Cybury
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Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 22 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 8:23:46 AM |
I know I am ugly
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ugly? take another look in the mirror dude
if your pics are correct then you are far from it. (and no I'm not gay)
just look at some of the DP's on this site pretending to be beautiful.. hell some don't even have the courage to post a pic
as far as the "Only attractive people", $hit these women have been watching to many movies and too much TV
my thing to them is if they want Brad Pitt then they had better look like Reese Witherspoon and not Roseanne Barr
don't let the shallow women on dating sites lower your self esteme | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 9:24:58 AM | | cybury is dead on with this about how the roseannes think they are gorgeous. The one and only time I have ever been directly and absolutely rude to a woman was because of this. I KNOW I am a good looking guy and I made a joke to this woman in a lighthearted way, she interpreted it like I was hitting on her and tried to insult me. THIS WOMAN WAS A PIG, SHE HAD MORE HAIR UNDER HER NOSE THAN I HAVE ON MY HEAD AND ASS COMBINED. This was the last time I went to a "Club" (cant stand em) The saying gos, a pig in a dress is still a pig is so true. Oh yeah, she had 3 illegitimate kids, all from assorted races, other than white. | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 10:40:53 AM | You are so darn funny! You want someone who will look past your appearance, but she must be beautiful and in shape and not have any children... what else shall we add to the laundry liste? Poor, sad, lost hypocrite... sigh...
(btw, maybe you have some kind of dismorphic disorder, b/c you're not ugly.) | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 10:49:28 AM | What are you saying in your e-mails?. I do not even have a pic on my site, and I am in nobody's favorites list, yet I get replies from e-mails that I have sent....
NEVER EVER wear your heart on your sleeve either when meeting a woman, or when e-mailing/messaging her. Treat them normal. A lot of guys forget that, and they want to desperately please a woman. Remember the law of supply and demand?. Women demand very few men, yet the supply is enormous....
If you act weak, they will think you are boring and dull. Treat them normal, neither wrong nor right, and that should build a balance.... | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 12:37:30 PM | | There is something wrong with this picture he's painted. Larger women and mothers of 4 kids do not fit his criteria, he wants someone in shape and beautiful. But yet, when the "in shape and beautiful" women inform him he doesn't meet their standards physically, he cries the blues about it?......If that's not the pot calling the kettle black.....I've followed many of his postings and have usually admired the way he stands up for what he believes. Guess this just goes to show that you never know what to expect from people, when they let their guard down. | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 27 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 1:15:44 PM | Thanks guys -- but this is the deal ( sorry can't remember all the things stated but I will wing it.
#1 - I am messaging people who state " only looking for friends " I am in no way rushing for some relationship which won't last
#2 - Yes I am only attractive to women in shape. Meaning, they aren't sitting at their computer right now with chip crumbs all over their lap ( stop looking and brushing off just in case ). I have a ripped up spine, so if and ONLY IF a relationship/sex etc etc was to come from it, I do have a weight restriction. Plus I have dated larger girls when I was younger, and was never really happy with it.
#3 - I am still happy with myself as a person, I don't look at the mirror and break it each time I glance at it. But when your being told from a female she wants her friends to be attractive, what is that saying ???? Whatever happened to having a friend who is a normal human being, instead of a party animal who lives from paycheque to paycheque cause their weekend habits take up most of their cash.
#4 - My profile -- this will never end lol I worte that profile to turn off what I am not looking for from a site. And ya know it works. I scare women cause I use my brain. I state what I want when I want and how much I want and they can't handle it. They state they want a guy who can stand on their own two feet yet when they see it, they are scared.
#5 - My personality - I can be one of the nicest guys on this planet, if I am shown respect. A girl saying I am cute and she wants my bod but lives 2200 miles away doesn't help unless I move lol. People who know me who that I can be fun, serious, helpful, and sweet.
#6 - Living in my past - I DON'T - Sure I can use them as an example, but that is all it is.
#7 - Messaging a female -- all I am doing is messaging someone who wrote something in their profile not going from only body-type, or them being kidless. It's what they state and if I know I can offer it to them, then I reply. -- THEY !!! are the ones who are insulting and rude by only looking for a certain looking type of guy, like if a female say's " I am looking for someone to hit the slopes with " and I say to her that I am going to Blue Mtn, and that she can tag along with me for the day, but then she states " sorry but your not what I am looking for " how is that to make a guy feel ?? what that I am TOO SEXY ?? or TOO UGLY ???
