| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 6/3/2007 6:57:58 PM | | i don't like to get spanked btw...its sort of funny....well i could care less.......hair pulling though.... | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 11/10/2007 10:32:06 AM | Spanking produces psychological and physiological satisfaction.
Psychological- the though that my partner can be a wild animal as well as a romantic, gentle lover is a huge turn on..
Physiological- The sensation of pain, rough sex enhances my sexual desire bringing me a step closer to satisfaction.. | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 12/17/2007 12:28:35 PM | Did you know that Freud had a cocaine habit? His ideas may have been revolutionary, but imho, misguided. Even his daughter, who followed in his footsteps vocation-wise did not fully agree with his assertions. Oh, maybe that is because she had penis envy.
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I knew he experimented with it some but I don't believe he was an addict.
Among doctors his greatest claim to fame had nothing to do with sex.
It was that emotional problems could cause physical symptoms.
Early in his career he discovered something quite revoloutionary for the time. A woman had been admittedto hospital paralysed in the legs, and blind. What was bothering the doctors was that her pupils still dialaited in dim light, her knee jerk reflex was still normal and she still twictched her feet when they were tickled.
Freud told the women that he was going to try ticking her feet but, instead sterilised a large hat pin in a candle flame and pushed it straight through the womans leg. Without her feeling it.
She had been through some emotional traumaus and was mentally unbalancedanyway. Freud treated these emotional symptoms and got results that way. | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 12/17/2007 1:48:59 PM | I am into bondage so spanking is ok with me with the right people. It can be such a turn on.
The build up is sensual and usually gets me off and I will do whatever that person wants. | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 12/19/2007 1:47:18 PM | I used to think spanking during sex would be a turn off.
Not anymore...got a little love tap last time I had a relationship...liked it. Gotta keep an open mind... | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 12/19/2007 2:43:10 PM | | Physiologically speaking, spanking does wonderful things to the sympathetic nervous system that can feel like a drug, sometimes to the extent of inducing a feeling of complete euphoria (re: sub space). There are also many levels and degrees of psychological mind ****ery that play into it. | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 12/19/2007 3:38:41 PM | slap me silly 
most of the time you never know when its coming, so its a nice surprise and makes me want the guy even more.  | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking ???
Posted: 12/29/2007 2:23:23 PM | Whether it is something that IS or is NOT enjoyed by a couple should come down to simple communication and trust. Exploring limits would include that too so even if you don't think you'll like something maybe try it a few times anyway if your partner is curious.
There is a variation on the spanking activity that hasn't been discussed here. Again, unless you KNOW your partner and have communicated to some degree don't spring any of this as a surprise. You're liable to get charged. If there is some interest, curiosity or one or both are already FANS try this. (from the HOW TO forum - TRY THIS thread on LIT- http://forum.literotica.com )
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For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.
Engage in a good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her five or so rapid G-Gasms - she's in an almost perfect position for that thumb to slide in - and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission. The GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!" It is awesome.
Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Give her a few more (slower - softer) G-Gasms while you're doing the bum rub. Then time for cuddles. Often when they wake up in the morning they will orgasm as soon as they think of the night before.
Worked for me - long ago ..... | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 12/29/2007 2:31:17 PM | | Gotta be the combination, if I remember it right... If done at the right time AND on the right spot it's such a heightened experience. Then again... the flip side when it's done wrong is usually the worst sex you've ever had. *shrugs* | |
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| Psychology/Physiology
Posted: 12/29/2007 2:36:19 PM |
Mabey these women were never spanked and thusly making it a fo pa(i wish i could spell that right)
faux pas. | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 12/29/2007 7:36:02 PM | i agree w/cheekychica:
a bad girl thing.. a punishment.. thing. being the one not in control. why is punishment such a turn on? because its rough.. and in charge.. and meaningful.... and so sexy ...
spanking is a good thing  | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 2/19/2008 10:08:41 PM | | Did not read all the responses, but many of those that I did read fall into 2 catagories: Judgemental or Technical. Either way seems most are over thinking it. If it feels good and works for you and your partner then I say "Thank-you mam'me. May I have another". If it does nothing for you then it's hands off. personaly I enjoy giving and recieving but then at times sometimes not at all. | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 2/19/2008 10:19:46 PM | ~shrugs~ Sometimes pain is good ... pain does not always equal harm. Sometimes people evolve into enjoying pain and sometimes people NEVER enjoy it. It's just in how You are wired and who is wielding the belt, paddle, hand ... ~grins~
Those who -get- it just do and those who don't ... prolly just never will. As the saying goes ... it's better felt than telt. i will say though that alot of it depends upon the people involved ... a spanking is NOT just a spanking to me and the person giving is at least 75% of the experience.
~angel | |
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| Psychology/Physiology: spanking
Posted: 4/9/2009 4:02:50 PM | for me its a stress reliver makes me more relaxed not sure when i started to like spanking
i didnt know if many gurls liked it or if im just weird | |
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