| | Thirty and not marriedPage 17 of 25 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25) | well i'm forty and never married,, dated someone off and on for four and a half years,,, no kids (sorry to say...as love kids), though have had same roomate for last 11 and get to spoil her two kids (15 and 6) , and nice to see she found a nice man (as she had been divorced for 12 years
so far met some good friend,, but if had chance to meet someone...sure why not...
best of luck to all
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 4/2/2007 4:33:28 PM | Whew!
What a relief to read some of these fourms regarding over 30 & never married.
I was beginning to think I was all alone!
And yes, don't you just hate it when you haven't seen someone for awhile & they always ask that ill-fated question: "Why aren't you married yet?"
Here are a few one-liners that I use. It will derail the person asking this question every time- guaranteed.
"You haven't asked me yet"
"It didn't seem worth a blood test"
"I'd have to forfeit my billion dollar trust fund"
"Why aren't you thin?"
"I wouldn't want my parents to drop dead from sheer happiness"
Use accordingly!
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 4/2/2007 11:55:16 PM | To the Author.....
Don't worry about other's personal situations as to whether they've been married or not...Pay attention to your family's needs and pick one guy to date while finding out all you can about him and his family. You want to get married which is great so take the steps necessary to ensure your family's happiness. Conflict your inner self and the men will move on, you're only getting older honey! God Bless .... | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/14/2007 6:41:32 PM | I am 33, never been married, no kids.
Why? because I believe in the sanctity of marriage so i would have to choose well. He has to be loving, caring and extremely LOYAL, someone who doesn't mess around and who will stay for keeps( which is a rare commodity these day and age).
When I was younger, I believed that that guy would come into my life, sweep me off my feet and we will live happily ever after in some far away land. Now at 33, I still believe in that dream, only now I believe that if It's meant for me, It will be and that God will give me Mr. Right in His own perfect time. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/15/2007 1:30:57 PM | pushin to 31....never married. yay. I'm not saying I wouldn't love to find that one person but I'm definitely not one to settle and I'm not stressed to be married because I truly know how to enjoy my life.  | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/15/2007 4:03:39 PM | | Well im 34 never been married due to i have never found that woman that could wouuuu my heart and not be 1 ounce fake. I have 2 children 16 and 3 both girls so ya there are some of use men that are good guys and never been married because of ignorance of past relations on a womans part | |
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jembug
| | Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 407 | |
| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/16/2007 9:18:25 PM | | Well I guess there is alot of women out there that are in there thirties that aren't married. Me included . I am 38 and have two girls. Sometimes i think my sanity is gone for good but I take a breath in and continue on. Oh well maybe one day/someday...... well if not I know I can do it on my own | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/17/2007 4:54:42 AM | < Over 30. Never married. Never close.
Why? Everything else has had priority. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/17/2007 10:32:51 AM | | Never married and no children. My choice for various reasons. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/18/2007 12:29:11 AM | | 32 Never been married. It is like fate is telling me, he's the wrong one for you as I've been engaged 3x but something always happens. I am about done with the whole marriage thing but a male friend said to me 'Don't give up yet, you just found out that 3 men are nonmarriage material - doesn't mean every man is nonmarriage'. Then he proceeded to tell me that he's always been attracted to my confidence and bubbly personality. Gotta love good friends. They always cheer you up. Enjoy your life. When it happens it happens, and if it doesn't, at least you are still happy with your life. I know I am whether I am with someone or not. | |
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Vancer
| | Joined: 10/29/2006
Msg: 411 | |
| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/18/2007 1:24:14 AM | I am 32 and never been married.
What's the total now?
We need to keep score of this.  | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/20/2007 5:39:14 PM | Yup - mid 30's, never married or even engaged.
I've certainly *thought* about it a couple of times, but I'm glad I waited because things ended up not working out with those girls anyway.
That's probably why I'm at the point now where I feel I should wait a good couple of *years* before considering dropping the question... | |
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zahman
| | Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 414 | |
| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:14:27 AM | | I was married at thirty and escaped at 47 after I realized she was just using me for extra cash to attain those things she wanted that she couldn't afford on her on! | |
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zahman
| | Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 415 | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/21/2007 10:52:47 AM | I am 50 and never married, tony randell did not marry till his 70's. It just depends on the situation.
Maybe if the women wanted to know a guy- they should ask.   | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/21/2007 10:58:07 AM | Come on, no one in their right mind gets married.
I did once and big mistake ! | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:11:15 PM | I'm taking my time...I think it may be worth it one day, but I don't want to regret it. Plus, I'm not even sure I want to have kids...so I don't think it's really, truly necessary for me to get married.
It's a nice thought...but I spent my dad's wedding savings on the downpayment for my condo!! | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/21/2007 10:43:14 PM | | I decided to have a career first and start a family later. Now that I think I am ready to start the family, I am having trouble finding a compatible partner. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/21/2007 10:59:04 PM | I'm in my mid-thirties and have never been married.
Was engaged for 3 months, until he got cold feet & knocked up his previous girlfriend.
I'd like to be married, if it's the right person. But I'm not willing to get married just for the sake of having a ring on my finger. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/21/2007 11:33:47 PM | 34, never married, no kids.
I did have a 7 year common-law relationship though that was close. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/23/2007 1:17:21 AM | I think alot of people are worried about divorce thus get pigheaded about themselves so they'll never marry.....women will be a sperm burner mom and the dad a renter while they live together or look for another loser.
The children end up the real losers....oh I forgot, it's your life......WAAIIIH lol. Get over yourselves as the shit gets old. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/23/2007 4:14:00 PM | | I've never been married. I have lived with a couple of girls and I was even engaged once. I WANT to get married someday and have a faimily. Hopefully soon. I don't wanna die alone and I'm not getting any younger. | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 5/23/2007 8:23:34 PM | its not such a bad thing..
would you prefer to be divorced/ separated or in one of those sham marriages....  | |
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| Thirty and not married
Posted: 6/1/2007 7:07:48 PM | I am divorced. Trust me when I tell you, it is better to have love and lost than to have never loved before.
Life is hard. Relationships are hard. For all of you that want to take the easy way, have fun on your lonely trip. | |
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