#8 - I have friends who are fat/skinny/ugly/sexy/sweet/rude/smart/stupid/rich/poor -- and I will talk to anyone as long as they can converse about some topic other than how big my slong is. A friend is a friend - no expectations.
#9 - my fingers are bleeding so I will stop this, but this is a bit about me and what makes me ticked at how shallow women have gotten - that they put attractive looks first before anything else. Yes I know half of you will say " I am not like that " prove me wrong | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 4:10:50 PM | For the life of me I can't believe anyone would look at your pics and not find you physically attractive. But I guess what one finds nice to look at, others may expect more. Who knows. I am far from shallow, but I have girl friends who judge a guy on nothing but physical appearance and I'm not talking about just their looks. Hell, they will see a guy and can tell you how much his clothing costs, how much he probably pays his stylist every 4 to 6 weeks, and how expensive his shoes are. If it totals up to an acceptable amount, then they will give him the time of day. If not...he's not good enough for them. Sad to say, but I watch them in action and see the dollar signs in their eyes and find it pretty lame. I think it's great you know what you are looking for, and at least you aren't one of these that are leading women on and playing games. My hat off to you for that Shappy. But these one's that have insulted you...well....maybe they need to have their heads examined or something, because you are for sure easy on the eyes. Think positive and keep looking. I'm sure someone out there will just surprise you one day when you least expect it.  | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 4:25:40 PM | | Bill Gates has money thats why. Don't complain though that makes women about as wet as the Arabian desert in the summer. | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 4:29:16 PM | | Dude, the way I see it you have two choices. 1) Give up on trying to date these superficial women and become a confirmed bachelor like me or 2) Do what a lot of American men are doing and find your self a woman from another country who don't care about looks. You know it's amazing that a man not looking for a relationship can have more fun with women and have more interaction with them than the poor guy could if he told her he wanted a serious relationship. | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 31 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 5:03:28 PM | Hey RB -- read it bro - I ain't asking to date them, and since when " So how are you " was to be implied as a " do you wanna date me and be the mother of my 14 kids "
A simple hello now means " hey I wanna get down your pants " -- they only wish they wanted me to get into their pants. Give them Da'Shap 1-2 times and see them walk funny for a week.  | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/16/2006 7:24:19 PM | | @mysterious...very true. As I said, I find it pretty lame that women resort to such tactics in order to deem if a guy is worth their time. It does make it tough for those of us that are serious about meeting someone decent. But let a man use that approach and they turn on the b*tch switch and it's the end of the world. I think I would rather remain alone than to resort to such ways though. At least I can get up in the morning and look at myself in the mirror and not feel bad about the way I treat people. | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 5:13:09 AM | Hear hear!
Seriously, you just hit a LARGE part of why before I moved I DIDNT just look around me. I saw these girls who basically had a large chest moving to control a guy who was very willing to be controlled, but had a nice car so they must have money.
Both sides of the equasion made me sick. They still do.
Right now, I have yet to find someone in my age group in the area Im in... course I havent made a run into Boston yet, so Ive been out of the main population. We will see how Local that kind of thing was.. | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 34 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 5:44:51 AM | I like when the guy is driving his car -- say a corvette and he has dealer plates on it. Was at a Timmy's guy was telling some girl how much he paid for it -- all in cash
I saw the dealer plates and called him on it. Funny to say he ran into his ( well his works car ) and drove off crying.
The girl would of never known and just thought the yellow plates meant he was special, like how red/white plates here in Canada mean Goverment officals | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 8:20:22 AM | | well personaly i dont think that im ugly and im not on anyones favorite list and i have even wrote to women who are not that attractive because of what they wrote in there profile and some of them were not on anyones favorite list and they still never returned any of my e-mails but who knows maybe im not saying the right things in my profile but at least im being honest. | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 36 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 8:24:08 AM | Best to be honest then to kiss butt and be told off. I told one girl last night how I wasn't a butt kisser, and she blocked me. I guess she wanted me to give her the world before the conversation was gonna go any further.
