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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/21/2006 6:31:09 PM | | If anything fits me it's the fact that I am predictable. I'm 50 so I'm probably set in my way's. I didn't realize how predictable I was until last month when I sat down for saturday morning breakfast with my crew and the waitress said "your usual". I didn't think anything until checked my comm log and realized how plain I am. After bombing out on my last date I figure you're right 'we're all ****ed'. [She was ideal too]. I've really mellowed out in the past ten years. I believe in weighing what do I gain from my efforts. The way I looks nothing. Instead of being the kind of 'Guy Women Avoid' I may be better off just quitting dating. Face it. The effort I've spent dating could probably be better spent punching holes in the sky at Mach .95. Less heartbreak. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/21/2006 7:47:57 PM | | i think some of the people that women avoid might actually have some problems that might need help with. no one is perfect and some one could write exactly the same type of thing but reverse the roles with 8+ types of women that men avoid.... | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/21/2006 8:20:56 PM | | Well, I wouldn't say we're all f-----d; however, this is the general idea; is it not? After all, it certainly seems to be the ultimate endeavor when you can't be yourself. Curious, is there anything they're suppose to do to impress men? No, I meant the other thing (smartass), such as show some viable interests in what we like. What we feel is viably worth the effort. I mean really; men fall for this stuff, then walk away, scratching their head, wondering why women sleep with women. Whenever I read how we're suppose to be on our very best behavior, I almost have to vomit; I mean really, whoever said ladies have the market on ethics? | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 3:29:37 PM | A-Men Smallhagrid! In my experiences I've found that women don't want the "nice guy" they so often claim to be looking for. If a guy's chivalrous, honest and up front he's passed up for some clown that has a fancy car (and the huge payments that go with it), shallow personality and only cares about what he's going to get from her tonight. Women have already told me that there are few good women left. I've also been told women don't want "nice guys". More than enough women told me this, enough to convince me that it's they and not me that have the problem. It's their soap opera mentality and not my "nice guy" attitude that's the problem. I doubt anyone will come up with an "8 types of women to avoid". Every woman out there will cry "woman bashing". Still, if someone does I have a few I can add to it. I've also noted that women like to label a guy as "bitter" way too easily. I guess we're not allowed to learn from experiences and use that knowledge to avoid bad experiences. We get labeled and disgarded in the first few seconds of meeting a woman without any reasonable chance of redemption and more often than not passed up for some jerk who they later complain about. Makes real sense doesn't it? :p | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 3:40:03 PM | Well.. my standards aren't quite so high.... *wink* The following are the types that I suggest women avoid. 1) The Cling-on 2) The self-righteous prick 3) The anal retentive 4) The Mid-life crisis guy 5) The compensator 6) The MARRIED DUDE 7) The Momma's boy 8) The small peckered man 9) THe stinky binky 10) The Cheap B&stards.....
I of course, happen to always end up with one or the others... *sigh*... C'est la vie!!!! A bien tot!
PS. I M waiting for my prince.. and will continue to do so... heheh shouldn't be much longer anyways.. .I hope***** | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 4:01:16 PM |
dang you got the list almost all covered...
but ...the mental midget.....the guy who cant put 5 words together in a sentence but thinks he is interesting to talk to.
yup makes for a good napper | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 4:15:57 PM | Okay, I couldn't resist posting on this topic because I think everyone is at least a little of some or all of these, guys and girls included, nobody is innocent. The difference is, the decent ones are aware of these traits in themselves and try not to let it interfere with their lives and relationships - and they're probably fairly successful for the large part. The rest either don't realise they're doing it or don't care that they're doing it. Maybe one day, they'll be taught the error of their ways.
I think someone should start the 8 types of girls guys avoid...but I think you'd probably find that it's the same list. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 4:42:24 PM | Damnit, ran out of time to write my post...I should stop proof reading and just post:
Okay, I couldn't resist posting on this topic because I think everyone is at least a little of some or all of these, guys and girls included, nobody is innocent. The difference is, the decent ones are aware of these traits in themselves and try not to let it interfere with their lives and relationships - and they're probably fairly successful for the large part. The rest either don't realise they're doing it or don't care that they're doing it or don't know how to do anything about it. Maybe one day, they'll be taught the error of their ways.
I think at the end of the day though everyone wants to be liked, and given the option if we knew we had those undesirable traits, we'd do something about them. I for one know that I like to have friends around me all the time and this can be perceived as needy, but I go out of my way to go do things on my own so they can get some hang time without me. To the point that I moved to another country, got more friends and actually learned to enjoy time on my own. Actually, it's kind of liberating...it challenges your comfort zone, I like it.
