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diet7up

Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 25

Intention Posted: 2/18/2008 5:37:33 PM
Thats a very easy to answer. Tell me who you friends are and Ill tell you who you are. A girl with bad intention will keep things and ppl secret in her life. Ask her to meet her friends and get to know the ppl around her, youll get your answer. Thats my own opinion anyways. good luck

~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 26
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Intention Posted: 2/19/2008 10:13:52 AM
Diet7up said: A girl with bad intention will keep things and ppl secret in her life. Ask her to meet her friends and get to know the ppl around her, youll get your answer. Dont think soooooooo . . . I am one of those you just described . . . I'm very protective of my loved ones (family/friends) . . . . in 6-1/2 years of being single/divorced. . . my loved ones have never met my "date(s)" . . . . granted . . . . I don't date often (more like never. . . .heeeeeheheheee) . . . . but I'll be damn if I bring anyone around my loved ones just to proof to someone that I am honest, sincere and have no BAD intentions . . . . Like I posted previously . . . one has to apply some discernment and NOT JUST EMOTE when in a relationship . . .for “TIME” is the best judgment of character. Moral to the story: . . . .If they MEAN what they say . . . they DO as they say . . . "TIME" is sweet . . . To EACH their own . . . . ~Myth~

OtttawaSweetie

Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 27
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Intention Posted: 2/21/2008 6:30:54 AM
Find someone who is your friend. Get to know the person, don't jump in with both feet and eyes closed. I know it's easier said than done because attraction and lust can be very tantalizing. A friend is lifelong, a roll is the hay is fast fleeting.

JadeMuse

Joined: 11/3/2007
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Intention Posted: 2/21/2008 8:53:32 AM
^^^^Simple good advice, Myth! Quote from Raiderfan: It's been my experience that men are more attracted to the drama queens, golddiggers, liars, cheats, etc. They'd rather have a hot girl bat their eyelashes and say ''buy me a drink and while your at it a new car too''....rather than be with an honest woman/nice girl. This swings both ways. Time and time again, friends and POF posters and average Joes everywhere say the same thing about women liking Bad Boys better. The confusion seems to lie somewhere in the perception that bad behavior is NORMAL. It is all over the T.V. and movies (hey, characters don't even say thank you anymore). It is fun to be bad, and each is out to get what they want anyway. Besides, who would want someone who wasn't a little bit of a challenge to figure out what makes them happy? So, people dismiss these behaviors believing it is a part of getting to know the real person. Beauty seems to to dull all other senses. Then, of course, there is the delusion that the love interest won't treat ME that way. Watch how your crush treats other people, in particular, keep an eye on how he/she treats people in service positions. Are they polite to the bartender? Do they wait their turn? Do they tip well? Or, do they seem to believe they are entitled? Leave a buck on a round of drinks? Leave big messes for others to clean up? Are they unnecessarily argumentative? How do they treat their opposite sex parent? If they don't show respect for them, don't expect them to treat you any better.

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