| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 2/26/2006 6:11:58 PM | Any man that is in-love with his woman will show her how much he cares. He will make a point of doing something...just to make her happy and see her smile.
We just try to ignore the signs because it hurts to find out the one you care so much about is not in-love with us.
I've seen many guys who are in-love, and they act it.
Guess that is why I've been single as long as I have. Haven't yet found the guy that makes me feel I am the most special lady in his life. Of course, there has to be an attraction also. | |
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 2/28/2006 9:16:33 AM | | I had a boyfriend exactly like that that I would not recieve anything on dates where'd you'd expect something. mabe he didn't have the money for it and you may get it later when he has the money. it could be many things but if you want the right answer you should talk to your partner about it. | |
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 2/28/2006 10:09:31 AM | | Gee, I thought I was the only one who didn't get a birthday gift in January and nothing on Valentines Day. In fact, I was the one who supplied the movie passes on Valentine night. I got to tell you, its left a bad taste in my mouth that he just blew the day off and couldn't take the time to get a card. Is it sign? I think so; same for me - but you know what, its so easy to move on because they have given you exactly nothing, therefore they can expect NOTHING in return. Dump him, lose him. Thats what I plan on doing - my whole attitude around him has changed in the last couple of weeks and he knows it. Your guy should too. If he doesn't, then he is too dumb for words and why would you want to be around someone like that? | |
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 2/28/2006 6:48:32 PM | Hey,
I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years...My boyfriend did the same thing to me; I do everything for him but he cant even remember to buy me a card...Not good enough. My heart is breaking because he does have such good points and I love him to death but we have come to the point in our relationship that I have called it quits...He still wont pick up his things and until he does I still consider myself with him......but I refuse to stay with a man who cant even remember the important things...I never ask for diamonds and rubies but a rose every couple of months or a card would be nice....WE all like surprises; he does...But he gets treated the same as I do now...he doesnt like it but who cares.....I am worth more than that.... | |
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 4/26/2009 7:27:28 PM |
Any man that is in-love with his woman will show her how much he cares. He will make a point of doing something...just to make her happy and see her smile.
We just try to ignore the signs because it hurts to find out the one you care so much about is not in-love with us.
I've seen many guys who are in-love, and they act it.
I found this thread, it's 3 years old but speaks volumes to me..... I could of written the title myself, lol! Although it's not yet my Bday, I will be 40 in 2 days and I know it will come and go with out so much as Happy Birthday from the one person I want it from the most... I'm sure he won't remember he asked me a few months ago when it was and laughed that he better remember that day, but he simply "Text" me a Happy V-Day, on Valentines and hasn't had much time for anything, as in going out or even getting together.
Yet when I suggest we go our separate ways he actually gets seemingly upset... Good Lord I'm gonna be 40!! I know logically I need to get over this and find the man that wants to be with me enough to keep my mind free of doubt, and the sooner I let this one go the sooner I'll be emotionally available for the right one.
So I'm not really restartin this thread looking for advice, I just needed to put some of my thoughts & feelings down in order to make them seem valid to myself.
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 5/5/2009 2:02:53 PM | | my bf of 5yrs was working away valentines day he didnt call text or buy me anything,he came home 3days b4 valentines day went out with his mates and left to work away again the day b4.i text him on the day and i got a text back saying yes im working,he came back the day after valentines day and dumped me,i was hurt.i left that day to go to my mums and returned for my stuff the next day which he had left for work.i pulled out his holdall to use and a card fell out along with an expensive aftershave,when i read the card i fell to pieces it said(love u always) hed met another girl whilst working away i asked him about it and of course he said(its not what u think)lol i knew what it meant.he told all his family and friends i had finished with him cuz i thought he was seeing someone else he said that he wasnt and it was all my fault.7yrs on we are on speaking terms and of course it didnt last with the other girl she left without telling him | |
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 5/5/2009 9:54:26 PM | lol; come on what do you think? what amazes me more is that you are still with him; where is your self respect and dignity?
You need to move on yesterday; I can't believe women stay with such scumbags; I guess rappers are right; the worse you treat some women, the more they will stay. Unreal.
you are not a victim; you are teaching him this is ok; very sad. He's scum and you accept it. This is on you now, not him. | |
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 5/9/2009 4:20:10 PM |
My boyfriend of 2 yrs. gave me nothing for my birthday in January and nothing for Valentine's day. Last year he gave me flowers and cards...and this year nada! Is this a sign?
Yes, it is a sign that he is no longer your boyfriend as he cares nothing about your feelings. Only excuse would be is if we was unemployed at the time. Actually, nah, if he can't dig up a couple bucks for a card at least, there are no excuses.
Hope you do better with the next guy - we aren't all idiots..
Rob | |
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| My bf gave me nothing for Valentine's day or birthday
Posted: 5/9/2009 4:43:52 PM | well I might give him the benefit of the doubt if you didn't say anything but just knowing you did... unfortunately he is not making you a high priority, and that says something.
I might suggest giving him one more chance but with how it is affecting you, I would try to find someone else that can juggle their life and love you as much as they can. | |
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