I think someone should start the 8 types of girls that guys avoid...but I think you'd probably find that it's the same list.
1). Girls that think they're interesting but whose lives revolve around music videos, celebrities and shopping. This is the type that care about how much money you make and whether you're likely to be able to get them on Oprah...in your big shiny Lexus.
2). Girls that given the choice would spend every night at the bar...and whose soul purpose at the bar is to get as much alchohol down their throats as they can take without dying.
3). Girls that talk constantly and don't even seem to need to take a moment to breathe. We like a girl to feel like she's appreciated, and we want you to talk. Talk time is important, but if we need oxygen to keep up...
4). "Guys are all pricks and ***holes" types...we're not all like that and if you're too hung up on the negative behaviour of society and never appreciate the positive, we don't want to be around you bringing us down constantly. Don't get me wrong, you're allowed to have some down time where it pisses you off and upsets you, everyone needs to vent from time to time, and we're not telling you that you don't have the right to do that - but if this is your soul purpose in life, spare us the aggravation and go to confession.
5). The "Why would you think you're good enough to talk to me" types...if you think you're all that just because you were brought up like a princess, go to Tibet, maybe Buddha can teach you some humility.
6). "The Librarian" - Before librarians the world over get a hate on with me, that was the best I could come up with for a title, I'm sure their are many attractive, sexy, sweet and adventurous librarians out there. I'm talking about the stereotype - the stuffy, uptight and boring girl that would rather have her head buried in a book 24x7 than learn life for herself and share some adventure time with us.
7). The girl that will gives the impression that she'll sleep with any guy...or girl at the bar. I don't want to find out after the fact that you've slept with my best friend or brother.
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Okay, I'm out of types of girls that guys don't like to date. Help me out here. Before you girls get up in arms about my comments, I'm aware that a lot of girls are sweet and demure and adorable. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 5:08:24 PM | Ocean Wanderer: LOVE your list...have a good series of chuckles, esp the princess/get thee to Tibet: LOL.
'askmen.com', while having a number of interesting points, tends to over generalize and caricature and cluster both sexes into categories too easily and too quickly...not saying it doesn't have it's merit...but go on their website, for example: their rules for dating a woman are gamey/strategy focused on the guy maintaing control and the upper hand...sure we want to be respected, and sure we all have our insecurities, but I tend to just try to relax and go with the flow in a date/relationship--although I'm pretty open and articulate, I always try to be positive and keep some humour in any given situation....vs so many of their strategies which is to not call for days on end (3 day rule) be unpredicatable and keep her on her toes not knowing who you are, yada yada yada ...or if you're going to move in together make sure SHE is the one doing the asking, and NOT you the guy.
Whatever!...rules and 'guidelines' like those only make the more optimistic of us closet cynics towards dating...who needs that?
Take calling after a date, for example: I generally call the next day as a courtesy call , you know something like ''Hey, thanks, had a nice time with you...(and if I'm interested will add) 'will call again later this wk or next wk'' that's it..on with my life and activities/friends, workload, etc etc etc.
Now if the woman likes email, esp on POD/cyberdating, then God help the poor thing , because email to me is like IM: I'm very expressive and sometimes will just fire a number of ideas off....a large number of women who like to engage me in great banter are totally cool with that (safer than cell calling for the first little while, I guess in her books)...but a very small number, however, aren't (then bye bye!, you're not for me!)....but I let them know that....esp on POF, man it can get crazy here with alot of email back and forth...but 'tis cool, too IF you openly communicate such about yourself.
So the long and short of it: while I do agree that there are tips to be had, take them with a grain of salt: most of us are a little more complex than such categorizations warrant, and at different points of our life, too.
