they want phsyiscal attraction who doesnt?As for ball the being in thier court it is if you let them have it.No one including a woman has any power over you unless you give it to them and if you ask any woman I think you'll find that its very unatractive for a man to relinqish his power to her unless shes into bondage or something..lol..If youve been getting rejected for years its because you keep doing the same things and getting the same results.I used to think that by doing something harder it would change things for example You ask a woman out and she says No and you say please shes still gonna say no and if you continue to say please she'll probably continue to say no and in the end you look like a begging wuss which is very unattractive to women.Change what you are doing if you are getting rejected dont just try the same things harder because it wont work | |
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| THE TYPE OF MEN TO AVOID.....
Posted: 2/26/2006 6:49:02 AM | | Yeah but what kind of women are these that send this sicko marriage proposals? Do they even count as women? Would you want to attract one of them? theres one sure way to really find out what women like and dislike its complicated but the best way to determine what women want is ASK THEM. | |
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| THE TYPE OF MEN TO AVOID.....
Posted: 2/26/2006 7:42:24 AM | Every situation is different AND women make the final decision if they want to date you...that is where the power lies...men do not because women are not asking the men out they are expecting the men to ask them out and they can say no easily and walk away.
Some guys like you it is easy to approach and ask women out...but not all men are like you^^^I hope you do realize this. You may be the strong guy they all adore and want...hey good stuff but not all men are desired to be with, many are just good to be a fun cool guy to hang out with. Can't change women's minds when they make the decisions and if they got many men chasing them, you better match up in looks or else you are coming up short. | |
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| THE TYPE OF MEN TO AVOID.....
Posted: 2/28/2006 2:29:58 AM | Thats not always true man I mean they make the final desission on weather they date you or not But you have an influence in that.And it matters how ya look but you can overcome that to.You ask any woman If there was a descent average guy with a personality next to a buff guy without one and guess who they'll pick? You are right to a point but they'd rather have a guy thats genuine and original than one thats run of the mill even if hes good looking.Im not an expert or anything but i have dated some pretty hot women and it wasnt because of my looks.I used to think like you do man but not anymore.Change what you are doing and you'll get different results.You cant expect a sexy intelligent woman to want you if you walk up to her and say "hey your hot can we go out sometime?" Because that happens to them at least 5 timnes a day.A woman I dated once told me she felt like a circus freak because everywhere she went men ogled her and the ones with the guts to approach her all said the same cheesey things.And we wonder why pretty women seem to be stuck up ****es..lol..Think about it man.How would you like to be stared at and harrassed everywhrere ya went by dorks with nothing original to say that wouldnt know what to do If ya said yes? | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/28/2006 3:58:25 AM | | theres not 8 types of guys women love But heres some #1 The Bad boy Outlaw..This kinda guy excites them.#2 Romeo He romantic and sweet and they love it but not a wuss.#3 Adventuresome guy.Loves to travel and takes um places#4 Artist or musically talented ever wonder why women like rock stars?..lol..#5 Rich guy #6Gay guy totally understands women and they feel safe with him.Asl any women If you dont think this list is accurate...lmao | |
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| THE TYPE OF MEN TO AVOID.....
Posted: 2/28/2006 4:00:42 AM | | Damn Flux I think you are the most negative guy on here..lol.No wonder your single and cant find a woman | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/28/2006 7:03:10 AM | Props to you!!! You hit the nail on the head. I am just a woman...but I know whiney, hypersensitive men....you gotta avoid them at all costs....cuz they have tendency to hang on and hang on...no matter how nice you try to turn them away....they don;t hear it....always want something they know they can;t have....women do it too....the bigger the a##hole...the more we want 'em...we just KNOW we can change them...I, thankfully, have outgrown the juvenile crap. But WEAK men...that we can run over....GROSS! I will just leave those men for the women that use men for what they can get...one of those women finds a WEAK man with a BIG................bank account....he is in BIG TROUBLE...of course, some men don;t care....just to have a woman pay attention to them...poor stupid WEAK man!
Not you dude, ya seem pretty uuuuhhhhhh....confident...except for the pic thing. ha ha | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/28/2006 7:18:59 AM | but women want one thing first PHYSICAL ATTRACTION,
and isn't that what also attracts men first? I am certain there is a woman either at your work, at your local bar or at your (activity of choice) who is someone that you have connected with and who's company you enjoy who would love to date you but the thought of dating here really doesn't appeal to you because you don't find her all that physically attractive. She makes a great friend but not sure you would actually wanna jump her bones.
