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Posted: 2/14/2006 6:09:16 PM | No you can't give his name here!! I don't know if they will kick you out or just slap your hands...but they don't like it. And I can understand why...some people wouldn't think much of making up stories about other users just because "things didn't work out" for them. You see people on here all the time posting threads just for the shock factor and sitting back watching people freak out about it!!! Some people just have nothing better to do with their time!!!!
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Posted: 2/14/2006 6:11:37 PM | But did it occur to anyone that perhaps the "slipper outter" could have just been doing this for a friend who was the "bar guy" who really wanted to meet you. I mean I never would have saw this but I just read it in a romance novel. The "bad guy" is a set up for the "alleged" good guy and that is how they meet chicks (so writes the romance novel author)
Who knows........maybe it could become your "funny" wedding story some day.....
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Posted: 2/14/2006 7:00:59 PM | Krikey!
I thought I'd heard it all yesterday, but NOW I've heard it all.
The guy was a schmuck HairDo, no two ways about it. I've never done that nor would I. I've had some uncomfortable first dates, but sheesh, what a tool to not even stick it out and pay, AT LEAST his share... | |
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Posted: 2/14/2006 7:43:11 PM |
But did it occur to anyone that perhaps the "slipper outter" could have just been doing this for a friend who was the "bar guy" who really wanted to meet you.
I did actually think that....but don't want to paint the good guy with the bad guy's brush!!!
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Posted: 2/14/2006 9:16:12 PM | I had something happen to me similar to that..but not exactly..this guy and i had been chatting online for about 2 weeks..every day and on the phone..we decided we wanted to meet..he had asked what i wanted to do and i knew he loved homemade lasagna, so i invited him over for some..he was really excited..now we had talked, viewed each others cams, seen pics of each other..so there was no surprise..i went got all the stuff i needed..spent hours making the sauce, and then putting it all together..he came, we talked for like 20 minutes, and i asked him.."did u park in the visitor parking" (where i live we have strict parking rules for residents and visitors..if u park in someone's parking place and r not a resident u will be towed)..he said "oh i think so, let me check while u check on the lasagna" i did, waited for 15 minutes before i went to see if he got lost..the creep left!!!! couldnt call me on the phone and tell me he didnt want to be there just left..a few weeks later he contacts me online and tells me that he just didnt get the feeling that i would be the "desert" he wanted and that was what he was really looking for....so he left instead of wasting his time eating the dinner i had spent time making..oh well his loss..my best friends brother came over, smelled what i made, and we ended up spending the nite together watching movies and eating lasagna..so it wasnt a total waste..but still what a creep...
im sorry u went thru that...
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Posted: 2/14/2006 11:38:53 PM | Hey Jeopardy; yes for sure but either way; you got a nice guy out of the deal. Funny how "good karma" works things out.
Happy V day!
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Posted: 2/15/2006 12:06:59 AM | Nothing against you personally but I have been in a "run, Forest run" situation before but I never bolted like that.
That's just low, very low. Sorry to here it's happened to you. At least he did it now and not later with all your stuff. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2006 9:20:48 AM |
The funny part is he told me his last name and where he lived until recently.......I have friends that work for the police department
And the police need to be involved for what reason?
