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 hunkybear

Joined: 2/22/2006
Msg: 376
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/22/2006 12:57:41 PM
what's wrong with married men? they're more interesting, that's why they're married lol
 Rawrrr

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 377
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/22/2006 1:30:07 PM
No... I've always been able to meet who ever I want without paying.
 LAFALOT

Joined: 8/1/2005
Msg: 378
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/22/2006 3:58:22 PM
Yes I have, but too costly, didn't want to keep it up. I also paid for a local service once. VERY costly and not at all worth it. I love this free site, its so great that you're helping people find matches without deleting their arm and their leg. Thanks.
 Andreas1967

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 379
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/22/2006 4:19:25 PM
I joined a 'sexy' site because it said I had 6 admirers who had checked out my profile WOW paid my money only to find that 5 of them were men,maybe I should start batting for the other side! Nooo,cacelled subs shortly after.
 benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 380
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hey
Posted: 2/22/2006 4:46:06 PM
Yes and have to agree with last real woman you do get what you pay for.!!!
 josephg

Joined: 4/19/2005
Msg: 381
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/22/2006 4:58:21 PM
NO! Been paid to leave one though!

 kenny03vette

Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 382
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/22/2006 8:49:29 PM
They Make money off ALL the GOOGLE ads that are allllll over your profile (a little education on making money on the internet> componys pay google to advertise by a pay per click method website owners that have google ads on them make 1/2 of what that company bids per click & google makes the other half why do you think there stock is at like $360 )


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 hee_haww

Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 383
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/22/2006 9:05:07 PM
Yes, i have paid for many,for over past four years. I have not had any results from any of them,not even a date. Hopefuly that will change, being here.
At least here, no girls have made a request for funds.
 soft spurs

Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 384
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 3/29/2006 4:59:50 PM
I suspect that most of us are guilty of "paying" for the service.....but when all becomes clear-our heads out of the "we'll get you a man/woman" fog..... we all come back to reality---POF__my thanks to those that make this site possible-you have made a profound difference in my life, and I'm glad to admit it.
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 385
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hey
Posted: 3/29/2006 8:29:39 PM
LRW: I was thinking exactly the same thing!!!
 Voronwe13

Joined: 2/11/2006
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hey
Posted: 3/29/2006 8:44:30 PM
I've had decent results with a couple of pay sites, which is better than I can say for POF to be honest. The thing with pay sites is that when you actually do pay for it, you stand out from the crowd, and generally get a lot more responses. Here, everyone is on even footing, so it's hard for a guy to stand out. But right now I'm just looking for friends, and I don't feel like paying for that, so I'm not subscribed to pay sites anymore.
 sub_zero27

Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 387
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 3/29/2006 8:59:21 PM
nope... never paid... but then again, im new to all of this too

however, not much luck so far... perhaps my luck will pick up lol...
 michael678

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 388
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 10/8/2006 2:12:21 PM
yes there are fake
 thejamiecat

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 389
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 10/8/2006 2:52:36 PM
I've done a certain paid popular dating site so many times that in my small area, I can't even use that site anymore- i've either dated, rejected, or been rejected by everyone on the site. haha pretty much makes me OVER the whole online dating thing. especially since I had clearly no success

(for reference i'm really only here for the forums, if my dream man emails me i might respond, but i rarely even check in)
 loves2eatpie

Joined: 9/30/2006
Msg: 390
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 10/8/2006 4:24:12 PM
yes i have on more than one occassion and the last one that i paid for offered a life time membership for 48 bucks

now imagine me still looking at 98
 wantsomefun28

Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 391
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 10/8/2006 4:27:51 PM
yes i tried a few they are not what they say their worth i was on one four 3months still getting nowhere this site is the best though love the forums it realy helps.
meet some good freinds of here you guys are the best
 saucysausage

Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 392
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:02:07 PM
yep i tried several and really just wasted my time,some sites actually give women gifts to waste your credit,it seems they have quiet a few tricks to get your money,i will definately never use one again,i had more luck on yahoo messenger lol. lurva life was the very sneaky one giving ladies free gifts,i actually met some women who were getting these.i just came from matchmaker site they didnt seem to want good money either,i have had dates over the net before but it has allways been by free methods.usually a group or just simply chatting on messengers.
 barnesbrook

Joined: 8/17/2006
Msg: 393
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:08:49 PM
Yes I did once.

