| He just slipped out
Posted: 3/6/2006 7:19:27 PM | Maninla - No I dont think its just as bad. Because at least you are telling your date that you are leaving and they are not left sitting there to wonder what is going on. That way, they can pack up and leave with some dignity as well.
To the OP Wow - heres another point to the story - the guy was obviously using you for a free meal. I dont think its about you, rather a scam and he must be desitute, broke or obviously strapped for even small change - because in my books he stole from you. He stole his share of the cost of the food. I dont think it had anything to do with your dating potential at all
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| He just slipped out
Posted: 3/6/2006 8:00:12 PM | | lol, sounds like you got played bad, the two man woman pick up is a strong way to seduce a women, its also a common tatic in books on how to get women to sleep with you, one guy plays the jerk and the other the hero, this breaks down barriers faster than weeks of dating, so grats to the guy if that was the case cause they got you good, but sucks for you at least it gave you a story to post on here, | |
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| He just slipped out
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:36:55 AM | Bluexrayz, if every single thing a man does is another tactic to get into a woman's pants then WTF should we believe anymore. Then men shouldn't complain that we chew on every single word, action and reaction a man does around us.  SOmetimes I wish I would be a lesbian or I should just become a f u c k e n nun and walk around on the streets with a huge billboard saying " Say no to men". Pesticide on u blue! | |
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| He just slipped out
Posted: 3/8/2006 1:11:48 AM | lol, do you think that a guy will do something for you unless he wants something in return, that something might just be a feeling that he has done something for someone else but more often than not its because he wants something more from this woman, also smart men will work on ways to make themselves more sucessful with women, ie the tatics i mention, every guy does it, dating and finding people can be hard, i think it is highly likely in this case that it was a setup but I wasnt there and cant tell you how it went down, maybe the poster was a werido and freaked the original guy out, maybe the second just was an opportunistic person, i dont know,
sounds like to me that you got issues HUN, a lot of guys will do stuff to get your pants but is that so bad, maybe a guy will marry you and love you to do that, others will simply use you for that, lol, its not like women dont use sex in general to get what they want or to use men for their own purposes, True Altruism is non existant in this world, sad but its the plain out truth, which leads me to belive your suggestion of being a lesbian wont work, im sure there are lesbians out there that will do the exact same things
so HUN you can try to pesticide me but im that one bug that be immune and will breed millions more :)
and ps I dont suggest you become a nun , not with a mouth like yours | |
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Posted: 3/15/2006 6:19:52 PM | the two man woman pick up is a strong way to seduce a women, its also a common tatic in books on how to get women to sleep with you, one guy plays the jerk and the other the hero, this breaks down barriers faster than weeks of dating
Isn't this how Jennifer Lopez's character got stuck with the abusive husband in the movie "Enough"? BTW, I love the fight scene at the end of that movie! Hehehe ... | |
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| He just slipped out
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:46:52 AM | [qoute]...some guy sends a friend in to see the girl, if she's a "Go" or not..
Isn't that why we post pictures?  | |
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| He just slipped out
Posted: 4/6/2006 10:05:25 AM |
...I am done with internet dating and also any dating sites,,
This also happened to me once, about 30 years ago - well before the Internet. And something similar happened recently with a guy from a different site, although after he paid for dinner. I've had some very lovely encounters since then. A jerk is a jerk and they don't limit themselves to the 'net or dating sites. If you'd met him in church, would you say you were done with dating men from church?
You know, lots of women do this, too. Someone here mentioned the call from the friend with an "emergency" from home; he's right. It's pretty common behavior from both sides of the gender gap.
You're actually very, very lucky. Yes, it's a very sleazy, low behavior. But he could have beaten you, raped you, killed you. Laugh it off, as I did both times, and don't paint every other man on this site (and the others) with the same brush.  | |
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| He just slipped out
Posted: 4/10/2006 8:43:52 PM | | I did that once at the movie theater. I DID pay for the tickets but she was just boring as **** and I wasn't horny enough to spend time with her after the movie. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2006 9:16:43 PM | | I was supposed to meet a guy at Brewsters but got stood up. The bartender bought me a drink and was really nice so I chatted with him for awhile. About a week later, another date stood me up and again the bartender bought me a drink. We joked about how I was only coming there for the free booze and that there really weren't any dates. The funny thing is that any time I go in the place and meet someone, I look at the bartender and he gives me a yea or nay signal as to whether or not he thinks it will work out. He hasn't been wrong yet. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2006 5:10:14 PM | | I just can't believe how low some people go. I'd get a hot girlfriend to "find" him and set up a date...go to a nice resturant order the most expensive thing on the menu..eat tell him she has to go to the bathroom...and ....leave.. all the while your in another booth watching and then walk by and say "paybacks are a bitch huh"...well ok that would be stooping to his level but revenge is swwwweeet! Next time face the door! thanks for opening my eyes! Mysta! | |
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Posted: 5/9/2006 12:00:28 PM | I have a new hero.
At the same time though i have a new idiot. I can;t believe that guy paid for you, he must be a flamer. | |
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| He just slipped out
Posted: 5/9/2006 1:15:14 PM | | I cant belive you have so much hair on your body casp. you need to flame that hair. | |
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