| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 10/17/2006 9:32:48 AM | So I completely expected this thread to be pages and pages of posts but it isn't. It makes me wonder if the word screw just didn't appeal to people or if it was the way the entire question was worded. I probably would have said something like...
What's your opinion on casual sex?
Then I would have answered it with the following...
Casual sex is good for some and not for others. Looking for sex? Go to the bar. Looking for a relationship that will eventually lead to physically intimacy? Look elsewhere! I don't have anything against casual sex as long as both people are aware that is what is going on.
Too often men say things they don't mean to get a woman into bed. Then they wonder why the girl keeps calling and freaking out when they don't call back. Well, you said you really liked her and wanted to keep seeing her and maybe even slipped in a "Your the kind of girl I could fall in love with." Then you just disappeared. Of course she freaked out. As far as she's concerned, you changed the game without telling her.
JUST BE HONEST. Tell her you are looking for a good screw. She is either into it or not. You might even discover a girl that would love to have a regular booty call and you can stop prowling the bars to get a piece. A regular partner, regardless of any emotion involved, is much better than a new one all the time because a regular partner will learn what makes you super hot! | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 10/23/2006 1:42:02 PM | | Yeah right that sound pretty screwed up form a not so honest guy who dose not live up to his profile and that comes form someone who did not deserve his rude bad treatment. Mean is something that can have a whole different, word and I hate to say it but I dont think you are looking for more then a cheap thrill..... | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 11/13/2006 6:40:14 AM | I'm guessing you're still in high school?
"Screwing" can leave you open to all sorts of complications, including pregnancy, Sexually-transmitted diseases, and many emotional complications.
Having sex is one of the most intimate things you can do with another human being.
You'll learn all this as you get older. Hopefully you won't hurt yourself or someone else on the way. | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 2/11/2007 3:26:35 PM | I find it slightly amusing that younger people seem to be in favor of just screwing while older people, presumably people who have done the 'making love' thing feel it is a much better way to go.
First of all, if all I wanted was an awesome orgasm...well, nobody pleases me like me. Guys, I don't need you to be sexually satsified. In fact, I found that quite a lot of guys are not so great lovers, despite their belief that they rule in the bedroom.
Without an emotional connection, without the whole 'making love' thing, sex is pretty substandard, even wild steamy sex. Big deal. Meaningless sex is just that.... meaningless. Blah. | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 9/9/2007 2:20:03 PM | Casual sex... no thank you. If I'm not in a relationship, I have the best sex in the world with anyone I want - In my mind - while I take care of business on my own.. I've slept with Matt Damon, Brad Pitt, the cute guy I saw in the grocery store, whomever I want... all without the worry about pregnancy, disease, etc.. and they were all great - making love to me just the way I like it - the mind is a powerful thing... LOL
Making love with someone in a committed relationship is where it is at... hands down. It takes a while to really get to know someone... and part of the richness of a committed relationship is learning more and more about them as time goes by... learning how to please them, them learning how to please you - it's about wanting to give to another, sharing with another, creating something very special.
I believe that people who engage in casual sex and claim that "it's better, hassle free, etc..." are only fooling themselves, and perhaps fearful they are not good enough to find someone special.
To those who claim they only sleep with people who are "clean".. I find it hard to believe you've gotten a doctors note from them. In addition, an HIV test is not 100% unless it is done twice, with a six month window free of risky behavior in between. I doubt people who engage in casual sex are waiting six months in between for their "clean bill of health". | |
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libbyv
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Joined: 8/17/2005
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 9/9/2007 6:54:16 PM | I would rather be with someone that cares about me. I'm not a casual person. And I do not take anything lightly. That includes sex.
If a guy wants a thrill. Go bother someone else. I also believe that more people need to practice safe sex and use a condom regularly. As well, I have heard that HIV tests are not 100% accurate unless done twice in a six month period.