Cheers Joe | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 5:29:56 PM | Ooh ooh, I got an 8
8). The Bum - They have no ambition or dreams, they just want to sit around all day and smoke pot and bullshit about the meaning of life instead of being out there finding out what the meaning of life is. Their soul purpose in life is to promote the use of the world's most overlooked miracle crop - hemp. Which admittedly may be a miracle crop, but I'm not going to lose sleep if the worlds governments don't start mass-marketing it and I'm not going spend my whole evening discussing it. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/25/2006 5:40:24 PM | 3 more types of girls that guys SHOULD avoid
9)-'suntan intervention needed girl' - the white girl that needs to be the color of a tanned leather couch to feel sexy. When she is 40 they will call her 'beef jerky woman'
10)-hoochy mama /size queen- she is the sexy mini skirt girl going home with the bouncer from the bar............this week. Throw here back, you don't want her
11)- the frumpy girl that looks like 'Meg' from 'Family Guy'
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| You've truly made my night, and I thank you ! Posted: 6/25/2006 5:42:23 PM | It would appear that many men and woman fall so far on one of these extremes, that true marital happiness is practically impossible. Of course, I would hope there are women there who recognize that each of these attributes in moderation can be useful to have. So many of these attributes are polar opposites of each other, that the true narrow happy path leaves little breathing room except a boring lifestyle. Come on, who isn't needy some of the time? Who doesn't look out for their own self interest some of the time? I guess the only people who could have ever gotten married are Mother Theresa and Martin Luther King by these standards :-)
It is my humble opinion, that the needy women and men need to ask themselves, are they willing to compromise? If they are, both people need to recognize it. I see many who do recognize it, so even these generalities need to go out the window.
How many people here on Plenty of Fish are willing to recognize it?
Goodness. Next time you blame people for being too self righteous, look at yourself.
It is useless to generalize, because then you are stereotyping. Read Stephen Jay Gould's "The Mismeasurement of Man" | |
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| You've truly made my night, and I thank you ! Posted: 6/25/2006 10:10:39 PM | you forgot
9) the fat skanky types wearing a tight mini skirt or tight jeans with rolls of fat hanging out and they think thats sexy pukkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee | |
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| You've truly made my night, and I thank you ! Posted: 6/26/2006 2:59:32 AM | jimmysmash^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I was trying to forget about that one yup nothing like an 20 yr old white women wearing low rider jeans that are too small for her with her belly just rolling over.............
I have almost done a 'fashion intervention' IE gone up to her and said "I am sure you are very nice as a person, but those lo rider jeans are not working for you"
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| You've truly made my night, and I thank you ! Posted: 6/26/2006 7:57:41 AM | Yee Ha! I get to add mine. You missed "the addict"; She who can't live without her drugs, gambling, booze, cigarettes, chewing tobacco (yes, I've met a few of these ), caffiene, pop, chocolate, doughnuts, soap operas or other things that they'll happily spend your future to support. Then there's "the neurotic"; She who'll happily bounce 4 glasses off the back of your head while you're running for cover and finish her tirade off with a knife sticking into the door you just hid behind and all because you came home (or came to pick her up) 15 minutes later than you said you would. She carries 3 cans of mace, 2 knives a brick and a 357 magnum in her purse. Not to ward off a would-be attacker, but to deal with some poor guy who's desperate enough to begin dating her. How about "the biker queen"; She's rough, she's tough and she'll out ride, out shoot, out spit and out B.S. any man until she makes her point... Whatever that may be. She's the one who tries so hard to be a guy that she probably would have saved more money getting a sex change operation than using the methods she does. She's the harley babe, the bull riding momma, the aformentioned tobacco chewer, the "lady" hotrodder, the supergirl mechanic. She's the one who was voted "the most likely to pick you up on *her* harley". She's gets upset that you bought her jewelry instead of a new set of Snap-on tools for her birthday. Her makeup is a mixture of lithium grease, crankcase oil, gun powder, chewing tobacco spit (had to throw that one in ), dirt, smegma and anything else she feels she has to have on to look like a guy. (I guess you can tell I'm having fun with this one). Her clothing consists of anything with "harley" on it, chevy's are #1 hats and tee shirts, torn jeans, greasy jeans, tobacco stained jeans , plaster encrusted jeans, Army style boots and occasionally a hanky wrapped around her leg. Calamity Jane would have loved this girl, someone has to because I won't. Her motto is "Anything guys can do I can do better". I still haven't seen one of these write their name in the snow with their yellow ink better than a guy can yet. "The Roseanne Barr wannabes". This one is self described. (kack!) "The Rosie O'Donnel (sp) wannabes". Same here. "The Ellen Degeneress wannabes". Again, self described. Sheesh! I can go on and on. All a woman has to be is a lady and most every decent guy will love them. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/26/2006 8:14:36 AM | | my experiances of what my ladyfriends avoid 1)mr nice guy 2) mr i wont sex you the first date 3)mr honesty 4)mr i trust you 5)mr i actually pay child supprt 6)mr ive never been in trouble with the law 7)mr best friend 8) ME | |
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| You've truly made my night, and I thank you ! Posted: 6/26/2006 10:24:35 AM | all i can say to this is thank god that while everyone is entitled to their own opinion, opinions are not facts. instead of being upset because someone doesnt like something about your personality why not find someone who does like that about your personality? there r what roughly 7-8 billion people in this world? i might be wroung but i doubt that anyone here has something so unlikable about them that out of all the people in this world they cant find someone who will like them for who they are. but again it is just my opinion n not a fact  | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/26/2006 5:37:13 PM | Every single thread I read is either one with women with their own personal issues or it's a Male Bashing thread! I would love to see a woman who can get up on top of an observation post and see things on the other side and stand up in our defense...
