| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/10/2006 7:42:28 AM | You are correct. I have faked orgasms only because I was married to someone who was always in a bad mood and when we would have sex, I did not feel any warmth from him as a husband. My body begins to heat "temperature" before I hit the orgasm. Heat begins to rise slowly and I cannot be interrupted. I need to be caressed, touched in the right places and pumped. This must go on till I cum. One wrong move by the man and he blows it!
It's also a concentration game where u focus on what you are feeling and you have seconds to also feel thankful that this man you are doing it with is giving his best for you to feel good.
I have learned to be honest with my sex partner only because he has been honest with me.
I am open now to tell him that I cannot cum that I am having a hard time getting an orgasam but I pout when saying this and so he really gets on the ball till he makes me cum!
So please be honest!
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/10/2006 9:28:53 AM | | I have learned to get to where I need to be. If she can't too bad. I will call in advance so she can begin the process for herself. Some women, and men, just have hang ups that are their problem. I can't fake having a good time or enjoying something with much conviction. Nor can I be fooled. Such a childish game. Be real or be gone! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/10/2006 10:34:47 AM | every woman has faked an orgasm some time in their lives they do it to make a guy feel good because they do not want to hurt that male macho insecurity you know so the can can brag to his friends while he sips a beer afetr work , a guy would never say to his buddie "hey bubba my wife faked an orgasm last night" here is the thing if the woman has to fake an orgasm the guy should date sheep it is not that hard to get a chick off if you know where and what to do .....and it is easy to tell when woman has orgasmed,maybe some of the guys should go to classes and get a little savvy,or maybe their fathers were as dumb as them when it came to women so maybe their parents need a good slap .it is up to the parents to tell the kids about the real world  | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/10/2006 10:53:26 AM | | i faked with my ex once things went south in the relationship,and gave it up eventually. when he asked,i told him the truth,and we stopped having sex since he wasn't trying to work at it. never needed to before him,and haven't found out yet if i need to after. hopefully i find someone more sexually compatible with me again,nothing is worse then the feeling of 'damn,this sex sucks'. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/15/2006 10:25:31 AM | oschun is absolutely 100% correct if yolu give the woman oral and n ot be selfish in the whole deal which a lot of guys do not like to do is give women oral ,i can undesrstand from a hygene point of view but it ius a two way street ,then if you are into questionable people thyen your sexual practice need to be overhauled somewhat .
i have never gone down on nast and i have never been nasty to let somone do the same there are showers and it olnly takes 10 minutes to clean up.
if a guy is expecting oral from a chick he better be prepared to reciprocate the whole thing afetr all it is great ,i find sexual repression plays a big part in realtionships .this would stem from lack of communications from sexually repressed parents who themselves have pro-created just to extend the family ,i lkike to call that pilgrim or christian sex ,you know they only believe in banging to make another likewise sexually repressed offspring who will eventually will grow up and rape children b ut that is reall for maury povich or jerry springer to decide on national tv .
but i have found if i do the oral fisrt and make a good job of making the woman happy then therest will fgall into place ,sex is not rocket science it is about sharing geez even monkies screw so what the hell makes it so difficult for human to get it right and all monkies do is ask for bannanas  | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:12:55 AM | I don't think these days women fake orgasms they way they used to or were expected to just to make the man happy. I never fake orgasms and never have. Why would any women want to sell herself short of what she is entitled to..as much as any man is. If the guy is a good guy he will want, prefer, be excited and flattered by the woman enjoying what he is doing to her, sort of an ego boost.If he is a really good listener she can have many in a row and be bouncing off the walls with delight!!!
Some women have not had orgasms not because they can't but because noone has taken the time to do it right or they don't know themselves well enough to show the guy what to do to get it right.But, in response to your question of "what is the reason for doing it?"...maybe the woman is tired and she's had enough and wants to go to sleep. Maybe it's not doing anything for her and she's ready to bolt so if she does, he does, & she's gone.It all depends on the particular situation and those involved. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 7/16/2006 12:56:48 AM | Okay, here is the way I see it. While I hope he enjoys it, I'm not doing it for him. I personally want to get something out of it as well. They don't fake it to make me 'feel' better. And honestly, I feel disappointed if I don't get there....
