| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 2/5/2008 2:32:01 PM | | It doesn't matter if the high numbers are due to being in a long term relationships. Too many is just too many, you're still whorish, and it just proves that something is wrong with YOU. Why have you had so many long term relationships that have ended? Didn't you learn from the first few relationships? | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 2/5/2008 3:12:53 PM | Yoyanna,
go back and read my post again. I said if they weren't in long term relationships and have only dated casually or semi-seriously then it'd be expected that they'd have higher numbers than someone who'd been married all that time. I'm not sure where you were going with your rant at the end though. It made no real sense. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 2/5/2008 3:23:57 PM | | I think maybe some of the men in here are jealous becuz their woman has gotten more action than they have. Man..grow up. It shouldn't matter what the number, its the past. And how many sexual partners you have had doesn't define who you are. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 2/5/2008 3:29:07 PM |
Deuce98.....We were thinking (on another thread) that this Yoyanna person is really a guy and he's posting as a woman---check out his/her other posts.
Yoyanna is just a troll. Or some yokel on a crusade to "save you sinners" (being from Alabama and all) from ourselves.
Or something along those lines.
Truth is, sex is pleasurable. And both men and women engage in sexual acts, sometimes with another that they haven't known all that long. And that has happened all the way back before there was recorded history.
Actual numbers mean nothing as long as you take the needed precautions to keep yourself safe. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 2/13/2008 1:21:27 PM |
I think maybe some of the men in here are jealous becuz their woman has gotten more action than they have. Man..grow up. It shouldn't matter what the number, its the past. And how many sexual partners you have had doesn't define who you are.
Well, I've probably had more sexual partners than many I've dated, women so it's not being jealous of their "action". I'd be more concerned as what they did, rather than who they did it with.
A woman who has been in a number of stable and good relationships is going to be a lot better as a long-term partner than someone who has been in a number of bad or abusive sexual relationships.
As for how many sexual partners you have not defining who you are...
I don't think I agree. I think my sexual past definately influences my behaviour now and will in the future.
Sexual partners can in many ways define you. For example, every woman who has kids, is now defined in some ways by her sexual past.
One of my friends was a swinger, she feels that it has changed her life, and not for the better. She feels that she has to inform partners of her past because she feels they have the right to know for several reasons.
We are all defined by what we have done, to think otherwise doesn't make any sense. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 5/30/2008 2:24:20 PM | | Its not just a turnoff but in my idea, it changes the way i feel emotionally about someone. I had a girlfriend tell me i was her 10th sexual partner. It made me sick. It is very different when you have sex with someone you are in a relationship with that the both of you have full intentions to take the relationship the distance. I have sex with girls that i like so much i want to spend time with them and become monogamous. Its called an emotional connection. When you meet someone at the bar when you are drunk and screw; not only is there a very small percentage that you will take that relationship much further, but it also shows that sex is something they will do with what seems like anybody. My point is, i felt like shit having sex with her after now knowing that im am no ore special that joe smo. Thats Slutty. If you dont want to seem slutty then dont just **** strangers. It is very different. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 5/30/2008 2:34:56 PM | | WHY?? should it matter?? unless you are the jealous type then previous #'s really should not matter.. What someone has done before me (sexually) is none of my business.. All that matters is what they are doing while they are with me.. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 6/24/2008 5:44:30 PM | | If all it takes is a number to have you thinking what kind of girl she is... then don't ask. Because if a girl thinks that telling you the truth will make you think differently of her, then she will probably end up lying to you. Besides, we all know the rule. Add 10 to whatever he/she tells you. LOL. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 11/26/2008 10:50:00 PM | | It should not matter. Men(d0gs) are always going to be with other dogs such as(women). And vise versa. Women are as bad as men!!!! As if in this day and age we are so prude too think that certain women won't think about takin someone home from some bar, some young stud just to take him home, and have her druncken way with him and then I say that you're wrong. I don't think so! I work at a small bar and have seen it first hand. These girls (women married or not) don't give a shit about thier situation. To be honest It's the women workin on men rather than the the the other. Yes, I have beeen a victum of this ploy but will always refuse this kind of attention!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 11/26/2008 10:50:14 PM | | It should not matter. Men(d0gs) are always going to be with other dogs such as(women). And vise versa. Women are as bad as men!!!! As if in this day and age we are so prude too think that certain women won't think about takin someone home from some bar, some young stud just to take him home, and have her druncken way with him and then I say that you're wrong. I don't think so! I work at a small bar and have seen it first hand. These girls (women married or not) don't give a shit about thier situation. To be honest It's the women workin on men rather than the the the other. Yes, I have beeen a victum of this ploy but will always refuse this kind of attention!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 11/26/2008 10:50:29 PM | | It should not matter. Men(d0gs) are always going to be with other dogs such as(women). And vise versa. Women are as bad as men!!!! As if in this day and age we are so prude too think that certain women won't think about takin someone home from some bar, some young stud just to take him home, and have her druncken way with him and then I say that you're wrong. I don't think so! I work at a small bar and have seen it first hand. These girls (women married or not) don't give a shit about thier situation. To be honest It's the women workin on men rather than the the the other. Yes, I have beeen a victum of this ploy but will always refuse this kind of attention!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 11/27/2008 12:08:05 AM |
its got to be about 14 for a woman, till you start to think about what kinda girl she is!
and what age is the woman for whom you have made this rule? The older you are, the more potential lovers you have had - male or female. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 11/27/2008 12:31:59 AM |
How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
OP -- To me, she could have as few or as many lovers in her life as suits her.
However...
If even ONE of them was a "for hire" scenario...all bets are off. It could be her very first and only lover in fact...if she sold her body to him, she's gutter trash to me.
As long as she didn't sell herself, she could have 100 ex lovers for all I care.
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