| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:05:11 PM | Buscgirl - you should hold onto to this guy pretty tight cuz you have got a totally crappy high-n-mighty attitude. If you cannot handle a couple opinions from total strangers then I pity some guy who has to watch you deal with real problems.
Don't dump your life out on the table then get pissy when people talk about what they see.
And if you ar so damn careful with your words then what's with VERBAGE? It VERBIAGE miss anal about my words. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:05:46 PM | Bucs... you are an incredibly smart, intelligent, strong and beautiful woman inside and out...and you just trust yourself go for it and enjoy. YOU deserve this so much. You know what I bet you will eventually find little flaws but you will love him more for them thats what makes everyone different and wonderful. You go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:12:29 PM | | frangal I appreciate your contribution and input. Again, I only posted it as an interesting topic for discussion. Those who know us and have known us for a LONG period of time know that this isn't something we're jumping into. Far from 5 emails and phone call and proclaiming love. Umm....NO! I wish I could let yoy know or bring you up to speed about all we've been through together. Those that KNOW me, know. I DO appreciate your post, very much so, very well thought out, I've posted the same repeatedly. I'm not saying neither of us has faults, we know each other's backgrounds, the whole nine yards. I DO like him and love him, but I'm not blind. We are going slow, always have. There is no reason to speed things along. Never has been that is one red flag that has never surfaced. It IS all good, always has been all good. I wish you knew. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:14:01 PM |
I only said the word jaded and did not even mention it in an insulting manner and got called on it lol I even said congrats but oh well
Next time ask Buscgirl first and she will tell you what to say; it makes her happier that way. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:20:02 PM | In my friend Bucs' defense..
This is not something she,or her man,jumped into lightly..
They both had some trepidation..some 'what ifs'..it's only natural...
But,they spent a GREAT deal of time getting to know one another.
I know Bucs..we've met..and I know what an honest,decent person she is..
I've also had the opportunity to talk to her guy,and the love they have for one another is very genuine.Theirs is truly a success story.
BTW>>Can we clone him,Bucs? | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:27:09 PM | I'm sorry, had you put "What would you think if" instead of "What would you think if YOU found someone with no flaws". I was simply responding to the topic on the header rather then your specific question regarding you. With that said someone with no Flaws, couldn't you define them as being perfect? With that said i feel Perfection is a flaw. I am not trying to change your words, but i will not take flak for my opinion. You asked for it in the topic, i responded. In response to YOUR scenario. That would be great, isn't that why most of us are here in the first place? But i would mention that almost all relationships "feel" that way at the start. The true test is how long can you keep it that way. Love is blind, or so they say.
With that said, i was in no way trying to attack you. As i previously stated, it was simply my opinion to the topic on the header.
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:44:46 PM | Either you're really smitten with the guy and don't yet see his flaws, or he is good at hiding them for now.
Sometimes it is easily to fall for someone in a very short time. But my own life experience tells me only time will tell who he really is. Try to maintain some control of your heart for about six months as that is a good length of time to be able to judge his character and if you're compatible.
Personally, I'd run for the hills if I thought a guy had no flaws. That would scare the heck out of me. If I see flaws, then I know I'm thinking rationally with my head not my heart. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:48:08 PM | kerry Thanks for that. We've been in the forums for awhile, I've admired and read your posted and respected them. Thanks for that.
1little flick I understand you using the word jaded. It's used often. I really appreciate that you said what you did as being protective of another woman. I like that, says volumes about you, I only wish that we knew each other better.
Thanks for thinking of me, that's incredibly caring.
Actually, you are alot like me, that's what I would say.
I wish that more of the guys would understand and appreciate that most of us women stick together. Your caring and concern is well noted and much appreciated.
It is a bit late, and not trying to make excuses, but if I called you on it, it wasn't intended as that. Again, if you knew me better, I dare to say I'm one of the most unjaded (is that a word?) people you could ever know. I'm self aware, when I start to even think jaded, I'm taking time away. I do other things. I know when to step back and take a break.
Again, thanks for that, trust me your caring is noted and appreciated. If I communicated anything successfully in my OP, I wish and hope for you and everyone here that you find yourself where I am. Blissfully happy, totally in love, BSmeter fully fired and working, and totally aware of all aspects of what I have committed to. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 8:03:14 PM | just Here's a paste from the dictionary.
verbage
/ver'b*j/ n. A deliberate misspelling and
mispronunciation of verbiage that assimilates it to the word
`garbage'. Compare content-free. More pejorative than `verbiage'.
This isn't the topic, if I misued the word, then my bad. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 8:14:20 PM | | What I find is interesting is the amount of people attacking the OP for expressing excitement and happiness. Is it jealousy? Is it a touch of bitterness that we're still struggling like mad to find a special someone and she's found her perfect match? It's pretty sad, actually. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 8:15:17 PM | | man If someone could please inform me of, am I totally unaware, was I bragging, complaining, whining. Or did I just post this as a topic for discussion. Wow how revealing, obviously those who DO find someone to love, truly, totally completely are treated like lepers here. Why don't you post on one of the other more appropriate threads for you mindset. Why can't I get a reply, blah blah. Small wonder that those "lucky ones" who do find what they want and aren't looking for and MORE leave here in record speed. Gotta laugh, it's not the site, but you wouldn't understand that. I apologize profusely to all I have offended by being happy and content and confusing you throwing an unexpected curve. Keep on doing what you're doing no skin off me. Just don't expect me to post on your whiny threads and bellyaching. It's not the site, this venue has nothing to do with it. Using the site as the excuse is a scapegoat. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 8:21:08 PM | bucs, i hope i am not included in your last post...
my post was very sincere....and meant by no means to be patronizing....
i honestly believe in (and have seen it first hand) that fairy tale stuff...<<< my words for the lucky few that happen upon it...:)
edit: you really can't understand the feeling...unless you've felt it.....and i think those are the minority....thus the ignorance of it all.... | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 8:32:21 PM | Ok, I am a pessimist...but my ex was GREAT for years...........but, he never even had a bad day in 23 years, I mean like nothing even was ever out of place in his workday that he shared, etc. Also, he is a narcissist and I never knew it....it came out like years later.............if he is perfect, he will expect you to be......example....mine was soft spoken, so even if he was nasty to me, he did it quietly so that he thought it could not be called abusive behavior. Well it made me mad, but If I got mad, raised my voice....it was like...oh, look at you....you are upset, wrong to be so angry.....
Hopefully yours IS just a case of the really really really nice person...I would have red flags ...bc no one is perfect. | |
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| What would you think if you found someone with no flaws?
Posted: 2/22/2006 8:36:19 PM | lady bugg I KNOW you, I know where you're coming from. It's just SO sad that the forums are inundated with complaints whining, you know. Hate to say, but the usual. It's really sad that happiness and joy doesn't seem to even be welcomed and celebrated, but questioned. I know most people don't know me, or my man. Not like we haven't been around or posted. Seems most are in for the bang in and out. No skin off me, if nothing else this thread has been revealing. Not for me or my SO, but revealing about how others think and feel and what they expect. Just another scapegoat to blame for not being able to find someone to not only get a reply from, much less capture someone's genuine and sincere attention, and god forbid, be happy with.
It isn't the site, it's a venue, it isn't who's here, it's all a pathetic and lame excuse for people who can't understand and face where the problem is. Mirrors don't lie. I'm not talking about looks, I'm talking about self relfection and ownership of who someone is. Apparently that's foreign and unwelcome topic. Go figure.
Thanks for your post, and I'm happy for you. | |
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