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Posted: 5/29/2008 7:21:00 AM | I've always been that way, worse than the guys I meet,
young ones or my age.
after I left the lazy ex, I went on a journey to live out all
my fantasies, done all but one.
Still never met a guy who could keep up with me yet,
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Posted: 5/29/2008 7:14:12 PM | HOw do you get past looking at 21 year old guys as kids, for all you who say go for it...
I get requests from young men all the time and I met one once , he was 21 and I was like, oh crap he is a kid...
I wont go into details but...
I havent been able to date another 21 year old yet...I tried 25 and that was still; too young...
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:30:24 PM | | Sandi, it depends on the younger man. I have been with some that are young but their maturity level is there. That makes a huge difference for me. Young, still in college, living with relatives, I couldn't do but young, have their own place, a career, and are responsible? Those I can hang out with. You just have to weed out the frat boys who truly are kids. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 9:24:41 PM | Women have been having NSA sex since the beginning of time. But in America, we have inherited the Puritan misery of the founding fathers.
And let's kill the stereotype that all women don't find their sex drive till they're in their thirties right now, because that's simply not true for all women. Like anything else, some girls and boys sex drives kick in earlier/later than others. But if you're older and just now finding it, poor thing, get yourself a young stud because guys your age or older might not be able to keep up with you 
Passion is normal and fun. If you're on the prowl and want to have some flings, that's fine. You're a grown woman and can do as you wish. Just be careful and don't let your libido do ALL your thinking for you.  | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 12:34:26 PM | | Yeah I know you just want to go nuts, but I think you just have to use some will power. When you date you know what turns you on. So whatever that is just don't let him go there so there is not as much to resist! For example if you know that someone kissing on your neck will put you over the edge, don't let him kiss you there. I know its easier said than done, but if you really like the guy... don't go there. Yes I think it is normal behavior. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 9:35:53 PM |
oh no...then I'm in trouble. I think it's time i buy stock in duracel...
That's why God invented batteries.
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Posted: 7/8/2008 11:18:42 AM | I have to agree, live it up!!!! Guys do this all the time and it's okay, so why can't we?? If ya got it , you got it! Honey, there ain't no shame in your game!! Have fun, and be safe! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2008 5:54:13 AM | It's hard, but you just can't sleep with everyone. No guy wants a woman who has been
with everyone. It kills me too... Even though I may want to I don't react on it. If that
was the case I would sleep with every guy I would date... lol
I know u just want to attack him especially when there younger. "the attraction
sometimes is incredible!" But and there is that "but" u just cannot act out all the time.
All you will get is a one night stand and then in the morning or after you are finished
you will feel cheap and used! You at least hope to get with that person again so you
dont feel so bad. If your like me u need the physical and the emotional, and on a very
rare occasion u will meet that one person. From the first time u meet him u can feel
the chemistry emotionally and physically and give in to your desires and then later
regret it cause u want so much more from him and know in reality u can't so u just take
from him whatever moments alone u can get with him cause your secretly hooked, and
he doesn't even know it! The only problem is that the guy probably won't feel this
way. He will probably think u r just a "whore". Even if it was the first and last time u
ever had a one night stand, and tell him so. Since the guy may have just met u, he
doesn't really know u so he will not believe u! He will think u just tell that to every
guy, not realizing what ur saying is true. He was your one exception. From the time
you saw him u could just not get him out of your head and you just can't understand
why??? Why as soon as u seen u knew u wanted him and would want much more than
a one night stand. Most women have done this once in their lives only later to be
heartbroken which happens. :( | |
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Posted: 8/27/2008 6:02:37 AM | Well, I do understand what you are referring to. I am single and have been for awhile and I am more into finding a long lasting sexy hot relationship. I understand about the needs and wants, and I think that when you are in your thirties, you end up hitting a huge burst of sexual intensity. I want it more than ever before and it could be due to that I am single and not dating (at this moment, but looking), but I find myself just longing for it so much. I will not just jump in bed with a man just for fun, but there has to be more to it. I very sexual, but I want to be totally commited to him and him to me that way I know that it was an amazing connection. Is that absolutely crazy or am I the only one that is feeling this huge burst of sexual tension. Please reply, anyone and tell me your thoughts. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2008 1:17:40 PM | I HATE feeling like I have to ration myself! Either because a BF just hasn't the same libido, or they have a high libido but are easily intimidated by mine!
I once had a FWB for a short time that kept up with my untempered pace, but it didn't last that long - the arrangement I mean (lol). Not sure if this is the reason why.
BOBs definitely help, though I do think there is some truth in 'the more you scratch, the more it itches!'.:roll eyes::wink:
PS
Wish I could remember who was the OP of the recently deleted thread 'women dont like sex?'! He was convinced we didn't! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2008 6:43:35 PM | This thread has been very entertaining...
I wonder how many of your inboxes are full or how many IMs some of you have received cause of this post... smirks!!
