| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 3:05:47 AM | Dude 2 dates next. Like 2 steppin sheesh. Why would you play
a game you don't want to. Pity is for a man without focus.
Goodluck fishy. As a woman tell ya 2 dates you haven't impressed me you don't get to three. No game just straght forward and eat the dust on my little azz.
It's only a game if you allow it, perhaps screen the people you
accept for dating a little more . Ask questions and see if you are on
the same page before you meet with requard to expectations and
hopefully it will turn around. Good luck fishy. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 6:21:22 AM | Proteus, I am getting a more clear picture of who you are. The comment about feeding off the negative energy told me a lot. Many are so sensitive that they are more affected by negative energies than others. You also sound like an introvert and many on this board who are extroverts will not understand this and will lash out with hateful comments, so ignore them for the most part. I do wonder tho if you might not benefit from some energy type work as in TAI CHI, CHI GONG, YOGA, even REIKI. This can help you pull the good energy out of the universe and block the bad energy. Just a thought.
And to the person who called you ugly(which you are NOT). She is the ugly one to make such a hateful comment so ignore her too.
Good luck to you.
One introvert to another, fight the isolation thing. Join a group, take dancing lessons, tai chi or one of the others, a continuing education class if you are near a college, or somewhere you can meet different types of females and not a BAR or pool hall. Get outside your comfort zone, take some risks. | |
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Joined: 1/31/2006
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:18:08 AM | OP - I say GOOD LUCK and hope that your life goes smoothly from here onward. I feel for you and understand completely.
My observation on how the responses of this thread "generally" is that:
The Men respond one way and the Women the opposite - again generally speaking.
I guess that's why there's so many problems with relationships these days as views/beliefs/expectations of both genders can so be different in many ways. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:25:17 AM | "Give me reason not to feel this way, honestly, I don't want to be the typical guy using a chic for her body, but I find myself starting to believe that mentality."
I heard once, when i was ****in about dudes, that its not what you attract, but what your attracted to. i can assume what your initial reaction could be. subconsiously, your lacking the faith that you deserve better, and its starting to seep to the surface. dont becaome another statistic...lol | |
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Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 130 | |
| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 9:42:16 AM | | I figure that the bottom line in any relationship is telling the person up front exactly what you're about. The chick with many multiple dudes isn't rare today seeing as how everybody likes to explore their options these days, but I'll agree that one does seem a little shady. There are a lot of us left out tere who will say up front what we want and then there are others who wont. Hopefully the next girl you're interested in will come correct. | |
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| i can't believe you folks fell for this troll
Posted: 2/16/2006 11:03:13 AM | I've met not a few guys who've commented, "women are whores" in all seriousness. It's called guy talk. In reality it's called, "nobody's perfect" Basically, this troll is whining about how women aren't perfect and that's his rationale for being a player. (ie. lying to women) ...except, i doubt the OP even has the social skills to fool your average women without the use of date rape drugs. Then again, i doubt he's even able to get into bars in the first place.
I'm pretty sure the OP is using two or more profile entities to hide the fact he's an attention whore. *shrug* I'm pretty sure he'll get bored and create another profile and go on trolling. Besides, noone's really fallen for his crap yet and ranted at him or others here.
I've been played once or twice, but maybe (in all honesty) i'd just not been the type for them and they'd dumped me. either or, take your pick. some women just like casual sex without the complications - for them, this is called 'dating'
"sweet dreams are made of these" | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 12:34:35 PM | you are talking very scary.
Women deserve everything Men do.
Women in America attract men from all over the world also.
Explain that?
Also if you are truly good no matter what gender or race you will attract nice people.
Good luck I hope you meet some one nice that changes your mind. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 3:55:02 PM | Something I noticed about this forum...
If you don't say something extreme, noone pays attention to what you say. I think the forum should be split up regionally to prevent all the rapid fire posts. | |
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| It's an option
Posted: 2/16/2006 5:19:25 PM | | If you go down the path of seeing all or most women in the light you've said, that is all you will find. If you hold out for KNOWING that what you seek exists, you will find that. There's lots of frogs before you find the princess... absolutely true. You get to choose whether or not to be true to yourself or someone else's idea. A lot of people are messed up by every possible issue, abandonment, abuse, alcohol, missed expectation. You sound intelligent and angry, resentful. Rightfully so. Valid feelings. Look in different places for women. SAy no a lot more up front. Don't play any games yourself... you'll find what you seek... but not if you quit looking and lower your standards. Then what you would find won't work and you won't be happy. Keep looking, asking, talking... you're on the right track. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 5:31:28 PM | | Don't you think guys do the same thing to girls? Are you just saying this about people you've met from this site? Most people on here are just looking for sex, so that's all you're going to get, not any love. Are all people on here like that? No. If you go for the girls who dress a certain way, looks a certain way and act a certain way...the slutty way, then expect them to treat you that way too, that's you're just a piece of meat. Why not go after a girl who really wants a relationship and wants to be serious with someone? | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 6:21:01 PM | ultrapla...wow...i'm an ugly person for saying proteus is ugly? he IS ugly...his negativity is ugly, his rationalle is ugly, the fact that he is closed minded and arrogant is ugly and the way he views women is ugly. debate me on this...i'm ready and willing.