Why does it have to be different for women? because for many years society has hounded into our heads that men are visual creatures while women only see personality? guess what, we are just as much visual creatures as you men are, sorry to rain on the parade. 
I'll give you this much though I do believe women are more willing to overlook certain physical aspects moreso than men. | |
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| THE TYPE OF MEN TO AVOID.....
Posted: 2/28/2006 6:08:09 PM | Damn Flux I think you are the most negative guy on here..lol.No wonder your single and cant find a woman
^^ i agree....an a new nic to boot..lol | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
Posted: 2/28/2006 6:14:20 PM | I've read most of (not all of) the posts on this thread ...even contributed earlier on ...
But I have to say ... Luckeeu ... you get it!!!! Finally ... a man who gets it!!!!!
I read your latest posts and agree with 95% of it ... (I just don't happen to be a woman who will take advantage of anyone's weaknesses ... ie. I don't walk over someone just because I can ... I'm just not wired that way). But the points you make about how we are not just attracted to the pretty boys, or the one's with money ... and how we look at a man's confidence and individuality first ... that's sooooooooooo true! 
I always say ... the more attracted I am to a man's mind and soul, the more attractive his outward appearance becomes to me. And I hate being lumped into this generalization that "all women" just want the "perfect" man. In fact, I can't think of one woman in my circle of friends who would qualify as one of those women. So I treat it like an urban myth. 
I don't care if he's overweight, or bald, or has missing teeth or a wooden leg ... what does any of that matter?!!!! The fact is, the majority of us have normal, unremarkable bodies ... very few of us belong in fashion magazines and most of us have body attributes we really hate.
What matters is if our personalities, lifestyles, morals, and sense of humor connect ... that's the spark I look for. The rest just builds from there. 
And ... BTW ... most outward appearances can be changed ... with a little dedication and work, most of us can do what it takes to make us comfortable with our body parts. And a new "love interest" can be a great motivator !!!  | |
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| Type of woman men avoid
Posted: 2/28/2006 6:46:56 PM | The know-it-all
This woman thinks she knows everything about everybody and isn't afraid to tell anyone who has the patience to sit through her witless tirades. On a date she doesn't shut up and constantly confuses her misguided opinions as facts.
Why she is unappealing: She doesn't seem to notice that she is making an ass out of herself by making assumptions about people that she doesn't even know. If she's so picky about other people why can't she do something about her own faults, like whining too much?
What to do if you're that woman: You really need to go back to school and learn about people, behaviour, socialization, and cultural influences. | |
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Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 148 | |
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| You've truly made my night, and I thank you !
Posted: 2/28/2006 9:48:34 PM | Let's see the "type" of guy to avoid like a plague...
how about ALL guys... better to be safe than sorry, right?!?!?!
Sorry Ladies... to burst your bubble & fantasy of the proverbial "HAPPY ENDING" incl. the White Picket Fence and the 2.5 kids, but from my past dating/rel. experiences, which I have to admit have now made me a certified expert on the subject, I am the Canadian female version of Dr. Phil and having stated my qualifications...
I have come to the determination & realization after many long hard years of doing research in the dating field that 99.9% of guys out there if they are NOT already... will inevitably and as sure as the sun will come out tomorrow...
fall into 1 or more of these categories:
the "PLAYER", the "Poser", the "Workoholic", the "Alcoholic", the "Cheater",
the "Liar-Manipulator", the "Commitment Phobic", the "Germaphobic",
the "Just-Another-Notch-On-My-Belt Guy", the "Pretending-to-be-Single-but-Really-Married" guy, the "Mommys Boy", the "Verbally and/or Physically Abusive Guy",
the "Gambler", the "Junkie", the "Emotionally Unavailable Guy", the "Just Friends Guy",
the "I wanna f***-all-your-friends-Guy", the "Ex-Convict Guy", the "Stalker",
the "Nut-Job Guy" , the "Chronically-Unemployed Couch-Potato Guy",
the Addicted-to-Porn" guy, and my very own personal fav....
the "Sucks-Really-Bad-In-Bed Guy"
so Ladies... I implore you, do yourselves all a favour and just Give Up!!! Stop Fishin!!!
or at the very least just go ahead and switch over to the other "Team"...