I can see how the teen boys feel.. poor them LOL
Rock on ya all!
However nurse, no you are not alone and that is exactly how I feel...
Sometimes I feel I got the divorce at the wrong time because of how high the hormones are, but never the less Jumping into the sac just to thrill my hormone drives is not gonna please my soul.. It has to be a lasting long committed relationship and it doesn't mean 3rd date I'm in your bed either.
Not so easy on that matter, and guys will try to work it. But no its not you :-))
Cause I am the same way smiles | |
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Posted: 8/27/2008 8:18:27 PM | hehe i forgot to add that it doesn't mean we are completly prudes either..
cause I do love my cuddling hugging and kissing lmao
But to go further, there must be some sort of connection and committment
Then we can really show you how bad we are in the bedroom ........smirks | |
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Posted: 8/28/2008 2:08:29 AM | Roflamo,
sooo true they aren't unless you get the generic 94 cent ones at walmart
maybe called the rechargables but then again they get weaker with each use LOL | |
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Posted: 8/28/2008 9:29:39 PM | | You are right. Better get the good ones, they keep going and going and going .... hehe | |
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Posted: 8/29/2008 9:43:31 PM | ?????????
Now seriously - I love bob in a menage a trois kind of way. In fact, I know and love a many bobs ... but bob alone is not enough. Is that really enough for you girls? To me, there is nothing better than a real live man... large strong hands... kisses...etc. (' ')
Bob enhances, but alone.... ???? Never enough. (' ')
I can't enjoy one night stands - I can't ooooo... you know... I have tried FWB, but I always want & need more benefits than he does. (' ')
I was married for 12 years. We had sex almost every day. ('') (Usually more than once a day - frequently 8 times a day.) I'm quite sure that was the only thing that kept us together that long.
I am sexually frustrated 24/7!!!!! (' ')
I am I the only one bob can't satisfy? I feel like a dog in heat!!! What do I do???????? (' ') | |
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Posted: 8/30/2008 3:46:22 AM | Bob doesn't do it for me either!Now I don't feel so alone! LOL Maybe if he really was just a back up then it would'nt be so bad. But, if he's the only...he just doesn't cut it.Nothing feels like the real thang baby. LOL I guess we're gonna have to try a little harder to find a fwb or the ONE | |
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Posted: 8/31/2008 8:30:38 PM | | I actually saw a plug in model at a "shop"...wonder if you get a shock from it...hmmm...makes you want to just hook it up to a car motor sometimes...lol..too bad I live in the Bible Belt now and can't find a store like that. Wal-mart's brand of back massagers are just weak...lol | |
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Posted: 9/1/2008 11:13:51 AM | | Knutcase, that's what on-line shopping is for... Although I wouldn't recommend ebay. | |
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Posted: 9/3/2008 8:23:52 PM | | It's definitely brutal when you're single... and damn.. if it only gets worse after fourty, I'm DOOMED!! LOL I hope to heck I find someone to share it all with too.. In the meantime though, I do know a great site for those of you that don't want to shop locally... I've ordered things from them over the past couple of years and find them great to deal with... Feel free to send a note and I'll send the link so I don't get booted here! | |
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Posted: 9/4/2008 5:45:50 AM | | it is a pain when you hit the peak and 'no ones around' as i say. toys do not cut it,and steady relationships i've had the guy had a much lower libido then me. tried fwb but the schedules,life,etc meant i was never getting it anyway,sigh. i think i need one next door..lol | |
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Posted: 9/4/2008 1:34:28 PM | Yeah I know you just want to go nuts, but I think you just have to use some will power. When you date you know what turns you on. So whatever that is just don't let him go there so there is not as much to resist! For example if you know that someone kissing on your neck will put you over the edge, don't let him kiss you there. I know its easier said than done, but if you really like the guy... don't go there. Yes I think it is normal behavior.
Even though I am wanting it my damn upbringing pops up. I can't just do one night stands or sex for the hell of it. I guess I will keep going nuts. God help the poor first guy.
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Posted: 9/13/2008 10:23:39 AM |
Knutcase, that's what on-line shopping is for... Although I wouldn't recommend ebay. Yes but that requires a credit card which I dont have...lol...I try to stay away from things that get me into trouble...hmmm wonder if that is why I havent had sex in 4 years...good sex in 6...Also you hear so much about people stealing your identity online and when you have a card. That scares me. So todays sociaty. Sex even alone has now become dangerous...lol. Wrong man you get diseases or worse. Alone you can lose your identity and good name....When did it all get so complicated just to get a little relief. I mean the guys see a woman say she is a b%$%$ and needs to get some. Yet getting some is so difficult...as they say a hard man is good to find...lol | |
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Posted: 9/13/2008 3:01:07 PM | a HARD man is GOOD to find... I LOVE IT
Most banks, 7-11's, grocery stores, etc. sell pre-paid Visa Gift cards.
Shop 'til ya drop!!!!! | |
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