Its funny when faced with the truth, how many deny it, some accept it, and a very few are actually willing to stand up and fix what is wrong...
Any thread I've ever seen started by a woman always gets support not only from women, but men as well, and yet most threads where a man is having a problem, its automatically his own fault and gets bashed by both men AND women! Wow, this is just sad...Its really sad what society expects of men and of women... Do we really want a society with more unguided bitter men running around? Because if so, we'll be seeing a lot more women coming in here with their rants and more man bashing. | |
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/26/2006 5:44:15 PM | Here's my addition to Women that Men should avoid....taken from another site
A recent survey revealed that fifty two percent of men date for intimacy. Men are looking for that “someone” to get romantically involved with and a potential mate for life.
There are women that a man should avoid dating. Here are signs to watch out for:
1. The overly feminist. This type of woman assumes and believes man is the cause of all the pains and suffering of a society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the correct way”.
Men would not want to spend some time with these types of women, anything that a man will do will always be negative to them. They can never be pleased by a man.
2. The material girl. She is just after the money! These types of women are “high maintenance”. They not just expect, but often demand that a man should finance all her luxuries in life. To her, the man has the responsibility to pay for dinners, drinks, trips, jewelry, flowers etc. while she absolutely feels compulsion or guilt to reciprocate.
Simply put, she is a prostitute in disguise. She is a greedy person, having no perception of the feelings of others and her only concern is achieving and obtaining things that she wants. Never be fooled; some appear to be really nice at first, until they know that you would do anything for them. Then the asking for material things starts!
3. The hopeless romantic. These women live inside a perfect world of romance in novels, where love and relationships are perfect and her night and shining armor will always come and they will live happily ever after. She has always been pampered by her and considered a "princess," thus have no idea that what the real life is. She will expect the man to take care of her constantly and that all her wishes be given; if not, she can turn out to be a screaming nag.
4. The angry girl. Similar to the feminist, she actually hates men. They often look down on men accounting a long list of all the injustice and transgressions of every guy that they shared a relationship with. To her, all men are "creeps", "pigs." and jerks. These women have boiling rage at men that can, at any given moment explode.
5. The insecure Miss. They will seem to be very pleasant, loving and accommodating at first, treating men very well. Later, when all her innermost insecurities go up the surface, she can be annoyingly calling the man she is dating at least ten times a day, asking where are you, or that she just missed your voice.
This woman demands frequent and persistent reassurance that you love her and you find her attractive; because of this insecurity, she worries continuously about her hair, make up, clothes etc. She can be clingy, needing constant attention and insistently torments you with her thoughts that you will leave her soon if you find someone better.
6. The abstract or elusive type. She is romantic but with a mysteriously dark side. She has been hurt in past relationships and has not gone over it. These bad experiences drive her to subconsciously stay way from or damage her new relationship.
She will be very frustrating to deal with, as at first, she will show a lot of interest with the man, however runs away very quickly; she will repeat this cycle again and again. She will date and flirt with the man, but will insist that they both remain as friends.
7. The desperate Miss. She is desperate to get married. She does not even choose to know the man; she just wants to trap him and bring him to the nearest altar!
8. The controlling type. She can be very nasty in a very subtle way, but when given the opportunity, will direct each phase of a man’s life. She will always have a “say” as to what the man wears, where must the man go, who should the man talk to, who can a man have as friends, what a man can and can not eat; as in everything! The man can not insist on his own rights or else, there will be no sex, a lot of crying, screaming, pouting and everything just so the man will give in.
To all men, careful!
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| 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 6/26/2006 5:48:03 PM | I dont see any of those bitter old ones in here now talking SHYZA, where'd they go? HAHAHAHA! Come read this ladies, you got some weed in your side of the green...Fess up and we'll mow your lawn! LMAO | |
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