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 justme37

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 301
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 3:05:44 PM
I have been on a few dating sites and have not met very nice men at all. There is one on this site now I met throught the other site, he was horrible to me and messed with my head. I have not had good experiences at all with the pay for sites. At least on this I can pick and choose without a subscription running out, or just take a look and see who is out there without having to subscribe.
 randy709

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 302
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 3:53:10 PM
yes i have , they said that if i didnt find a date there they would refund my money,,,, well i still waiting for my refund (Roflmao) like thats goin to happen ,, have had more responds from this site ,, thank you all Randy
 Wine Pon Meh

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 303
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 4:26:40 PM
I have paid for a dating site before... I used to use this one under another name... left, and came back...

I love this site because Im more likely to find someone closer to me. And heck... it's free!
 GREENEYEDCREOLE

Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 304
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 4:57:14 PM
I have paid for dating sites...and I do not think it is worth it.
 Latin_Heart

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 305
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 5:16:27 PM
yeah long time a go in yahoo and it didn't work
 illegalsmile

Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 306
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 5:16:58 PM
To pay or not to pay...i dont pay for sites, but im no cheapy either, if i take out a lady on a date , i dont asker her to go dutch...dancing ,eats or what ever if i ask her out i pay. so to finish this off i dont pay for sites. working man ,spending it wisely....this site is all we need as others have pointed out...honesty is the best way...free or pay...the bad ones are still there
 Pawz and Clawz

Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 307
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 5:38:57 PM
Hey all,

No I have never paid for a dating site nor will I ever. POF is interesting that's for sure. It has just helped me meet some more (well a few people). I have never to date been able to find a mate for my heart, but I am thank ful for the handful of friends I have met on here, and every chance I/we get we work on becoming better friends with each other.
Fx
 Hello Kitty aka HK

Joined: 6/21/2005
Msg: 308
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 6:24:15 PM
Nope never paid. I'm mostly on POF for the threads, parties and the social aspect.I have met some wonder ppls. If I happen to meet Mr.Destiny, fall heel over head, I guess that POF was all meant to be for me.


How you doing
Support your local fishies
Brant Pond/Ontario/Canada
 partwolf

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 309
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 6:40:21 PM
Yes, but that was before I knew about POF. I haven't paid since.
 MysticalLady311

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 310
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 6:45:34 PM
Unfortunately all too many times I've paid for sites. I was a long-standing member of Matchmaker.com, in the days before the enrollment dropped off so dramatically. I notice they're trying to get old members back - and have totally redesigned their site - but there's still hardly any members.

Match.com just ticks me off, in general. I just did a three-day freebie and have no desire to ever join. AND they don't have instant messages either like POF does! This is an exceptional site, and I've been lucky to get more responses here than any other site I've been a member of

Keep up the good work - Eileen
 thai_paradise

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 311
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 6:59:55 PM
yep just did with e-harmony. found a $20 e-coupon for the 3-months membership and went for it!
 English Rose10

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 312
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Posted: 2/20/2006 7:23:39 PM
Yes but it was not sucessful and very annoying I like this site already!
 peterpanentheist

Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 313
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 7:32:50 PM
The level of manipulation by those 'Major Sites' is getting so intence and intrusive I don't think I will ever participate with them again. I really wonder if all that just goes right over peoples heads or if they just don't care what is hapening to them. Plenty of Fish is a great sight, your philosophy of letting EVERYONE participate and leaving the door open for paid upgrade options is the way to do it. Move quickly to promote your site because once the 'Big Boys see it working so well they will adopt your plan... I guess that is inevitable in business tobay.
 scififantasee

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 314
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Posted: 2/20/2006 8:43:47 PM
yes I did and gave it up after a month. So, not worth the money. I love this site. Best ever. Keep it up.
 LindaJP1960

Joined: 1/6/2006
Msg: 315
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 10:16:13 PM
I've tried the "free" Yahoo trial, but bailed out before it was time to actually pay for it. Just because a site is pay-per-use doesn't mean that you'll have any better success in finding someone, nor does it guarantee that the person will be who/what they say they are.

POF rocks!
 justforu49

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 316
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Posted: 2/20/2006 10:50:10 PM
I dont see the point of paying when there are so many sites like this one. This is one of the best ones I have found and have had many responses. I havent found the right one yet but I will in the future. Got to get through the weeds to get to the flower!!!
 lildoll26

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 317
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Posted: 2/20/2006 10:55:24 PM
Yeah, but POF makes me ashamed that I did. This is the best site ,no doubt
about it....Oh well, we live and learn.
keep up the great work..
 Loyd Limsnickyedy

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 318
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Posted: 2/20/2006 10:59:56 PM
I went with my theory of "Money can't buy you love,,,but it seldom repels it"....I personaly had no luck with the two i tried....i'll name em,,,,yahoo,,and,,single me...
 cycledad

Joined: 11/14/2005
Msg: 319
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/20/2006 11:21:50 PM
To 'kenny03vette' and '7patt' (top of pg.13) - - Excellent posts! Confirms only guys have 'cojones'.

I think 'fluxcapacitor' should entice 'cyndym' to (come on up). She's just likely to do it. Jeez! Travelling cross-country like a 'teen-ager' would? But, at 49!!??
 sassyladymjt

Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 320
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/21/2006 2:46:07 AM
yes i have but it was so i could be able to read my mail it says it is free but it is not free.
 kce33

Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 321
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/21/2006 3:06:00 AM
nope, never have, never will


kce
 JAZZ400CD

Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 322
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Posted: 2/21/2006 3:22:08 AM
WELL I have tried several paying dating sites, with no success, it maybe because I am 64 and have NO job or other reason that I am not aware of, since virtually no ladies reply to my genuine, kind messages gving my likes etc or saying how good their profiles were.

many women aged 50 to 65 ask for younger or "" solvent " men so this makes it harder to find anyone, even those who don't specify age range may want younger men

many websites do not give options for women to say what age group or area of location they want men to live in, not have any indiaction of when ladies are "" online " at last visit to website, so you have no idea if the lady is actively looking for a man

I have spent a lot of money with no luck in UK, yet a lady in USA contacted me, on international site that I never found anyone in England suitable so she mailed and phoned me a few times then asked me to visit her for Xmas 2002, which I did, got on well, but I could not emigrate to USA at the time as my mum was ill and 90 then.
Only 1 lady has contascted me on this website, but has returned to Seychelles Dec.2005 and have not heard anymore from her

Guess I am not luck on Internet dating sites, it is a numbers game I think, ladies have too many men to choose from it seems, so am lst in line due to age and no job maybe
anyway I will just stay a batchelor possibly.
 noname2

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 323
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Posted: 2/21/2006 4:29:35 AM
Awwww Jazz..... never give up hope!!

Yes I have paid

What a rip off

And what ugly men!!
 Robert1962

Joined: 3/10/2005
Msg: 324
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/21/2006 5:17:10 AM
Yep..... but took the one off life time membership deal, actually it's the only site I ever managed to meet any one from.
 shahara4

Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 325
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/21/2006 6:38:58 AM
I agree jazz, they turn up on free sites anyway, at least this way your'e not paying,fornthem or getting bogged down with useless mail, that paid sites keep doing,, I have a fairly tall order, but thanks to pof, Iam travelling to the u.s. in four weeks, and to holiday with a great guy I met on this site.. thankyou marcus and your team, and for my tall order being here in australia, all replies I got were positive,...
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