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Posted: 2/22/2006 5:21:44 PM | @PO:
Rape fantasies are more common than you might think. But they are just that: fantasies. They have more to do with giving up power completely, and being taken forcefully, powerfully, overwhelmingly, than with a guy and his knife pushing a woman into the bushes beside her car. It's roleplaying rather than felony material. And you will usually find it on the shelf right next to spanking, choking, biting, scratching, light- to medium-BDSM, and dirty talk. | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 5:30:50 PM | Thanks, MO. I guess it's hard for me to understand that total relinguishing of power. I s'pose it's actually admirable, trusting somebody that much, trusting them enough to allow them complete physical control of you.
So, kudos everyone. | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 7:01:01 PM | | I know where your comming from. There are many reasons why I do not even mention the whole porn topic. I've been watching porn prolly longer than most men, and I think I watch with a different eye than what they do. Therefore leaving alot of porn ending up being hum-drum. | |
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Joined: 2/21/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2006 7:24:07 PM | truth be told....
Porn is boring,,,,,,creating real life eroticism is where it's at....imagination, willingness, and desire is all it takes. Watching the same sh*t on ever movie over and over and over is like having meatloaf every night for dinner...... | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 8:53:10 PM | PeaceOfficer,
I would tell you in a heartbeat ;)
However I'd be waaaay off topic
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Posted: 2/22/2006 10:52:17 PM | | personally i wouldnt care what kind of porn it is cause that isnt u on the tv and if that turns u on he should be all for it and not care wat u watch. if he really cares about what kind of porn u watch, i think thats a lil childish. if he watches porn he should be all for wat u watch, i know i would and any other guy would to. | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 10:57:47 PM | dude chicks usually whine about guys having porn...not the other way around. i think this is an interesting topic BECAUSE
1. FEMALES DO NOT DEVULGE INFO ABOUT THEIR SEXUAL HABITS OPENLY LIKE MEN DO
2. WOMEN CANNOT BE PORTRAYED AS 'SLUTS' AND THEREFORE FIND EXCUSES TO HIDE THEIR SEXUALITY
3. MEN ARE TOO HORNY...BUT HEY IT'S ALL GOOD I GET BY. (LOL)
4. IT'S MIDNIGHT AND I HAVE SHIT TO DO. (LIKE SLEEP.)
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Posted: 2/22/2006 11:00:13 PM | what!? my woman owns porn? quick put some on and let the games begin. doesnt matter what kind, but preferrably our own | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 12:05:53 PM |
for example the last one i got that i really like. starts out as a sleep fantasy thing, than it turns into bondage, than rape. bout 40 mins long, if anybody has seen it, dont tell me how it ends, lol, i have never made it through the whole thing.
Naaaaaah, Becky. That seems very reasonable to me, m'dear.
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Posted: 2/23/2006 12:21:16 PM | ahhhh thanks toak 
Im still pissed about the crap PO was spewing back on page one and two. but i guess i can admit that it was a good thing that he did piss me off, lol. I told my guy all about the thread and than he read it, lol.
he knows all about the porno in question from this thread. he still really wants to see it, i just have to show him now.
i heard back from my male friend that watched it, he said it was no biggy, and i shouldnt worry.
so thanks everyone, even you PO, this thread helped me a lot. | |
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Posted: 3/2/2006 6:59:22 PM | | I adore porn....and love to watch it. Why be embarrased??? I have gay porn...(men) kinky porn...I have every kind of porn...and so enjoy watching it with a partner...hell..when its over...whip out the video cam..and make one!!!! | |
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Posted: 3/2/2006 11:15:31 PM | i gave a lover cunnilingus while she was watching
wait for it
dynasty,you all rember that show
well it was good for her i guess but i thought wow how could you orgasm whilst watching that show??????? | |
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Posted: 3/3/2006 6:59:19 AM | The funniest thing that comes to mind about sharing porn is (more so in the VHS days)... seeing where the tape was stopped!! Rewind a little and see what the final straw was!! A few times I found it so funny that the tape did nothing for me!!
Just can't get the last guys final moments out of my head!
EDIT: Sorry, Becky... I wasn't thinking sharing as in with a partner, more video store stuff! Kisses. | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 3:03:57 AM | Becky B
I often read your posts and find it weird how we have had similar experiences or share the same opinions on certain topics....
