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 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 476
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Never Married...But this could be my New Years Resolution
 chand0x
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 477
Thirty and not married
Posted: 12/31/2007 12:37:00 AM
30 and never married either....

I'd rather wait and find the right one rather than rush into something and become a statistic.
 aries31b
Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 478
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Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:30:08 PM
I'm 31 and never been married. Not looking forward to it either.
 kookygirl
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 479
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/2/2008 11:50:20 AM
Never married and neither are a lot of my friends. It's not such a bad thing anymore these days, but I do wish I had someone to share my time with.
 danceswithcats
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 480
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/3/2008 5:00:28 AM
Does this mean I ought to have put notches in my belt or something? Forty, never married? No kids? In some societies, I'd be considered some sort of monster or witch.
 FireKnight
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 481
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Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/3/2008 8:21:02 AM
34 almost 35 not married. engaged once.
 black-country-guy
Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 482
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:33:39 PM
39 and never married but i have two lovely kids from past relationship was to gether for 16 years . when i ask her to marry me she turn me down and she hurt my pride and i never ask again . and know im single looking for someone special to share my life with .........
 sunshyne1977
Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 483
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Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/6/2008 3:26:00 PM
never married,engaged 3 times and just never could manage to go through with it. and it wasn't all me,mutual decisions every time
 futuredate
Joined: 7/28/2006
Msg: 484
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Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/6/2008 7:47:25 PM
The big 33 this year. I spent way to many hours at school! I spent every hour trying to past tests for the last ten years. The next big test.. findding a good woman. I think that this has been the quest of every man.
 rosesforyou
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 485
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/9/2008 5:21:34 PM
I'm 36, never married and zero kids.

My outlook is. I would rather be selective and find the woman of my dreams that I'm truly happy with, then end up looking at my age and settleing on someone just to be married. I would rather be single for life then married to someone who I'm not truly happy with.
 Fairmont1
Joined: 8/28/2007
Msg: 486
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/9/2008 6:18:06 PM
Kudos to you, Roses.
 Kiss_My_Karma~
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 487
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/9/2008 6:46:04 PM
39 and never married. I am usually thankful for this fact, because I know if I would have married the two people that asked, I would have been twice divorced! On the flip side, I seem to do a lot of soul searching every year on my birthday and I usually get depressed about it. Oh well. Better to be alone than to wish you were.
 msaka05
Joined: 12/20/2007
Msg: 488
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Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/11/2008 9:50:21 AM
I'm over 30, never been married, but desire a partner. I think it's one thing to have not found "the one" another to be over 30 and saying readiness is an issue. People seem to regard marriage/ commitment as something negative and I don't understand that.
 scrapperdog
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 489
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/12/2008 4:43:49 AM
37 and never been married. What should I say about this in my profile? People seem to either think your player who will never quit or a loser when they see this fact.
 searchingalot
Joined: 12/19/2007
Msg: 490
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/12/2008 9:51:37 AM
How about 39 and divorced, lol. I got married at 18 to my high school sweetheart, and she cheated on me less than a year later. Although i am still very interested in a family, i havent found another woman that i want to spend my life with yet. I iew it as i made my mistake early and i leanred form it. You have to want the same future (IE: each other) and also realize that everyone needs friend time or girls night out etc etc. I think our society is the root cause of a lot of divorces for example there are a lot of woen who ask my why i havent remarried....and they are suspicious, i tell them i havent found the right one yet. Its hard to be single for the right reason instead of withsomeone for the wrong reason. There is nothing wrong with someone not married at 30 or 40, for the right reasons....jail isnt one of them, lol
 darque_star
Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 491
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Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/12/2008 4:04:03 PM
I am 35 never married, no kids. I was enaged once.
 spanfly71
Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 492
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/12/2008 5:38:00 PM
im 36 swm & never married
 Srohack
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 493
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/12/2008 8:44:32 PM
Back where i'm from (Russia), pretty much everyone got married before they were like 25. Mostly in their teenage years. It was just the thing to do.
 Greg8001
Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 494
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/27/2008 10:27:07 PM
I think it is perfectly acceptable not to marry when you are 30. Many people are doing things like getting their educations (as I am doing, heading for graduate school). As you get older you also realise if you are going to have children you need to make provisions for them in terms of education, housing and so on which requires very careful joint planning with your partner. I believe financial and career stability are essential also for a stable and successful marriage, and these days this often requires you to have a solid education in place, which can take some time to set up.
 victoriauk
Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 495
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Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/28/2008 12:18:40 PM
hi there, well im 35,never married and have no children, just never met anyone special enough to be a dad
 *Dugout~Groupie*
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 496
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/28/2008 12:25:04 PM
Hi all, I'm 33, never married, and no children either. I just haven't met the right one yet I guess.
 mixxalot
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 497
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Posted: 1/28/2008 4:53:50 PM
I am 37 and not married.

Men today are not wanting to marry due to the punishment system in place against men called divorce industry. Why risk losing one's lifetime earnings in a divorce?

Plus- I do see tons of men shacking up as Dr. Laura calls it with girlfriends. They can get the milk for free without the risk and hassle of a marriage.

Marriage is for poor people and kids. Rich men do not have any real reason to marry unless they want a family.
 nxIIchaos
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 498
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/28/2008 4:54:05 PM
Yeah im in the same boat!!!
I never been married...Its gonna take alot of convincing for that to happen!
I do feel out of place...Tho...I find its just a matter of getting used to...
Younger friends of mine tell me they are so jealous that I have a child already...
I am just glad that I am able to keep up with my little one...
 ultrasneaker
Joined: 8/29/2004
Msg: 499
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/28/2008 7:49:15 PM
I'm going on to 32. I haven't been married yet. Kinda hard to find a GF it seems, especially nowadays.
 Joker_CA
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 500
Thirty and not married
Posted: 1/29/2008 3:08:16 PM
I'm 45 and have never been married and consider myself a well adjusted individual. I have never ruled it out and still won't rule it out, if it happens that would be great, if it doesn't I continue to enjoy my journey and appreciate the relationships that I have had or those to come.
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