So did one of the guys that goes down the pub,,, and this is what we did to him...

There is this one bloke who has been on a pay as you dating site , for over 16 weeks now... so....we sent him this little text message on his phone which said ............

You've been on this dating site for over 16 weeks now without any replies what-so-ever, the cost of which is £???... Would you like another 10 weeks at half price... WITHOUT A PICTURE !!! YOU MIGHT HAVE MORE LUCK!!
 frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006
Msg: 394
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:19:59 PM
POF is the best arrangement because the pay sites have other motives. I have met a number of woman on Yahoo, but I have been with them for several years, they are my provider so it is convienant. Like I always say it is a numbers game. You have to remember there are people on this site that have already found someone, but their profile is still on here but they never check it. It makes you feel like you are being ignored, but many times that has nothing to do with it.
 merk4hire518

Joined: 10/30/2006
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/24/2007 2:54:34 AM
i only did once which was only to contact some one that had an interest in me, so pretty much i only paid for one month just to talk to one girl. i think it was around 30.00 dollars for the month. What a shame. THIS SITE IS THE ABSOLUTE BEST!!!
 bbqjoe

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 396
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Posted: 1/27/2008 12:43:01 AM
A few years back I did I was on 2 sites that I paid for about 3-4 months and I did meet a few friends 1 who is now a great friend and I am glad I did at that time because if I had not I might have not met her; but I have never seen any site as good as this one and its free on top of it all. Since I have been on here I have met a lot of wonderful women and have made a lot of good friends and the best part I have met my wonderful girlfriend so if ever any one asks me I would say never pay join POF that's all you need.
 MrForumsOnly

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 397
Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:46:34 AM
Yes, & I'll probably still be able to use till I finf someone. That's a risk I have to take.
 littleaudrey

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 398
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Posted: 1/27/2008 4:46:54 AM
Yes, and I got much better results. The quality of men on paid sites was better, in my opinion. I was looking for guys of my own age who weren't just looking for a quick lay. On PoF, most people who contacted me were too old, too not local, too just looking for sex.

I met six guys on Match, and all of them were people I could have dated steadily, but I chose one, and we're happy.

The easiest way to weed out sex trolls is to go a site where they have to pay forty bucks to join. Most guys looking just for sex will stick to the free sites, where it costs them nothing. Guys looking for a soulmate are more likely to rationalize spending the extra money.

Also, the perks on Match were good. Easy to use, and some really great articles about dating.

I was also a member of JDate for awhile. Never again. Everyone I met on that site was a narcissistic, neurotic, self-important jerk, and I met about seven different people. On the up side, people on JDate aren't usually looking to screw around, they're looking for long term relationships. The only good thing about JDate is that in my area, it's the most acceptable online dating resource to use, and people think it's cool and not weird if you meet someone there. Pretty much every other Jewish girl I know (some supermodel pretty) was on JDate for awhile. I think you can meet someone good there, but I personally had LOUSY luck. Also, you run across the opposite problem of "booty trolls" there: the guys who want to get married, and want to get married NOW. Out of the seven guys I met, three or four indicated they wanted to get married soon and asked me about things like wanting kids and family stuff on the first date.

eHarmony rejected me, so I can't tell you much about them, except that it seems counterproductive for a business to turn down money. Plus, I don't like the idea of eHarmony or any site choosing who I can view or contact.

I find PoF good for forums and friends, but dating, not so much. I recommend Match, but keep in mind I am a 23 year old girl, and I find that many men and older people in general haven't had the luck with it that I had.
 zestyvirginia

Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 399
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/5/2008 9:05:07 AM
Yes, I have and it turned out well,,,Maybe it depends on the Profile and what you have to offer? Especially your photo...and please make it a recent one.

I have been on Yahoo...{ugly men but wants marriage and a Life} UDate was a ball and Match Com was only good if you seek fun and games.
 54online

Joined: 1/27/2005
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted: 2/5/2008 5:32:56 PM
nope - never have and never will... and I do know how long never is...
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