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Posted: 3/6/2006 3:49:45 PM | I was in the porn vid store today and I saw the new line of BeckyB's Kinky Porn Fav's #1-#20....those guys are really fast to pump that stuff out  | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 3/6/2006 3:59:38 PM | You know, I swear I once saw Mel Gibson in a pornographic image. Either that or it was a spitting image of him which resembeled a twin or something. One can never tell anymore nowadays. So many people look so alike.
Sad thing is, I don't remember what the woman looked like. White female is all I remember. Just shocked at a Mel Gibson photo appearing as porn. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2006 1:36:36 PM | hey smile I LOVE PORN, maybe we can get together sometime and see if we can't finish a whole movie!! | |
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Posted: 9/24/2006 7:36:07 PM | | I'm speaking on behalf of me and my partner, my partner is into anal porn and porn in general. I like chains and whips and hand cuffs. We tie the two together and enjoy it alot. You never know until you try it... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 12:26:10 AM | My ex-girlfriend and I watched porn. It was the first time I ever watched porn with a woman.
It was really cool. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 12:49:21 AM | | Peace officer, there's a nice genuineness about you. I can see you weren't out to offend, and I can also see why you might find staged rape unsettling. I'm not sure who the baboon was with the 'all men are animals'. bullshit, but others have moved on from the tarzan crap, Each to their own, but you will find that if you disagree with people, they will bag you, it's a, "I'm insecure about what I'm doing" thing. **** 'em I say, your opinion is as valid as anyones, and if people can't comprehend what you have written, **** 'em again. If you wanna watch porn, share it with you neighbours, boyfriend, girlfriend, cat, dog, who gives a shit? Just put on the farkin' video, will ya? | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 2:24:54 AM | | I think you are all forgetton kindergarden lesson numero uno : Sharing is caring | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 8:59:26 AM | Hello --
If it were me, I would let the relationship mature until you both are very comfortable with each other's likes and dislikes ... then ease into a discussion of erotic film, and then if everything is okay you might (over time) share what you have with him. I'm saying take it very slowly, and if he shows any resistance you can back off.
Lance | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 9/25/2006 9:20:36 AM | "If it were me, I would let the relationship mature until you both are very comfortable with each other's likes and dislikes "
It's too late if you find out he's dead against porn.
Sure you can quit watching porn. But it's part of you regardless what you do in the future. honesty is the best policy. You don't want someone who likes only part of you. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 10:46:20 AM | yeah well... he may be easing you into porn...
as for me and my girl... we have not done the porn share thing yet... but looking forward to it.
I do own some lame porn, but that is to break the girl into the more taboo stuff... mmm midget porn now that could be hot (especially if the midget is a dom!!! mmm)
send him a bit of what you like.. as a starter and then go from there
or if you want to introduce him to it... watch a movie about porn (ala Orgazmo) or something that has a bent of what you are into watching... ease him and yourself into the porn... if he runs away scared well then he may not be the guy for you to plug! | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 9:17:35 AM | I say "Go for Broke"
Get dressed sexy, slam on your raunchiest vid, and reach for the stars. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 9:23:44 AM | Go shopping for NEW porn with him! lol... If you're embarrassed by what you have, then go together and pick out a compromise. This might ease you into being able to actually share your stash! If not, you're dirty little secrets remain your own.....
BTW, is there some kind of trust issue you've got?..... | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 11:30:29 AM | wow.......I am really out of it. I absolutely did not know that women like porn. I personally can take it or leave it ...as far as the topic, if my lady liked porn, i would really love for her to share that with me because what I like the most in a sexual relationship is getting off on what she get's off on...it's her sexuality that most enhances mine..is that off the mark? | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 2:43:58 PM | | Where do they the people to do some of that stuff? I'm curious about that! | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 2:34:21 AM | i had done a coupel of home movies in the 80s for privsate use for me and hubby and was fun
after divorcing they were destroyed
but never watched any more porn until i found some in the house.
it was shock but now i borrow what is there and watch
an old b/f found this very shocking
carolex | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 5:16:23 AM | | If he showed you one of his videos, however lame it was, he's saying something if you get my drift. Ask him to see some more, then show him yours. | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 5:48:41 AM | | Is he the creative open-minded type in bed? If he's not... do yourself a favor and don't share your porn with him. If you have stuff gathering dust at the back of your drawer, show that to him... see how he takes it.. me thinks.. | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 6:06:54 AM | I have the same problem OP... I can watch it by myself, but I feel too embarrassed to watch with another person. Which leads me to a really embarrassing story:
A few years back I gave a guy I was dating a key to my apartment because we were starting to get serious. My best friend had given me this cheesy 80's porn movie for my birthday which I had never gotten around to watching. Well one day while my guy was at work, I found the tape and poped it in... It was pretty funny, girls with blue eye shadow and purple lipstick, big 70's bushes, guys with big mustaches ... but as I watched, I found myself getting turned on by some parts and went to my hiding place, grabbed the silver bullet... went back to the sofa, yanked down my jeans and continued watching. Then a few minutes later I heard my guy slide his key in the lock. He was home early! I scrambled for the remote to the VCR but it wouldn't work so I ran to the TV in a panic to turn it off and just at that moment in walks my guy, me kneeling in front of the TV with my big white bare arse in the air trying desparetly to eject the tape... He had the hugest smile on his face and I was beet red as we both turn to see the bullet lying there on the sofa buzzing away. So then naturally, he wanted to see what I was watching on the tape .... and I knew if he saw the 80's bushes and mustache men I would be even more embarrassed.. I tried keeping the tape away from him, but he was stronger and got it from me and put it back in the vcr, and you should have seen the look on his face. He just started laughing and laughing and wouldn't stop. | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 6:18:11 AM | If you WANT to share it with someone...by all means.
But you know, there's absolutely NOTHING whatsoever wrong with people wanting to keep certain aspects of their life private. What is this propensity for people to assume that there's something wrong with a person if they don't reveal every single detail of their life to someone? It's not about being insecure, and it's not about being shy, and it's not about being closed-minded. Some things are just not anyone else's business, and there's nothing wrong with not sharing your porn with anyone, if that's what you prefer. You don't need to "overcome" anything. There's nothing wrong with you for keeping that part of your life private and personal. | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 6:32:31 AM | Re the Opost
I would not call the short freebie porn vids that I have "my porn". I thought the Opost referred to amateur porn made by the Oposter, until I read the last sentence (where it is clarified it is not).
Of course a couple, GF-BF, SOs, etc, can watch porn together. Why not? Why be "shy"?
Plus own made amateur porn is IMO OK to share with the partner, as long of course as it contains them both, or only the one, but should in no case involve a third party (eg an ex), for matters of shared copyright/intellectual property rights for one! | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 8:55:55 AM | | I recently shared "some porn" , not my porn with a male friend who insisted he could handle it , he hasnt spoken to me since , I think porn is a personal , private thing and maybe needs careful consideration when deciding who to share it with , personally I wont do it again | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 9:07:10 AM | You have to be careful...bring out subtle hints, etc...if they don't like it, no problem...you can still enjoy it yourself during "me " time!!   | |
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