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Posted: 3/8/2006 3:38:37 PM | I love how people only use the word slut to refer to women. I love how people only use the word easy to refer to women.
Personally, it shows me just how insecure some men really are. If you major concern is how "easy" your partner was or what she did before you, then you are totally insecure and underserving of a relationship with a wonderful person. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:35:27 PM | Well said Devoe. Blunt and to the point. Can we all be in our teens and just start over again?
lol !!
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| In my opinion ...
Posted: 3/8/2006 8:44:39 PM | As usual, His Sexiness, The Molonel, has summed up the argument succinctly.
Go Mo! | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 3/8/2006 11:28:48 PM |
If he were all that, and a bag of chips, she'd still be with him, wouldn't she? I'm man enough, and confident enough, that nobody can phase me by making snide remarks about her past. - molonel
Unless he rocked her socks and then past her ass on. She might think he was way better then you but is settling for you because he passed her over after he got what he wanted. I'm sure it happens. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 3/8/2006 11:48:44 PM | | Well... I'll say this. I avoid responding to this question. Nobody has ever been accepting of the fact that I have had LOTS of partners. I don't care about the number, what is important to me is that I have never had an STD. I get tested each time I enter a new relationship out of respect for myself and my partner. It does only take 1 partner to catch something. So even if you are a good boy or girl who hasn't slept around, you could be dirty! As for the number, I would not bat an eye at 14. Heck that's just a good month! (kidding) | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 12:07:07 AM | For some it's important for some couples it isn't....depends on the people. For me, if a Girl says, "Whats the big deal, its just sex?" well then I would have had a problem. Not too many guys want a girl who has slept with 1/2 the town, that can / is a reflection on their character.
Of course, many girls don't want a guy lke that either. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:21:47 PM |
Unless he rocked her socks and then past her ass on. She might think he was way better then you but is settling for you because he passed her over after he got what he wanted. I'm sure it happens. - razcle
Nearly every woman you meet will have men (or women) in her past who were better lovers, had better chemistry, bigger**** (or knew how to use a strap-on, if they were women), or whom they loved more than they love you right now. If you simply can't stand that thought, then stop dating immediately. Because if your lover, or SO, or spouse suspects that your ego can't handle the thought of any of these facts, then he or she will simply lie to you.
It's just that simple.
Anyone can feel nostalgia for past lovers. That doesn't matter if they've had two or two hundred past lovers. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:27:37 PM | Yes why is it that women who sleep around are sluts and whores?What are men when they sleep around with a bunch of women?And personally I love sex.And with different partners its always different.Safe sex always | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:59:44 PM | ("Yes why is it that women who sleep around are sluts and whores?What are men when they sleep around with a bunch of women?")
What a loaded statement. Begging for the response of , because we can. Men are studs and the counterpart to that is women are sluts. Of course you dont like that statement because it doesnt rectify anything and just justifys a males promiscuity. Genetically women are designed to carry a man's offspring. Men are designed to impregnate as many females as possible. An idealogy called pro-creation to strengthen and populate our species. It is such an archaeic belief that everyone dismisses it as rhetoric. The idealogy of sex for pro-creation does not leave any interpretation for sex as an action in itself except to serve the purpose as mentioned. What people forget sometimes is that when we find new ways to interpret sex we also find new ways to misinterpret it as well. To sum that up and keep on topic, a sexual turnoff in regards to sexual promiscuity is differing depending on what your own personal preference is. We are always trying to find ways to validate our sexual behaviours and still maintain morality but in my view we have gone too far. I think the magic number reflects your own personal moral standards. A low number, by choice, reflects that you tend to be more monogamous and treat sex as a valuable part of a relationship. A high number means you have disassociated sex as a reference to a strong relationship and treat it as a seperate identity in itself. | |
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Posted: 3/15/2006 5:59:53 AM | I used to think 31 would have been too much untill I met my ex....took me about a day to 'swallow' the number, but then I was fine...
I think for future, I probably won't ask unles its asked of me. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 8/18/2006 10:25:37 AM | I agree with you! it DOES matter....about how casual or "committed" someone has experienced sex. its all about someone's choices and I dont think it matters from men to woman- promiscuous is promiscuous.....I have been with 10 men and I am a 25 yr old female, is that bad? I dont think so at all, because I have had meaningful relationships with 8 of them.....and the other two i was just 'really' wanting to have them-be in a relationship with them, and those men turned out to "SEE' me as someone NOT to be committed to , because I REALLY liked them. Doing someone in a bathroom after just meeting them, is called being " drunk" or " high" and is just idiotic. Sex is always important, But self control is the be all and end all to your life and happiness. People who don't care or cannot control themselves or who are just out to find that " fluttery" feeling..has serious problems. Ill tell you something, I get more "fluttery' feelings when im with someone who i know loves me.... as for any casual encounters..i think its sick..you have to like someone...know a little about them...not just 'bang' them and not be in some sort of relationship with that person.
just.my opinion..not trying to make a point here..just want someone else's oppinion on what i have said.
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 8/18/2006 12:12:29 PM | I really think this is the worst question of all time!!! No good can ever come of it. usually when asked this question my answer would be "none of your business." However, on the rare occassion I'll answer honestly, then it's too many lol. So it's guys like that ("If a girl has had more partners than me, it aint happenin") that make girls lie about the answer anyway. The next time I'm asked that question my answer will be 2 | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 8/18/2006 12:20:33 PM | | really don't care how many partners my partner has had,at this moment its just me and her.some people honestly have real bad luck so they meet people and strike something with them.its all a chemistry thing and believe me thats a hard thing to find these days | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 8/18/2006 1:09:31 PM | This is a question that I never ask, although if she did tell me I might thing negatively of her
I think a woman who has had 20 partners from 20 one night stands and a woman who has had 20 boyfriends as partners are totally different, even though it's still 20 partners. It's not necessarily the number of partners but it's the number of random hook ups. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 8/18/2006 1:16:58 PM | che67 u know people can be reformed whores. i had sex with more then ten people by the time i was 17 but since then ive only had sex with 2 ppl and im 21. i have no std's nor have i ever had an std, so y the hell should it matter how many ppl ive slept with. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 8/18/2006 2:50:56 PM | I haven't been with a man who had a number count that alarmed me yet.
So long as he's been safe and is honest - I like to know for curiousity's sake re: what number I would be.
Of the lovers I have had, the one with the highest numbers was in his mid-20s and I was the 51st person he'd slept with. | |
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| How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off!
Posted: 8/18/2006 4:01:10 PM | if it was 14 in the last hour I'm sure you would be turned off ... but someone else would be turned on and become number 15.
It takes all kinds to make up this weird wonderful world
don't be trying to put numbers on everything
like the statisticians and corporate head hunters.
everyone in every situation is different
so just play it by ear ... and if someone does you in the ear
well it might be clearly time to leave.
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