I mean come on you're already "familiar" with the "Equipment" because you have access to the "Equipment" 24 hrs a day. I'll be honest and this is gonna p** alot of you men out there off... I'll see alot of you guys out there & just look at you & look at the attractive women out there.... and you know what I'll be thinking... I'm thinking damn... you guys are so utterly pathetic (see above list) or physically unappealing... that if it came down to it...
I'd rather have sex with myself or with another one of these attractive women than to take a chance and get involved with you.
Why would I risk it... think about it LOGICALLY!!!
think about the odds... do you still really think they are in your favour?!?!
Do you think that you are going to come on this site, or other such like-minded Internet Dating Sites and meet your "Soulmate". Do you guys really think that your "Soulmate" is just sitting in front of his lil' computer screen every day waiting & saying to himself...
"Today's the Day... my future wife is on POF, just waiting for me to send her an email"
do you guys really think that there is such a thing as a "Soul Mate"... gice your pretty lil' heads a shake & please wake up to the cold harsh reality called "Real Life".
you guys can all consider yourselves lucky if you get a "Mate"... someone to go out to dinner with, go to a movie and then come home and f*** with.
that's it... that's all anyone ever gets... just a "Mate" to spend the rest of their miserable lives with.... someone to stop having sex with... someone that will irritate you at every waking minute of the day... and inevitably just grow old with & then die.
and the sooner you guys all accept this the sooner the happier you'll all be.
girls just accept the fact that guys are stupid dolts....
men just accept the fact that women are stupid dolts...
it's that simple... when it comes to "LOVE" and "Matters of the Heart" ...
we are all just stupid puppies trying to get a bone.
we don't know what we're doing out here in "La-la-Land".
we tell our gf's:"Ohhhhhh i chatted with Mr. Wonderful last nite... he IM'd me and judging by some words on a page & his hot profile pic (yes, it's a recent pic).... I can tell that he is just Perfect for me....
ooohhhh I'm gonna go out on a 1st date with him tom. nite & it's gonna be
"Love at First Site"... I can tell just by what he "tells me" in all our emails and IM's.... he's "The One" ... I can feel it deep deep down in my very Core Being and with every fibre in my body to the never-regions of my panties"
Here's THE TRUTH... no one knows from just "looking" at someone's profile on here and some mutual light-hearted email banter and instant messages...
WHAT TYPE OF PERSON SOMEONE REALLY IS!!!
there only words on a page...
there only photos (a pic could be 10 yrs old for heaven's sake!!!!)
the pic could be cut out from a fashion magazine!!!
unless you make an effort to go out and meet the person in REAL LIFE and get to know them before you have sex with them and move in with them after only 2 weeks...
you never know WHO SOMEONE REALLY IS!!!
knowing someone takes time.... more importantly and listen up.... LOVE TAKES TIME!!!!!
it just won't happen instantly!!!
What is it about our society today where everyone's mentality revolves around what's fast & easy... everyone wants that "Quick fix".... everyone wants to meet Mr. Right, Mrs. Right.
Life is funny... things happen when you least expect it. Usually when you've stopped "looking"
you could meet that special someone walking down the street in your crappy lil' redneck town.
you could meet them at the Grocery store.
did you guys ever stop & think that maybe there's a reason you're not meeting "The One"... do you really think you're "Cursed"... trust me "Curses" don't work... there's no such thing Kris,lol!!! I know cause I"ve tried to put a curse on all my ex-a***ole BF's and it didn't work.
Even paid a Gypsy Fortune Teller I ran into downtown and she promised me that my ex would fall down and die, after of course contracting an incurable disease that would cause his lil' prick to rot & fall off but it didn't happen.
Life is funny that way, you never know what's gonna happen to you. The only thing that is a "sure thing" is that life never stays the same... "change" is the only concrete constant.
The Reality is that the other person on here who you're messaging back & forth with could turn out to be a good friend, a great bed buddy, your next bf or gf, or "The One".
Or they could also turn out to be the Biggest "Nightmare" of your Life.
Let's just all use a lil' good ole' fashioned common sense.  | |
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