| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 4:46:34 PM | Chemistry Heaven:
When I said all women fake orgasms I meant at one time or another. I was speaking more for myself than in general. I have never been comfortable enough to just relax and enjoy someone, I think it's probably because I haven't met Mr. Right. Believe me, my ex husband didn't even do it for me.....jeeez what a sad story huh??? lol
I know what you are saying about communicating more, I guess I just need to find someone to do that with...lol. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 5:23:04 PM |
When I said all women fake orgasms I meant at one time or another.
Yeah but ive NEVER faked ,so the comment was untrue.some women DO ,some women DONT. whats the point,relax,enjoy,go with the flow and if he isnt doing it for you then tell him where hes going wrong or point out exactly what you do like.Like alot have commented on in this thread he'll appreciate it more and he will never know what turns you on if you dont open up.your only kidding yourself aswell as him and surely that isnt a good start to any relationship?! Each and everyone one of us deserves to give aswell as receive pleasure  | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 5:35:02 PM | | guys can fake orgasms too...sure he will ejaculate but it doesn't mean that the ejaculation was pleasureable or intense...there is a different between intensity and biological response to stimulation | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 6:49:48 PM | | I'll give you that mate, sometimes it's an orgasm, sometimes it's just blowing your load. However on a serious note, people are saying ''yeah girl you deserve to feel good too'', believe it or not I would say 90% of these guys who have posted on here, EVEN if they deny it, TRULY care whether or not they please their women in bed, hell, I know that I care more about how the girl is feeling than how I am, if I want to cum I can do it myself, with my hand, the true turn on for me is knowing that the woman is in heaven, and i have been with girls who have faked it, and it hasn't helped, but with my ex, she told me how she wanted it, and it was better for both of us, pretty much everyone has said the same thing. Guys, you want her happy, LISTEN, Girls, you want to be happy, TEACH! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 7:05:32 PM | Hey, if it's gonna take you longer than three minutes to get where you need to be then prepare for it. Cuz when I come home I am capable of finishin' one off in a single stroke. I do this by choice, but often not. So when I call and say I'm coming home in 30 minutes, get busy with yourself so when I go in and just explode, it would be nice if you took the time to get yourself ready too! I like to tease my woman by cumming while I am my softest. So funny to see the expression on her face. It's like, "How'd you do that?"
If she's faking it for more than two or three times and keeps calling...hey, I ain't mad at her either. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 8:07:55 PM | | I think you reach a certain age and you refuse to fake. I think I only ever did that with one person. Now if it ain't happenin, I am not hiding the fact. Why waste his time and mine... plus if he can't get me there today by what he is doing... last thing I want to do is make him think he should do it again! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/13/2006 8:14:56 PM | | So - because it happens to you then it is a rule??? The one posting was right tho - I have only faked to hurry and get him done. But I have adjusted to being quite able to reach orgasm quite quickly so it isn't a problem - unless the fella is really bad at what he is doing that it becomes impossible and he won't listen. Then he never gets to try again. I am to old to fake it and have even stopped after I had and made HIM do without. He kepts coming back - go figure. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 5/16/2006 9:14:06 PM | | I used to fake..once upon a time. In fact, until my current relationship, I am sad to admit that I had NEVER had an orgasm from sex. Not that I was aware of anyway lol and that counts as never in my book. HOWEVER, I hadn't faked in years...and now I know what the real thing is like, I wouldn't dream of faking it. Besides, he would be able to tell the difference I think. The gentleman in question is both talented and perceptive. Lucky lucky little me. There is, of course the matter of chemistry. I am not saying by any means that the female orgasm rests solely in the...*ahem* hands...of the other partner, there is a certain amount of give and take. I do have to admit though, that your partner must play a significant role because, as I'd stated (honestly, I swear) until now, I'd never had an orgasm from sex. Ladies, my advice to you, is to never fake, because if you're not getting there, then there's work to be done between the two of you, and it's definitely not something to be missed out on! Cheers. :) | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:26:36 AM | lol when i was younger i faked em all the time. i guess its cause i the men i was with was so boring and i never had the heart to tell them.now though if they arn't doing it for me i pollitly show them what i want so they get the idea without feeling hurt.after all whats the point in havin sex if you can't enjoy it?
i got to admit that i wish i hadn't faked em b4 cause then maybe i would have gotten more rather than havin to do it for myself later.but hey you live and learn. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:55:57 AM | Never have faked and never will... just on principle.
My feeling is that women who do, do it to protect or shore up the guy's ego.
