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 SWEET-HARMONY
Joined: 10/27/2004
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I am sure I would be having double the fun, if I met the right man. It has been a long time since I have been sexually intimate with anyone....I am waiting for the right guy.
 Fafnir
Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 52
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/23/2005 9:01:25 PM
keeley said:
Love this thread! Absolutely!! I just turned 36, and I deserve to glow in my sexuality, after years of worrying about being good all the time, raising children and men...lol...what's so bad with a woman having her turn to enjoy herself? What do the men think? Do you like a woman who's sensual...or prefer the shy, good girls?
A guy can have it all with the right woman. I love the shy, good, librarian type. All business out of the bedroom, but if I'm lucky, I know better than that!
 redneckgirl133
Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 53
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/24/2005 1:20:53 PM
Sweet Harmony.....What you are going to do girl, is ENJOY.... You`re free of raising kids, free of the fear of pregnancy and a woman at 50(IMO) is just coming into her own sexually. Mind you woman who DIDN`T like sex at 30 or 40 certainly aren`t going to at 50. But for women like you and I Sweet Harmony, the sky is the limit...redneckgirl133
 VeryPrivate
Joined: 2/16/2005
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/24/2005 2:48:28 PM
ATTENTION !!! All of you beautiful women over 30 that just answered YES…. Call me!!!!!
 bound2happen
Joined: 1/29/2005
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/24/2005 6:30:52 PM
I think a sex drive over 30 is depending on experiences. hopefully everyone over 30 has had good ones, and they have learned from their past. they should know more now what they want, and how to give certain things as well. it's all about give and take!
 VeryPrivate
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/25/2005 8:25:34 AM
Sex drive is more after 30+...

You just don't have as much gas...
 PrettySweet
Joined: 2/24/2005
Msg: 57
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/25/2005 3:35:12 PM
I guarantee that sex drive goes through the roof through the 30s AND 40s ..... especially if you're lucky enough to find a partner who appreciates and explores .... and can keep up with you!
 Deagleninja
Joined: 2/9/2005
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/25/2005 3:50:17 PM
Er I dunno, at 18 I was a little firecraker ready to go. However, I enjoy it much more these days. So I'd have to say the drive is a little lower but the enjoyment is way up.
 Simon Stone
Joined: 9/19/2004
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/25/2005 5:41:58 PM
I would have to agree with most of the people who have stated that after age 30, sex has is better. People do learn something after years of doing it for years.

But the question of whether or not the sexdrive increases after age 30, for me at least, has stayed the same.
 Lioness139
Joined: 2/27/2005
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/27/2005 5:24:01 PM
my sex drive didn't kick in till i was about 33, and I booted my ex hubby out..lol
At 37 I know what I like and im not affraid to tell my partner what I like..I think it has to do alot with how comfortable we feel with our bodies and sexuality... and of course how comfortable we feel with our partner.. I find that men in there 30's-40's are more into pleasing you instead of just getting what they want... as for the mutiple O's oh yeah thats the best....
 Pandy
Joined: 11/11/2006
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/27/2005 5:53:13 PM
I've always had a very high drive, but after thirty-five it just exploded.
I'm in agreement with others who find that it's much BETTER sex, too.

I don't have any of the social or emotional hangups that I had in my twenties.
I'm in touch with my sensuality more than I could ever have been a decade ago.

Life is GOOOOOOOD.

 neverbeenlaid
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 62
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/27/2005 5:59:07 PM
It's such a shame that men's sex drives go downhill after 16, and women dont peak until 40!

I guess that means biologically, as a 23 year old i would be most sexually compatible with someone in their early 30's?
 Deagleninja
Joined: 2/9/2005
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/27/2005 7:34:08 PM
'as for the mutiple O's oh yeah '

Multiple O's? Like these?
V V V V V V V V V V V V

'Life is GOOOOOOOD'

Or do you mean Cheerios?
 datingho
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 64
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 2/28/2005 1:15:16 AM
yes it is definitly true i often wondered about it in my 20's and thought nah it can't be true but it is and i have raised the question to my other 30 something friends and they too agree just can't get enough lol
 Pandy
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/2/2005 4:30:10 AM
"Multiple O's? Like these?
V V V V V V V V V V V V

'Life is GOOOOOOOD'

Or do you mean Cheerios?"