Did you ever consider that maybe the guy at the bar , and Mr. Slipout may have been together in this. Maybe he was Cyrano ....lol | |
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Posted: 2/15/2006 1:07:33 PM | well the guy at the bar went to school with me for a brief period and come to find out I work with his sister....soooooooooooooo you still think he was a partner in crime? Anyway.I am happy with the turnout. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2006 3:28:26 PM | Hey Hairdo,
I am glad it worked out. I still like the "romance" novel theory. The guy could have set it up that way regardless of if you worked with his sister. Perhaps he didn't want to approach you before etc etc and perhaps especially if there were "sister" connections to you somehow. Its a bit of a conspiracy/romance theory..... but anything is possible.... some food for thought.... if not anything else if a guy went to that much trouble to date you its pretty flattering for you.....if not he's still a nice guy.  | |
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Posted: 2/15/2006 3:59:57 PM | | hmmmmm believe it or not women do it too...i was with my friends at a bar just got off of work anyway three guys were there so one of them decided to send one of my friends a drink so i told her go there and thank him ...she did not want to do it being a princess and all the guy was not that great looking is what her answer was i said ummm does it really matter...he was kind enough to buy you a drink so be respectful so she said ok but you must come with me so i did well one of the guys for some reason he was good looking decided to talk with me ...he decided to start buying all of us drinks to make a long story short he gave me his number and he had a really nice jacket on which i liked very much he decided to give it to me and he said when i see you again you can give it back ....well i could have done it but guilt got in the way because i knew i was not going to call him.....so i took it off and told him its ok you can have it then i offered to pay for some of the bill and he said no ...the moral of this story is i could have done that but well it was not in me to do that ...just know that women do think of doing the same as men do lol | |
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Posted: 2/15/2006 5:00:39 PM | | The moral of an education is to learn punctuation..........my head hurts now. | |
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Posted: 2/16/2006 10:24:39 AM | | Well hairdo, if you wait long enough people will show you who they truly are... good thing you didn't have to wait to long eh. Since he didn't waste any time showing you his underbelly of a slug character post haste didn't he!!! I wonder if today when his mind drifts back to that night if he feels ashamed. Live and learn I guess. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 12:17:23 PM |
It's never happened to me because I won't meet any guy in person until I have his full name , home address and home telephone number. I check all for authenticity before I ever meet a guy from any of the Personals sites.
why would i give you MY full name, address, and home telly? Do you disclose the same information? That sounds pretty retarded. Anyone who thinks "oh i met him online so i have to be extra cautious"  is just a fool. It may be just me but i swear crimes against women were being commited before there was internet, when guys met women face to face only. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 1:40:29 PM | LadyG ~ I'm sorry but I just had to say something here to you. You invited a man you never met before into your home? What were you thinking??? Please promise us you will be more careful in the future! The results could have been much worse than an uneaten lasagna. :(
I always set the grounds rules for payment before the date, on the phone. I tell the guy that I will pay my share of the meal/drinks/coffee/whatever. I tell him that we are both taking a chance and there is no reason why we shouldn't share the financial cost as well.
Invariably, they are ALL very nice guys and won't allow me to even the bill, let along pay anything. And it's a bit of a hint to me if they do ask for money from me for the bill. I take that as a sign that they are not interested and I'm usually right! No mystery there ... | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 4:00:16 PM | | Hairdo, I'd like an update.....damn, I read this whole thread and felt like a happy ending (or beginning as it were) might be in the offing. So, how's it been going?? | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 6:48:43 AM | What she is gone..... what oh dang. I wanted to get an update. I hope she is dating the "rescuer" man an update would have been great. Hey does someone know how to search if there was a sucess story or whatever posted somewhere. Geez, its like missing the end of a movie....
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Posted: 3/6/2006 8:58:52 AM | i have never done that to a date, but i have women friends that tell me that when they go on a date, before they get there they will tell a friend to "wiat about 30 mins. and then call my cell phone and if the date is going bad, i'll use the cell call as a excuse to leave the date"
now come on, isnt that the same as a man slipping out the backdoor on his date?
if the date isnt going good, shouldnt people be adult enough to say"look, this isnt working, lets just call it a night"
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Posted: 3/6/2006 7:19:27 PM | Maninla - No I dont think its just as bad. Because at least you are telling your date that you are leaving and they are not left sitting there to wonder what is going on. That way, they can pack up and leave with some dignity as well.
To the OP Wow - heres another point to the story - the guy was obviously using you for a free meal. I dont think its about you, rather a scam and he must be desitute, broke or obviously strapped for even small change - because in my books he stole from you. He stole his share of the cost of the food. I dont think it had anything to do with your dating potential at all
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Posted: 3/6/2006 8:00:12 PM | | lol, sounds like you got played bad, the two man woman pick up is a strong way to seduce a women, its also a common tatic in books on how to get women to sleep with you, one guy plays the jerk and the other the hero, this breaks down barriers faster than weeks of dating, so grats to the guy if that was the case cause they got you good, but sucks for you at least it gave you a story to post on here, | |
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