Casual sex is a very dangerous game for people to play,. Think twice before having sex just because you want to. Use the brain that you were given!  | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 9/13/2007 11:46:39 AM | this has NOTHING wat so ever to do with people just "screwing" though now that i think about it.......screwing is just settleing for second best.....im sorry been there done that........its not fun.....and certainly not for me....u dont knwo who your partners been with and who THEIR partners been with.....anywho......as far as this seduction thingamaggier.....im sorry but i dont neeed some test to tell me what i need or could use in the art of seduction ha ha  i think i do pretty darn good but i want to see waht it says just for shyts and giggles. It says you need a password.......where in gods name do i get that ??? | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 9/28/2007 10:59:25 AM | | I so agree with you chivalrous14u .... Making LOVE is WAY better then having sex. But when your young and immature you don't really know the differance now do you. It's those of us that have lived life that know that there is nothing greater then making love to the ONE person that you LOVE the most in this world. | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 11/4/2007 1:01:46 AM | This whole thread is a big lol.
This is what we have:
Group 1. The sensible guy/girl that says "Sex, not only is it the best exercise/stress reliever/recreational activity that you can get per minute"
Group 2. The "I wish life was perfect like care bears OMG! I want only love, and if I can't have it no one else can have fun."
See how I am obviously opinionated. Of course I am. I read the frick'n post, one of the few. You all see this as the "typical male" comment and jump on the band wagon to make yourself look sophisticated and civilized.
My response:
El Oh Ell
Seriously, the guy said "the occasional", meaning once in a while. Here let's make it simple.
Guy likes girl. Girl likes guy. Guy and girl become lovers. Guy and Girl make mucho love many times. Guy joins military. Guy and Girl seperated for 3 years. Girl finds new guy. Guy goes out and relieves stress.
That was my situation. I didn't cry. I didn't "emo" up my life. I felt a lot of pain.
But the fact was I slipped into a good thing, a fun time to help distract myself.
Not:
ZOMG! Lovez NOA! AHHHH! <3 <3 <3. love me back...
No, I didn't frantically create a livejournal and b*tch and moan about how I needed love.
Seriously, I went out, banged, came back and created a POF profile. Note the longterm relationship, as I am not a hoodini and have trouble picking up girls.
Moral of the story.
Read before you right. | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 2/19/2008 1:32:17 PM | If someone wants only sex and meets with someone looking for just sex. Then the chances that they catch something nasty is greater than with someone looking for a LTR.
Obviously, right?
But, so are there people out there who pretend to be looking for more than sex, or friends, activity partners etc.... who are looking only to have safer sex, with a cleaner partner? I would have to guess yes.
I have seen some profiles on dating sites, yahoo, etc... that are looking for the right person/LTR. And 3-5 years later, still there looking.
And not just a few but many people. Myself? when I didn't find mrs right after 19.00 for one month on yahoo, 'a few years back" I did NOT pay again. I dropped out. So who would pay month after month for years when they were not getting a satifactory result. And while I am at it, I will add too, that if someone has been looking for mr or mrs right for a few years on personals and not found them,,, a red flag should go up! Ummmm, either something is not going right for them. Or it is going just right. And paying 20 bucks a month for finding sex partners under a LTR personals ad is fine with them. While appearing to the world who views their profile, that they are not cheap, shallow, ho, or what ever people want to call it.
So, this adds a little twist to things now doesn't it?  | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 3/17/2008 8:31:26 PM | | I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but sex is just sex, making love is totally different. When you are with that person that you love with all your heart and all your soul, that you would do anything for and that they would do anything for you, there is nothing better in this life. Sex without love is nothing. Anybody can do it. It's not the same, no matter how much you try and kid yourself. To love and be loved is one of the greatest things us humans have. To never have experienced this is sad. To have sex just for something to do is even sadder. Especially in this day and age of sexually transmitted diseases. Call me old fashioned, make fun of me. I don't care. I'd rather not do it at all then do it just for sex. I need to be in love with that person first. It makes it all worthwhile. | |
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jon4u2
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Joined: 3/19/2008
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 3/27/2008 7:50:11 AM | | making love is fantastic, in the months just before marriage, and up to maybe a year after marriage. unfortunately, here in maine , making love rapidly becomes "legalized prostitution", and you "get it" less and less unless there's a certain amount of bartering involved, ie; flowers, jewelry, a new car, etc. that's not just my opinion, i've actually adopted the saying from 90% of the married people i know, male and female. | |
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| Why don't people just screw ?
Posted: 7/24/2008 3:40:04 PM | | I'd like to address one comment made bychivalous14u . What planet are you from? It is human and animal nature to reproduce. Why are you here? Be honest! | |
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