Women always complain how they get played and how they get used. Well I play games, but not those ones, and if I am using a woman, it's only cause she wants me to use her ( in a fashion which is in the dating sense not just a sex one ). And nothing, all cause I don't look a certain way. No worries, could be worse. | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 8:33:40 AM | | some women expect too much too soon but when you expect it from them it is a different story they would rather be aloud to walk all over you and if you wont let them they would just go find someone else to do it to and kick you to the curb or try to hold on to you and the other guy because the other one is not giving them something that you are giving them. | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 8:51:01 AM | Hmmm... still not buying your excuse about not wanting bigger girls. First off, I can only think of one intimate position that might be hard for a person with a bad back, & about 5 that don't hurt anyone's back.
Just face it, you're shallow, too. Nothing wrong with that, just don't have such high expectations of other people if you can't live up to them yourself. I have been pretty all my life, just the past few years I've stuggled with weight, but, before then, I was very, very, picky. Now karma is coming back on me.
BTW, sissy, you don't see us women complaining about how big men are! What would happen if we ruled out guys for being bigger than us! Good lord! | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 39 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 9:17:18 AM | Muppet
HA HA !! I am not shallow in wanting things. If weight is a problem for me and my health then so be it. It's called being picky, not shallow. Shallow is not talking to someone cause of their looks ( OMG what this thread is about ). I never said I wouldn't talk to bigger women, just to date them I have to think of myself first.
And that line of how women don't rule bigger men out -- hell I might be a twig, but I know women rule them out all the time. That was one hell of a cheesy line lol -- will be laughing about that one for a long time to come.
You don't know me or how bad the nerve in my spine can get when it pinches. So you can't judge me on my request. Pinched S and partial S2, a slight herinadted disc, and my L3-,L4 are shot.
Well I was able to ski 22 times this year, but it started acting up lol | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 9:40:58 AM | lol muppetkiss.....dont be calling shappy a sissy....name calling isnt allowed. hehe
women do discriminate against men who are SMALLER all the time whether in height or weight so that argument of women not discriminating against bigger doesn't hold water. Both sexes have their preferences, women are just as biased as men.
Shappy has a right to his preferences. If he doesn't want to date larger women or women with 4 children from 4 different fathers, thats his prerogative. But by the same token, if the women he contacts arent attracted for whatever reason...ie. colour of hair or something like that, then he shouldn't complain about being fugly. COS he ISNT! | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 41 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 10:02:04 AM | well I think squirrly should get her eyes checked lol and that all women should state that whoever messages them has to look a certain way dress a certain way, own this type of car etc etc
I never put " a type " onto friendship. Or maybe these women just think they are all that and deserve the best after so many years of getting to worse | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 10:08:58 AM | *blows on glasses, cleans them and puts them back on and looks at shappy*
NOPE...still cute.
I don't think all women say that...now c'mon shappy. I never ask what kind of car a guy drives unless he asks me what kind I drive. And as for clothes, you don't usually see that till you meet either. Maybe its the type of girls you are choosing to contact? Maybe they are the fluffy barbie blonde types? ever thought of that? | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 10:12:08 AM | | I like nice guys , actually I prefer shy, quiet & sensitive men. So don't change that about yourself , be true to yourself. You also look just fine to me , but looks are objective . | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 44 | |
| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 10:15:47 AM | Squirrly -- I am contacting ones who seem to have a good head on their shoulders -- go fig huh. They waste an hour or 2 typing out and thinking of how to attract guys, yet they forget to mention the truth.
Squirrly, you know me pretty well, and the type I am. So when I see someone who meets my requirements, I will call them on it. Maybe I should put the opposite on every word in a woman's profile " I am looking for a sweet caring man " means " I want a guy who will treat me like crap and use me worse than piece of toilet paper "
" Staying in watching a movie together " now means
" I want him to take me out every night, blow tons of cash on me and let me go home with someone else "
Tired of being alone now means
I just want a guy at my beck & call so when I am bored I have at least one person to have to show off in public
LMAO
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 11:23:40 AM | Shappy,
Attractive is how you make yourself.
while physical attraction is used by many people to get their mates, what you have to offer is what is going to stick around for long...
I am not considered physically attractive, yet I enjoy the friendship of many ladies and women, not because of what they see, but because of who I am, my sense of humor, the fact that I am not a needy and wussy person, and that I dont mind telling people things upfront right in their face....
It is what you make of it. If you expect too much, you get nothing...If you just DONT care or have very low expectations as far as dating and love (i.e, not forcing yourself onto women), believe me, that seems to work wonders | |
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| Fugly
Posted: 2/17/2006 1:46:00 PM | | Nope....nothing FUGLY about ya.....the pic in the cap is rather cute | |
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