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 airwaymanager

Joined: 7/23/2007
Msg: 181
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 9/25/2007 5:28:37 AM
ME ME ME....I LOVE FOREPLAY....I have found that most guys don't though...well most GA guys anyways!!! The most guys I have been with or just ready for sex....although some have taken the time to really please you and the foreplay was better than the sex itself:)
 genegem

Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 182
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 9/28/2007 2:35:56 AM
uk27 [second post] had the right idea.

Afterplay is more telling ... if you don't want that then all the foreplay in the world is simply a blatant lie. Another question of course is "when does love making start?" ... some people wait until they get to the bed to start and wonder why it ain't as good as it should be. For me personally when with a SO lovemaking starts long before the bedroom ... before and during dinner in that intimate restaurant, holding hands in car on way home, snuggling in lounge, etc etc then retire to bed for the finale:-)
 etc.etc.

Joined: 12/23/2006
Msg: 183
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 10/7/2007 4:21:37 PM
I love foreplay, especially kissing! It can be so intimate and sensual and the right build up can make the actual act of intercourse so much more enjoyable! There definitely needs to be a mutual balance though. I've been with guys who cut right to the act and there's barely any foreplay at all and I'm just not quite ready to go there and I've been with those that want foreply to last for hours and I just can't take it anymore. haha
 Susan63

Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 184
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 10/10/2007 7:33:10 PM

how many of you folks who really really love long extended foreplay have the 2 hours to spend on it that you apppear to ask for? especially if it's after a date...2 am or 3 am? who are you BS-ing.


You shouldn't take the bait if you can't stay the date.

JMHO

 mr. dynomite

Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 185
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 10/10/2007 8:31:16 PM

Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?



Give me the foreplay on a platter before you bring the main meal.


please & thank you.


Oh, there's no main course?... no prob... i'll have two more plates of foreplay a la mode.
 Soul.

Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 186
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 10/10/2007 8:46:56 PM
I'm sure alot of men are happy with foreplay involving simply oral given to you them by their partner.

I'm not sure what goes on in other couples bedrooms but all i've known is alot of foreplay leads to much more passionate love making.

I love foreplay.
 Love_on_fire

Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 187
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 10/10/2007 8:52:33 PM
Well my personal opinion is that I am all for foreplay, I don't mind it at all, I think it's a nice way to get....the mood going and share your affection with the other person and it is just as good a cuddling and just that whole intimacy with your lady/man. I think it's ok to do that as we are human and some of us like to get "in touch" with one another in our own way and in our own pace, and I feel foreplay is a good set up for further activity lol.
 MysticHarley

Joined: 4/1/2008
Msg: 188
Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 4/5/2008 1:33:49 AM
All for foreplaying. Whether it be making love/sex, foreplay makes it all the more better for both. That is if BOTH are particapating. You have to be willing to spend the time to please your partner.
 papapez

Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 189
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Posted: 4/5/2008 2:00:09 AM
OK -

Now if I find the right woman, I find I can have foreplay 24/7. Meaning this:
Foreplay for me is more than just being naked in bed. Foreplay can be out in public, giving each other looks, a smile JUST for them. Carressing her while your out for a drive, the way you hold her hand while walking down an isle in Wal-Mart.

CATCHING my drift?

Cuddling on the coutch, under a blanket watching a movie. Hell, even cooking together in the kitchen !!!

BOTTOM LINE: Foreplay CAN be 24/7 if your both into each other.
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 190
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Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 4/13/2008 5:44:04 PM
I agree with u. It is the best part and leads up to mind blowing sex. I find most guys I have dated are more into skipping that part.
 jaemey

Joined: 6/3/2007
Msg: 191
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Posted: 4/13/2008 5:52:48 PM

BOTTOM LINE: Foreplay CAN be 24/7 if your both into each other.


Ok... i agree... but as soon as i have them alone, it is time to rip the clothes off....

Am i one of the few that doesn't care much for "foreplay" right before sex? I ache at the thought of having to wait....

but at times it is nice *i guess*....
 jcgwink

Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 192
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Posted: 4/13/2008 7:53:41 PM
Foreplay , is one way to increase a womans pleasure. Would never skip that.
 FacoryWorker

Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 193
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Posted: 4/13/2008 8:04:53 PM
Foreplay? I think of it as the main event sometimes...
 ronniesbaby

Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 194
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Posted: 5/2/2008 9:01:57 PM
can never get enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 195
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Posted: 5/2/2008 9:40:18 PM
It is funny cuz women are always ****ing about not getting enough foreplay, but just about every single time I am in bed with a woman, about the only thing she does is maybe suck on me a bit, otherwise they just lay there and pant and act like they are impatient for me to enter them. I cannot remember the last time I was with anyone who had any real imagination, someone who would look into my eyes and talk dirty or grin naughtily at me while she kisses her way down my body. Hell, last year I spent some bed time with one of the most gorgeous women I have ever seen in my entire life, counting movie starlets, and she was about as lively and imaginative as a watermelon. What a letdown.
 HazelGreen77

Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 5/3/2008 12:24:50 AM
There is never enough 4play what so ever! I mean being stimulated untill my legs are shaking and there is no bone in my body that can control it! MAN...
 overbeyro1

Joined: 7/6/2008
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Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 7/22/2008 12:23:27 AM
I will be 38 next Monday and I CAN NOT live without it! The more and longer the better.....I don't think age has much to do with it! It's the person!!
 windloverr

Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 198
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Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 7/22/2008 2:53:10 AM
Foreplay is foreplay! Oral sex is not foreplay; oral sex is sex; and foreplay starts way before you get in bed. Admittedly, most of the time reality rears its ugly head; and time constraints, fatigue factors, etc. cut foreplay times down big time. However, when you have the time, foreplay is the best. Either cut the date short; or start some form of foreplay way before you get home. My favorite is staying home, and starting foreplay in the early afternoon. Take your time…wind her up very slowly and intermittently at first. Maybe, in the beginning, she doesn’t even realize you’re already winding her up. Maybe it started with a “mindless” tease, or a couple of “off the cuff” comments, or a smack on the bottom, or a nibble on the neck; and before you know it, (maybe one or two hours) you could cut the sexual tension with a knife, and you both still have all of your clothes on. I like to get it in my head that we are NOT going to have sex; I’m just going to see how close I can get her. My goal isn’t to have sex, my goal is to get her one tiny step closer; and then another step, and another; or to find a beautiful place and stay there. Find a beautiful feeling, and see how long you can stretch it out, or follow what it morphs into. If you don’t force it, just flow with it, when it finally turns into sex, it is off the charts. All of a sudden orgasms are flying everywhere, and you’re just riding a wave of sexual sensual energy to exhaustion. You look around, realize it’s 9:00 – 10:00 in the morning; but all you’re thinking about right now is that she still has one more good orgasm in her; and all of that mind blowing, off the charts, you can’t tell anyone because they would never believe you anyway, sex came from smooth, slow, patient, indulgent foreplay. Sorry OP...to answer your question…yeah, I enjoy foreplay; along with touching, holding hands, kissing, public displays of affection, the whole bit.

If it

…gets bypassed in the heat of the moment.
then you need to stop, turn around, and go back and take that exit. If you look around and realize that you’re too far down the road, stop her, tease her, heck, tie her up if you have to; but get the control back; and get her pointed in the direction you want her to go. Sometimes if things go too far too fast you may have to stop completely, and just hold each other for a while. Then after all of the sexual energy has dissipated, start again, low and slow. I find music is very helpful for this. You can’t rush into a pounding mindless sex with slow jazz playing in the background, it just won’t fly. I like slow jazz, or new age for keeping that foreplay vibe going.
 Ravenstar66

Joined: 8/27/2007
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Ok, how many love foreplay, but don't get enough of it?
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:51:38 AM
When you love someone LIFE together should be foreplay... keep the temp up.. a simmering woman will rarely have a headache guys! LOL

you can make love all the time... anticipation is the BEST


Yup, there's never enough foreplay
 catman40

Joined: 5/20/2007
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Posted: 7/22/2008 4:53:33 AM
I had foreplay once with a woman . want it more often then just once . to me . foreplay let's HER DECIDE how teh sex is . she may like foreplay over sex . just to ahve a woman let me play with her til she falls for me . any takers ?
 jojoaus

Joined: 10/28/2007
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Posted: 7/22/2008 5:11:56 AM
Pretty much wth Ravenstar66 on this... life is foreplay... I don't live with my guy, and we get together say 2 weekends out of 3. Our foreplay during this time is... text, phone and email. We are just about to have a whole 12 hrs together after a hiatus of weeks.... foreplay is just about all done... when we get together it will be rip 'em off time... lol.. so, sometimes the foreplay is before face to face meeting. We will both get what we need as soon as we see each other, then and only then will we indulge in the teasing, touching, tasting... etc.. lol. It really depends on circumstance I think. After-play leading to a sensuous 'round 2' after hot needy sex is thrilling..
 windloverr

Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/23/2008 2:55:47 AM
Yeah JoJo, sometimes at times like that you just have to "work off a little tension"; regroup, and then start foreplay for round two.
 overfifty

Joined: 6/28/2008
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Posted: 7/23/2008 6:55:23 AM
I love foreplay. Teasing, anticipation, licking, tasting, etc,etc.
I love to watch my woman get herself off a couple of times first by herself then with me. After that, we then get down to business
 indian39

Joined: 7/19/2008
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Posted: 7/23/2008 7:01:49 AM
meee...... seems most women see too many porn movies.... and have no idea what foreplay is.... i prefer having an orgasm with foreplay, than the actual stuff....
 Droleci

Joined: 4/21/2004
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Posted: 7/23/2008 8:58:26 AM
Love it.

Don't get any atm due to lack of willing victims. ;)
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