Both :D the cheerios are to keep up my strength after all the other OOOOOOOs ;)
 DenimCanada
Joined: 8/7/2004
Msg: 66
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/2/2005 7:07:19 AM
Sex Drive ... what are we talking about exactly? I mean people learn more and know how to have better sex as they go. Is this about physical sensations? Is there a 'better' orgasm after 30? Or cumming quicker? Or just wanting sex? Or not being inhibited? Or finding better men to please them? Or do women just like raw power at 30+? Is it 'better' both when your alone and with a man? (ie - is it actually your body changing or outside influence) Where's Masters and Johnson when you need them?

Guys reach their physical sexual peak at 18(ish) - hmmmmm, no wonder 'cougars' are popular. Gotta feel sorry for all the 30 something guys who are attracted to 20 something girls, neither of them is peaking - but they might be good for each other = the guys need to keep active at their age and the girls could use a mature hand.
 DenimCanada
Joined: 8/7/2004
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/2/2005 7:15:36 AM
Can a good girl not be sensual? Women should enjoy their sexuality completely, it's a shame if they have to wait until they are 30+ to get it. I suspect it's about maturity and partner experience too. I love everything about pleasing a woman, it is the thing that turns me on the most. I think that sex is a private event that can be completely removed or different from who you are in the outside world. There is a deep rooted turn-on when a woman is demure and composed when we are out amongst friends and then totally turns you inside out in the bedroom (or the kitchen, or the bathroom at the club, or the car while you're driving...)

Mac
 Passinthru
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 68
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/2/2005 11:41:09 PM
My drive is about the same now as back in my late 20's. The biggest difference now is that I know what I'm doing for my parter and myself. One of my biggest turn ons is "tuning in" to the woman I'm with and learning my way around her mind as much as her body.
Face it, guys are always gonna get their cookies, but raising a woman to her peak and then keeping her in that state of nervana is an aquired skill. I also find I have a greater appreciation of women and I'm much more experimental these days- positions, thechniques, toys, places you name it and I either have, or am willing to try it with the exception of additional partners or assuming a role other than the man. Some things we have to clarify
 decentdarlin
Joined: 9/5/2004
Msg: 69
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/3/2005 12:47:43 AM
I am not sure that my drive changed after 30, its always been relatively high, but I tend to pay attention to what someone wants now and work to give that to them..also the mental connection's become more important to achieve greatness instead of just good... when you allow yourself to be in tune mentally with your partner, the sky really is the limit..
 Ms. Picky
Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 70
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/3/2005 1:49:41 AM
i have to say...my sex drive has not changed for me. i've always had a hyperactive sex drive. and, it's still going strong in my 30s.
 Passinthru
Joined: 2/3/2005
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Posted: 3/3/2005 2:00:02 AM
Couldn't have said it better myself nicnewf, oh wait I already did

Hmm, Delaware huh? :wink:
 Ms. Picky
Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 72
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/3/2005 2:26:09 AM
LMAO
 curvyqt
Joined: 2/20/2005
Msg: 73
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/3/2005 8:01:12 AM
Interesting response. Sex after 30 is better for ME, because I know what I want and exactly how to get it. Sex in the back seat of a guys car is something I havent done since high school... hmm.. might be fun at 30..lol
 Fiddlenotes
Joined: 11/17/2004
Msg: 74
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/3/2005 1:31:51 PM
[A guy can have it all with the right woman. I love the shy, good, librarian type. All business out of the bedroom, but if I'm lucky, I know better than that!]

Boy, do we librarians have you guys fooled
A former reference librarian I worked with was also a circus performer - I saw her tight-wire act.
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/3/2005 7:20:24 PM
The answer to the question in this thread is YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!
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