I have had similar issues with an ex of mine. After dating for a few months, I confessed that the sex we were having was too vanilla and not doing it for me. He was freaked out about the suggestions I had and what turns me on. So he started downloading me porn that gave me an opportunity to watch others doing what I wanted, which was the next best thing. Our relationship didnt last but it was the start of the fabulous relationship I have with my porn collection.
I too worry about how I will introduce my sexual kinks to my sexual partners. You never know how they will react.... | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 3:42:53 AM | I"m with you... just like men who want to watch me play with my toys.. that is something I just feel is personal with me and BOB...
Becky... can I watch them??? | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 7:10:53 PM | Sunny one, lol, had to read your post like 3 times before I understood what you were talking about. I am  and a real blonde give me a break
I just saw on e-bay that they are bidding on BeckyB's collection
Thanks bandito, I think because of that post, I got a message from some guy who wants to start up a business involving selling porn. 
Princess minx:
I too worry about how I will introduce my sexual kinks to my sexual partners. You never know how they will react....
Yes that is exactly what I was dealing with. Actually starting this thread was a huge help in that department. Dealing with the one poster who I felt was putting me down, after I posted an example of my collection. His posts made me mad, and I ended up telling my BF about it, and he read this thread. So now it has opened up the discussion. I still haven’t showed him the one I mentioned, lol. but I have showed 3 others so far, lol, gotta work him up with the more tame ones. It is still weird watching them with him tho, especially when he makes jokes, lol, than I get even more embarrassed. But its fun.
Mes, sure I will send you what every you wanna watch, lol, I am in the process of sending one to badbadgirl right now. Tried sending one to mel, but her computer sucks, lol.
oh and mes, thats one thing you and me differ on, I am not shy showing and using my toys, lol. well i am sorta, but it is a must have to get the job done right. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 10:18:40 PM | ^^^anytime Becky
I think its really a good way to help ease your partner into understanding some of your more darker sexual interests and fantasies. It is not like your asking them to act them or realize them immediately.
what you seek is only understanding and acceptance in your healthy sexuality...don't fear it...share it! | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 10:23:39 PM |
for example the last one i got that i really like. starts out as a sleep fantasy thing, than it turns into bondage, than rape. bout 40 mins long,
I think I might be interested in getting that one!! How can I get a copy, Becky? | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 9:51:29 AM | First off, fantasies are fantasies, some you would like them to be real, and some you'd not.
Now, for the rape thing, I remember an article that found forced sex as a huge turn on to a huge number of males, but what was even more suprising, was that, a large majority of the females in the group found it arrousing even though they verbally rejected it. It's funny as, I've heard of guys stating the weird things their previous aquaintases wanted, and the results were pretty alarming, for the most part, the most bizzare sexual acts came from one night stands.
The good part about it, 95% of the population don't act on there fantasies otherwise the world would be alot more screwed up than it is (it's already messed up).
Just like animal sex and bondage, etc..................
Nothing wrong with watching it unless it has kids (then I'd freak out), I watched porn with my ex, the sex was even better, cause at that time she felt more comfy telling me what to do, as before, she would say nothing in the beginning............
And yes, there is a select few lucky guys that don't enjoy porn, though most lie about it, but if not, more power to you........................or could be, that there are some that are more turned on by more bizzare stuff, that the conventional stuff does nothing for them, but when they see their thing, they'll know.....................now those I'd run from.
I've come to the conclusions that Humans are some really scary creatures........... | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 2:31:10 PM | Thanks bandito, shared two more porns last night, lol, I thinking maybe the sleep/rape one tonight.
Fun guy: I don’t mind sending you the vid, send me a message with your msn.
Patrick: I don’t think Im sick at all, but geee thanks.
k-5: I know lots of woman like the whole rape fantasy, I have read the threads on that, lol. just wasn’t really sure how the new BF would take it (because he knows all about my past and my issues with rape). He is fine with it, we just have to sit down and watch it together, so I can show him the stuff in that movie that I like, and don’t like. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 2:37:28 PM | I watch sick stuff, but I can't do it after watching it once.
I get sick about it, I can't ever watch anything but a girl and a guy do it.
Thank you! | |
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