| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 4/6/2006 1:09:19 PM | | All women, with very few exceptions, can have an orgasm. A kind, patient man who knows what he's doing and cares about his partner's pleasure can teach his partner how to have one. As a matter of fact, a man who really knows what he's doing can teach his partner to have multiple orgasms, spontaneous orgasms, and ( with her consent ) teach her how to have an orgasm every time he tells her to. It's all in knowing what you're doing. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 4/6/2006 1:25:52 PM | I used to.
maybe cause I thought it was I that was doing something wrong.
Till I learned.. It just takes a certain way for me to get off.
now whats the point.
I just know to go to what I need.. get er done. yehaw. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 4/6/2006 1:43:52 PM | | Almost every woman needs her man to know what it takes to get HER off. Every woman is a bit different, so once again, the man has to be a bit experimental to find the right combination, unless of course, he knows how to teach her to have an orgasm anytime she wants to ... but that's another thread. :) | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/8/2006 11:05:07 AM | | I don't fake as a rule. I am quite capable of achieving the BIG O's and if help is needed have no problem giving additional instructions to a man in bringing them on. But I will say on occassion my mental state or whatever resists no matter how hard I want to achieve that reward. I know how important it is for a man to satisfy a woman and feel the same toward meeting his satisfaction needs. For this reason there is nothing more sad than both him and I running a valient race in the sexual olympic finals and having that gold metal wretched from our grasp so to speak when I realize it just aint going to happen tonight no matter how well he his doing it, good this all feels or how long we go at it. Even though I have tried to tell him this, sometimes he wants so badly to see that I am satisfied he will not give up. Men seem to have a problem believing satisfaction they can not see being as visual as they are. They don't relate well to emotional satisfaction. So ... occassionally I have FAKED it as a gold mental to him, because it was truely a great experience. It just didn't end with the Big O!!! he is used to seeing. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/8/2006 12:42:49 PM | | I never have to fake it. Not once in the past three years, and if I was sleeping with a man who wasn't able to give me an orgasm, I wouldn't fake it, I would act and look bored so he might get the hint to step it up.... | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 1:04:16 AM | just for general knowledge women are built different than men and don't know how to have an orgasm at first. Not only that but some men just don't realize this and show frustration, so its just easier to pretend. I always thought it was a defect on my part but now I realize he was just as inexperienced as I was.
So for you men out there complaining about this show patience. Let her know that you see she doesn't get it and then help her learn how. She will never again fake it and I promise it will be an experience neither of you will forget! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 1:56:52 AM | I used to be one of those fakers back in my 20's. lol You men have no idea how easy it is to do. Anyone can fake muscle contractions down there and a lil moan here and there. And to the person who said you only get wet when you orgasmn ~ uh,,no. lol Things can still feel pretty damned good down there and women can get pretty wet,,,but does not mean we are having an orgasm. lol It just means its feeling real good.
There have been soooooo many threads on this subject! lol Yanno,,not every woman is going to have a vaginal orgasm and as a matter of fact,,MAJORITY dont. MOST women NEED that lil guy in the boat to be paid alot of attention to. ;)
Granted,,some women are too shy to speak up and say what feels good to them...hence the faking. But for those of us who arent,,,we will tell you exactly what we like,,how we like it,,,and wont let you up till you get'er done! lolol  | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 2:17:50 AM | "most women FAKE orgasms most of the time! It is really more common than not."
Don't you women get tired of faking O's all the time? What's the main reason for doing it? There's even a debate now if some women are even capable of having an orgasm at all. Ladies, help us men to help you. We don't want you faking orgasms all the time. we want you to have them as often as possible.
Personally i dont get fed up of faking because i dont fake one but from what I've read and heard....I think that women fake orgasms when they have never achieved an orgasm or don't know how to achieve an orgasm.This is left down to the person themselves,if they dont know how their own body arouses pleasure/satisfaction then how do they show a partner what turns them on! I bet they do get fed up of faking,they should be more open and willing to show their partner what turns them on so that they can acheive the "BIG O".
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 3:02:46 AM | | Most women fantasize about being actresses at one point or time in life. They can really get into character. Which I don't think is a bad thing. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 3:07:13 AM | never faked one never had to, either with a man or woman,, guess im lucky,, but those that fake it, shouldnt if to please partner.... other wise partner will never learn...  | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 3:30:53 AM | I don't have sex unless I'm in the mood for it and when I am, poor guy if he doesn't satisfy me. I never fake ... if he comes before me I simply say we are not done yet and I'll make sure he won't leave the bed until I go to heaven and back.
Usually, in that case I have to take matters into my own hands and show him how I ride ... luckily when I'm on top I always get what I want. Unfortunately, I cannot say the same thing for other positions.
Hence why I have to be in the mood and full of energy to have sex because just in case the guy doesn't managed to hit what he has to hit, I have to do all the work. But I never fake, it's not nice for the guy and it's not fair on the girl if she is not satisfied! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 3:55:46 AM | Okay honestly, I have had numerous women throughout my life say that I was the first guy to make them orgasm, I am dating someone who I have been with a little while now and again she says that I am the first one who makes her cum. Does this mean they were all lying to me, or does it mean that most guys are terrible in bed?
...and I know that she orgasms now a lot of the time I can feel her … you know… contractions… that and she wants on way too offten to be faking it! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 6:11:22 AM | | All women fake orgasms.....I myself have in most of my relationships. Guess part of the being shy doesn't help. Believe me, if a guy knows what he is doing than he wont let the girl fake. I definately wouldn't fake if I didn't have to. I'm not about to tell the guy what he has to do... he should know by my reactions on wether it's working or not! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 6:22:02 AM |
he should know by my reactions on wether it's working or not!
do you not think that your burying your head in the sand.you cant expect a guy to just assume by your reactions.a relationship/partner would find it more appealing/beneficiary if someone communicates with them rather than keeping mouth buttoned up.
All women fake orgasms
This is untrue, you are talking for yourself not for "ALL" women.Think about this......I have never faked and never would.Maybe if you communicated more ,then you would be getting the real deal more and not having to fake it all the time! Does that not make sense forever smiling? | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 6:42:25 AM | I used to be shy like you,,,,Forever Smiling. I guess you have to be really comfortable with yourself and your body. Some guys do know the basics of what to do,,but every woman likes things differently (pressure,,slow,,fast,,,stay in one spot,,move around,etc,,) and the guy wont know what YOU like unless you tell him. You said that he should know by your reactions on whether its working or not ~ true! BUT,,,if he moves out of your 'hot spot',,,you have to tell him. By faking,,he's just gonna assume that he's doing a terrific job. Hey,,,YOU deserve to feel good too! Let 'em know.  | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 7:54:28 AM | I have faked in the past. In the last year or so, no I have not.
When I was young and inexperienced I thought that when the guy got off I should act like I did too.
The problem was I allowed my partner to set the pace and did not express my desires or wishes.
Since I have been on the dating scene again, I now tell/show my partner what I like and encourage the same from him. The sex has been fantastic!
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