I know what it takes for me, and it's not his mouth....!
If I am with someone regularly.... There are things that happen that can't be faked.... So even if I wanted to, I'd have to hang it up....
There's always round two....or three....or four.......... | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:44:02 AM | One thing I'd like to know is how does a woman "feel" after she has "successfully faked" an orgasm.
Feeling of relief? Like she's a great actress? Too tired for sex and wishful not to disappoint? I wouldn't understand how a woman feels about this, when it comes to sexual expression, I fake nothing; that's why I'm asking this.
I could see why a woman would fake one due to fear of a relationship crumbling otherwise.
Personally I don't think any of my partners "faked". I say this for a few reasons. All my relationships (the handful I've had) were based in reciprocity. That commands mutual respect. If I'm not pleasing my partner, I ask and learn how to do that. Then there is no problem.
I anticipate no problems in my next relationship because I value COMMUNICATION. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:47:26 AM | | I don't fake them...if the sex isn't good enough to have one, I'm certainly not good to pad his ego by faking one. If anything I'll let him know so that next time he can do something different to improve the expirence. I'm not mean, I've just learn that honesty is the best policy. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 2:55:39 PM | | I think that's BS.....sorry...but I do...I can't imagine any sane or rational woman faking it when she can simply clue her partner in and get the real thing....that faking thing wouldn't happen in MY world...just sayin...damn.... | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 2:57:18 PM | | Im with you on this one Shannon.....if we fake it, then he's going to think its all good and keep up that pattern....NOT a good thing obviously.... | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 3:40:21 PM | | I don't really think women fake it- they might not have one but still moan and scream and the guy mistakes that for them orgasming =) | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 5:57:33 PM | There are four types of womans orgasm:
The positive: Oh yes! Oh yes! Yes! Yes! YYEEEEEEESSSSSS!!!!
The negative: Oh no! Oh no! No! Noooooooooooooooo ooooooohhh!!!!!
The spiritual: Oh God! Oh God! GOooooooooooooD!!!!!
And the fake: Oh (insert man's name here)!!! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 7:43:52 PM | What's the difference between a girlfriend, a slut, and a housewife?
The girlfriend says "more more"........
The slut says "harder harder"........
And the wife says "beige.......I think I'll paint the ceiling beige"
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 8:39:11 PM | | I actually had an idea when I was cross country skiing with some new friends. One of them had a heart rate monitor that he looked at when he was ascending steep inclines. When I noticed, I joked that you could probably use one in bed to see if either partner was into it. You wouldn't know for sure, but it would give you a great indication of how excited they were. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 8:43:52 PM | | Do you think that it is possible to overuse sex toys, i.e. vibrators and also masturbating almost every day would be a cause of not being easily stimulated by a man via penetration or orally? | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 9:52:56 PM | Realdeal: Nope. I'm a toy nut, have the best of everything on the market. Its just a little different with a living 'toy.' Usually you really just need to admire the man behind the machinery, and tell him in no uncertain terms just what pleases you.
Since this is on the fake O thread, I am also going to add that sometimes if you just mimic how your body changes when you are achieving orgasm on your own, the shallow breathing and whatnot that precludes climax, you can actually bring yourself there by "fooling Yourself" so to speak. If the man is attentive to your needs, and you care for him beyond the sexual encounter, it is more likely a mental block than a physical one.
Read "The Guide to Getting it On" Paul Joannides, through Goofy Foot Press. www.goofyfootpress.com It is funny and sensitive and will give you the basics on most any sex question, plus resource references so you can find out more in depth. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not?
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:40:05 PM | | i would only imagine most dont fake ,my experiance if a woman doesnt wanna have sex and gives in just to shut you up chances are theres nothing to fake ,and she chooses to fake orgasm ,she is only depriving herself ,most of us men could care less after we had our kick at the kitty,again i only speak for myself but ive never experianced a fake orgasm but rather more of "HURRY UP AND BE DONE WITH" | |
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