you lash out at me, yet applaud someone who thinks women should conform to his warped standards? are you trying to get a date???
this man said that women are merely a hole to be plugged and rather than provide empathy for the fact that 1 of 3 women in NA are raped, he brushes it off as an inconvenience.
i could go on and on...but i'll merely state that i'm shocked and appalled that ANY woman would respond this way to him. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:04:42 PM | | im losing my faith and respect for women because they always shit on the nice guys like me they take advantage of our kindness and try to walk all over us and they also think that we are stupid and dont know when they are lying and cheating but you can always tell because they always act different and treat you differen when they are cheating and lying if you have been through enough like i have you can always see the changes. i have yet to meet an honest woman who is not just looking for just money and getting what they want dont take this the wrong way ladies im sure that there are good ones out there and god knows i hope to find one someday. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:07:54 PM | | Guys if you lose respect for women where does that leave you when a good one does come along.Be patient we have all been dumped on including the women.Just relax. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:17:40 PM | Whatever you put out, you will find....sew what ya reap....etc etc...
Ifn all ya do is whine about how terrible women have been to you, don't be surprised when that is all you find. Expect a good woman to come to you and she will.
Squeak
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:24:08 PM | Some women NOT all of us but some of us out there, today
and on the fourm's really gives other women a bad name.
By the way they post on the fourm's and how their
word's come across as, being rude/****y.
It's a shame that probaly "most" men think all women
are the same just, by one woman being an pain in the ass
on the fourm's. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:25:24 PM | | i know that there are women who get dumped on also i have been with a few, sometimes i think that they get so used to it that when they get a nice guy they end up dumping on the nice guy and they tell you that they cant be with you anymore because you are too nice what kind of shit is that? does any one have an answer for that? please let me know because i sure cannot figure that one out. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:32:26 PM | sum woman are that way n sum are'nt.....but its ok for the men to f**k em' n flee....or pick a chic up at the bar, hav the time of their life n never call them.....but when the role is reversed women are 'using u'....'rude'....'sluts' n etc.......
its the 21st century.....deal w/it n move on....NOT TO B RUDE.....I'v experenced both sides....being the player n being played on........n life goes on....... | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:40:30 PM | | im just repling to joey169 not all men are the same just like not all women are the same its just hard to find the good one is all im trying to say all i said is im still trying to find a good one the bad men and the bad women ruin it for the good ones because then if you have been burned it is hard to believe it wont happen again im sorry if anybody thaught i was saying all women if you read everything i said you would know that was not what i meant | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/17/2006 10:29:31 AM | I'm pretty much done with this thread. Nobody seems to understand where I was coming from except for "adensdad" and it has pretty much broken down into meeningless crap.
I know women have had to put up with it from Men, never said it was right. I was not depressed about things, I was making a commentary. So far the only thing this thread has taught me is that each individual can read something and interpret it differently.
From a psychological aspect, i find that to be the most interesting. Especially with the animosity "sgracan" through out at this. If you read what I said, I was asking to NOT lose my respect for women. The comments I made about "A hole to be filled" and whatever were merely examples listed to express my point, yet she automaticly read them as my current method of looking at a woman.
When it comes down to it, I've been told that I show to much resect for women, every one of my dates have told me this. I've only recently learned that this is part of the reason I have been having such a hard time in dating. I was treating women with kid gloves in hopes of not offending them and essentially treating them differently than I would anyone in my normal day to day life.
As I have mentioned a few times in this thread, I am new to both women and dating. My knowledge on the subject is very out dated. This is another reason I haven't been having to much luck.
People may think what they want about why I started this topic, don't particularly care anymore, fact of the matter is, I was processing information. Trying to wrap my mind around a problem. This topic assisted me in that. It also gave me more information to work with and tackle other issues that I am thinking about. | |
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