Sometime ago I had a lover who thought he was god's gift to women in the bedroom. Apparently his other girlfriends (according to him) thought he was hotstuff and really really talented in the bedroom.
As we were having problems sexually (I was not impressed at all with his technique, or lack thereof) he accused me and said it must be 'my problem'. When I informed him that I had NEVER had trouble in that department (orgasming) he said 'Well all the other chicks I've had, have screamed my name and felt as if they had died and gone to sexual heaven'.
My comeback? They must have FAKED IT. He was dumbstruck and would not believe it at all. Too hard on the ego it seems.
Turns out, got talking with one of his Exes. And her reply? 'I faked it EVERYTIME, I had too. He made me feel like crap in the bedroom'.
I couldn't but knowingly  smile. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 6/17/2006 5:33:14 AM | | Talk about a snowballing effect .. think about it ladies if you fake an orgasm you are telling your partner that he (or she) is doing it right and encouraging him to do the same thing again .. talk about a self defeating action .. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:10:08 PM | | Yes women need to take control of their orgasms. It seems however some men dont like to told anything when it come to sex and think they know it all. I would like to find a man who would listen so that both of us were satisfied and fully. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/8/2006 3:32:01 AM | I thought I would never fake an orgasm. Unfortunately there were plenty of times where my ex was just terrible at what he was doing and I had to, just to get it over with. I am always so honest too, I guess I was just fed up and wanted him to do his duty. lol! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/8/2006 4:57:26 AM | I could never understand a woman who fakes an orgasm - if you're having sex why not make sure you get the prize as well - !
Woman have to make sure they communicate their needs clearly and make sure they get that orgasm each time!!! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/8/2006 5:28:27 AM | Another reason why 'some' women may fake their O's may be cuz some men may label them as being 'too aggressive' and some men dont like that.
About 2 years i was seeing a man who had a cave man approach to sex which SUCKED! He could go for hours and hours which for me,,bore me to death. I was honest with him and told him that i needed more than that,,,that i needed my 'C' to be stimulated. Woah,,,he was pretty upset and told me i was too agressive! I was letting him know politely,,not demandingly,,,on the things i like. I even suggested about bringing toys into the relationship for both of us to enjoy (he knew i had some) but he flipped on that idea like i was attacking his ego! He just wasnt open minded at all,,nor willing to listen to me on what i liked. Needless to say,,,i was labeled as aggressive (pshhh ok whatever!! lol). That relationship did not last very long. lol
So if some women are afraid to speak up for fear of being labeled too aggressive,,that may be another reason for them faking. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/8/2006 6:08:02 AM | Nope, I have never faked..to me it's almost like lack of trust and communication in a relationship..if you have to fake all the time...your sex life is lacking..
Just my two cents worth..
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/9/2006 12:03:28 PM | Ok I'll fess up...that one time when you thot i let go on your back...you weren't curious why I had the squeezable Helmans in the bedroom....I apologize......
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:31:55 PM | | Wow,I cant imagine why anyone would ever even fake one--sex can still be great, even if I dont have the big O,and If I want one that bad,I will take care of It myself or give my partner the road-map on how to get me there! And since this topic has come up w/most of my friends that are girls--95% of them have never faked it either--so I dont think Its "most women". | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:40:48 PM | | i have only faked and orgasm once....only cuz i was getting tired and wanted him to stop..it was good tho he just wasnt doing it right i suppose | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:55:40 PM | i think all women sometime or another have faked an orgasm to stop an insecure male feeling bad but then if the guy was any good he should be doing his job and taking her needs and not his macho self into consideration do the job right or leave it alone ,the problem is people do stuff and do it 99 % whats the point you want to do it or not ,the women is being dishonest and is a liar when she fakes so she is as bad and deceitful and deserves to be with a loser lover .birds of a feather fly together, oh and by the way if a guy does not know whena woman is faking and orgasm he should be out dating sheep ,there is an easy way to tell . | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/9/2006 11:53:54 PM | | Man can I almost feel when that is happening of someone I know. I have been with women who cum so easy and some who have a harder time cumming. Too many variables to list as to why one would fake it. Many or just human nature. Tired, not in the mood, not being done right, real headaches, not feeling good, etc. One of my latest relationships could cum so easy and do it over and over. Great sex and fun with that sweetie. I had to see how much was real of this woman. I gave her oral sex one time to see and she would flow with juices right before and during her orgasm. These were not the multi-orgasmic type either they were the big ones. She was great. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/10/2006 6:55:11 AM | | We do it to not make the guy feel bad, but hey i dont fake it. For some reason i am honest and tell them if it was not good, lol. A good idea is to maybe ask her how she likes it? | |
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