| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 9:19:21 AM | I used to give my ex-girlfriend oral sex while she watched her hentai porn movies, usually she'd have me wear my hair in pigtails and tug on them aggressively beneath the sheets until she reached orgasm
It was a good laugh, dont be shy about it :-)))
As long as theres no animals or children involved, I'm good to go. | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 11:44:12 AM | | Why not go and buy some together? If you have very wild preference, start with something more middle of the road. Magazines, Forums, etc, are ways to share the fantasies that we see in movies as well. | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 1:38:58 PM |
Dont get me wrong, i am totally willing to share my porn, burn it for someone, send it to someone.
but when i watch it, i am always by myself.
my new guy wants to see the types of stuff i like to watch, lol, i cant do it. i would find it too embarrassing. i get embarrassed even trying to describe the different kinds i have.
i have seen one of his vids, and OMG, it was so lame and boring, lol. i think mine would really surprise him, lol.
how do i go from using porn as a private personal thing, to enjoying them with a partner?
OP -- I dunno, some people are just not wired to share everything. Share in the sense of togetherness...not sharing in the sense of distribution.
I'm like you in that sense, and always have been. I'll swap the files between friends and my SO if she's interested, but when it comes time to actually watch any of it...this is a solo effort. If we decide that we'd like to watch some porn together one night, it's not going to be anything I have or anything she has...we'll head to the adult store and find a rental. Did this a couple times with my ex. It's just easier that way. Was kinda fun too for the most part, except instead of allowing it to possibly add spice to the night...we ended up just critiquing the flicks as we watched lol. The fun came after, not during.
Some people can share everything. Some can't. I wouldn't feel pressured to share your stash with your SO unless it's what you wanted to do, not just because someone says it's selfish or odd to keep it to yourself. Sharing the experience should be more important than what you're sharing in particular. Hit an adult rental outlet and pick one together.
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 1:42:40 PM | | any guy dumb enough to judge you based on the type of porn you like ,....well dosent deserve to have you anyway......porn is fantasy ,and just knowing the fact that you enjoy an I assume get off to your porn , would only make you hotter in my eyes............be who you are dont be judged , and on the flip side dont judge either | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 3:12:48 PM | an ex and i knew each other watched porn....but never really talked about it,,,one day we got on the subject lol and it ended up we watched the same stuff!!!!! (yes it was kinky, and no i'm not sharing what it was lol) | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 3:44:01 PM | why get embaressed?
unless your into dodgey types of porn, yunno the extremes then why the hell not??
i once asked all of my contacts to send me their fave short clip of porn.
now THAT was an eye opener!!!
share your porn, dont be shy!!!
because seriously i bet he has seen a whole lot weirder then you!
anyone want 'lesbian balls of steel?' im done with it  | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 5:19:22 PM | | If you're not mature enough to talk about you fantasies with him you shouldn't be having sex with him. | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 5:37:14 PM | | I believe that sharing the type of porn you enjoy will open the door to more adventurous and exciting sexual experiences. Why keep it a secret - turn it on - talk about it - discuss what you would like to do and be happy that your communication has opened the door to what can be a thrilling new desire! | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 5:55:40 PM | | I think a woman would be less likely to chase a guy away with her porn preferences, than it would be for a her to be put off by a his porn collection. Women, more often than not, tend to be less accepting of a man's fantasies and kinks. | |
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| Shy About Sharing My Porn
Posted: 11/15/2008 7:38:17 PM | wow what a cool post, I think loads of people don't share porn with their partners but then often they don't share sexual fantasies with each other either. Its a shame because most of the joy of sex and loving comes from knowing and understanding what each other enjoys.
So if your not open enough with each other to share then its going to be much harder to really turn each other on and go wild together. Sure the sex might be good but just think how much better it perhaps could be.
If you show him your porn and share it maybe he will like it, and maybe he wont. It sounds like his porn didn't do much for you but maybe he only shared the stuff with you he thought you might like because he also was concerned you might not like his style of porn.
Its not always easy to share for sure but then again maybe its worth learning more about each other and it will probably make the whole thing so much more fun. | |
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