| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/23/2006 12:37:49 PM | Kinky it has an interesting quality to it, but ever notice, that something you thought was kinky before you did it lost it's kinky quality after you expereinced it?
it's only kinky the first time, and if it is still kinky after that, then it's a fetish..
people become jaded, and less and less holds the "eroticism" that it did before, therefore the adventurous people have more fun, and experience more because they are looking for the edge.
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/23/2006 12:46:06 PM | Tacitta,
As a few people have mentioned, whether or not something is kinky, seems to depend on the society you live in.
There are some tribes in Africa that pierce their genitals with decorative bones from the animals they've killed and eaten. In America, I'm pretty certain that would be very, very kinky. In the area the tribe lives in, it's the norm. In some places, polygamy is not only allowed, but expected. In America, many people would think a man having many mistresses, and presumably orgies, was kinky.
So what is kinky? Take a look around at what people are doing. Check forums like this one as well as ones on sites like Sexyads.com. You'll learn what people expect, what people enjoy, what people are simply dying to try, or what people will only dream of doing. Then you'll be able to come up with some rough definition of what kinky is in our society.
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/23/2006 1:41:40 PM | Good points Toak
Now immoral is just what they charge at the movie theatres to see Gladiators | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 12:34:59 PM | I'm not quite sure anymore as to what the true definition of kinky is....BUT, I have found the more kinky it is, the more fun it is  | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 1:14:56 PM | | I agree with most of the responses, being kinky is going outside of the box for yourself...whatever you think is deviating from "normal" sex you would probably consider kinky. Well, my kinkyness can vary from mood to mood....from feathers to whips..hehehe | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 1:49:32 PM | | Kinky is someone who pees on or gets peed on. Unless it's done with love. And then only in the shower. And no higher than the knee. And not more than once a week. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 1:55:50 PM | If it breaks 4 or 5 laws........and the department of wild life is
knockin down your door....
your closeeeeeeeee
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 2:01:06 PM | Ya know, the first thing that runs through my mind while she's strappin me to the bed is..."Am I sure I haven't done anything to make her want to seperate me from my willy?"  | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 2:06:29 PM | man....sfter bobbit...............women only get to tie two legs and one arm......
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 2:06:34 PM | Kinky is anything that involves one or more of the following:
Food, as a clothing choice
Animal Parts, from feather dusters to leather (actual animals means perverse)
Costumes, any except for anime, then its perverse again
Unusual Places, morgues means perverse, police stations means stupid
Non-Erogenous body parts
Photographic or Video equipment
So if you have sex while she wears a full suit of rasberry custard in the
shape of a meter maid costume and you wear nothing but leather chaps and a
cowboy hat in a library after hours while using your feet and video tape it,
that's WAY KINKY!
Also you need to distribute that on the net at 29.95 a pop. You'll be
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 2:10:56 PM | working in the adult industry people usually consider kinky to be a fetish, role playing or something related to bondage or fantasies but it changes depending on the individual and their partner! it's only kinky the first time!! | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 7:05:32 PM | | Well personally I don't consider dressing up in my leather/pvc Circus Ringmaster costume and whipping sexy women in clown costumes kinky but some people might. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/26/2006 7:06:40 PM | | I'm sorry I meant to tell KevinBPC that I love his post. Newbie here. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/28/2006 3:38:44 AM | | I think kinky is the way in which the people around you judge what you enjoy as being either not to their tastes or beyond the limits of how far they are willing to go. To yourself I think it is actions or feelings you enjoy and believe are more adventurous or daring than you could see everyone around you having the will or courage to try. Maybe desires or curiosities you could only have the courage to explore with someone you felt a connection with and risk exposing the parts of us we hide | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/28/2006 3:57:56 AM | very simply put,kinky isn't what you will do.it's what you won't do.so you do the math...... ......... ... | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/28/2006 3:34:06 PM | I think that kinky is something out side of the se"normal" way to have sex. Kink is something that if you can trust that person is really fun.
I mean you wouldn't want to find yourself tied to bed with bulls eye all over you and they let the dog in, then start taking pictures...................................on second thought it would be a good way to blackmail someone.   | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/5/2007 4:25:28 PM | What everybody needs to remember is that it is only kinky the first time | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/5/2007 4:34:52 PM | | I agree with the posters that say that it is individual but pretty safe to say that anything that is out of the unconventional but then again who determines what is conventional. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/5/2007 5:03:49 PM | First off... Kink can be subjetive, but I hate that. For instance, to me role play---naughty nurse and doctor or school girl and teacher doesn't count as kink. That's vanilla.. That's easy and very fun.
By nature I would be defined as having kinks because I'm dominant. I'm the guy that walks in from work, grabs his woman by the hair, drags her into the bedroom, pushes her to her knees, slaps her aross the cheek and makes her (if you can call it that---we are consenting adults about this) do whatever you want her to.
Rough sex is kink. Sexual torture is kink. Face slapping is kink. Spitting on your partner is kink. Using unconventional toys is kink.
If I throw a woman against a wall (controlled of course) and rip her panties off; throw her down and stuff those panties in her mouth while I spank her ass raw... That might be kink.
Feathers? No
The whole chicken? Not even.
For the uninitiated; kink may be something "just" out of your comfort zone. For me------I like taking my partners WAYYYYYYYYYYY out of theirs.
Kink is trust. That's how it's truly defined.  | |
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