| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/24/2007 6:43:55 PM | What I may think is kinky, another may not ...
hmmm I find that now, to me,
compared to say years ago...not a lot is kinky...it's just the norm..
to each his own...safe, sane and consensual..
GEB
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/25/2007 5:47:38 AM | Not actually a reply to post above mine. Just wondering now, I seem to have a 'thing' for tummy buttons. I like to place my lips around them, taste the essence of her there, rub my tongue around and up and down, and I guess you all get the idea
Does that rate as kinky? and, hey thats not all | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/25/2007 7:45:05 AM | coloradogal1963 posted: For me Kinky is anything I won't try. "Normal" is of course everything I like. (how's that for a Narcissistic point of view)
It may be Narcissistic, but I think that says it pretty well for most folks. I pride myself in having an open mind about things, especially sex, but there are certain things that I guess I just fail to see any kind of appeal in (scat, furinstance) but there are people who do. They're the kinky ones, not me......... LOL | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/25/2007 9:25:26 AM | www.hotlanta.com/KINKTEST.ASP...lolol..
I'm odd..Kink is very different in my book. Anal on both, bondage, stripping-both, oral in combination with anal penetration-for both. It is a state of mind and how far your both willing or want to go. Define Normal? lol...Some peoples versions of normal as in kink will be different.
Just enjoy each other and have FUN experimenting. | |
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k.kong
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Joined: 1/4/2006
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/25/2007 9:50:52 AM | dictionary.com defines it as:
kink·y /ˈkɪŋki/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[king-kee] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–adjective, kink·i·er, kink·i·est.
1. full of kinks; closely twisted: a kinky wire.
2. (of hair) closely or tightly curled.
3. Slang. marked by unconventional sexual preferences or behavior, as fetishism, sadomasochism, or the like.
Jasmine defines it as:
Sexual desires that are against type, and hot. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/25/2007 9:59:35 AM | It's only kinky if you can't confess it!
So fess up everyone! Let's hear what your craziest has been...
(Taking copius notes now...)
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/25/2007 11:21:17 AM | Hmmm, when I wear my penguin costume, and he is dressed in the polar bear suit (we call this polar opposites) and we play at ravishing (he has to hunt and eat the penguin.) Much fun and giggles.
Though, that's definitely not my kinkiest. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/25/2007 4:38:24 PM | | Kinky is a matter of perspective...if you're into it..it's not kinky. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/26/2007 1:42:01 AM | There are definitely things that fall within normal sex, and things that fall within kinky.
Remember, kinky is with a feather, fetish is with a chicken.  | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 1/26/2007 6:37:02 AM | I once heard.........
The difference between *erotic* and *kinky*.
Erotic = When you use a feather.
Kinky = When you use the whole chicken. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/1/2007 2:19:05 PM | KINKY, what comes to mind, Bondage or making an erotic videotape of you and your lover, even outdoor sex?
For each person reading this the answer is probably going to be different, because each of us has our own idea of just what the heck is or isn’t kinky.
Whats normal for one will not be normal for another.
So realyy does not matter what others think, as long as the 2 agree.
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/1/2007 3:01:38 PM | A well know poet once said "Kinky is as Kinky does" right Forrest? | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/2/2007 12:17:18 AM | Kinky is linked with sexual deviance. A real 'kinkster' is someone who lives openly in a Ds or BDSM lifestyle. This is pretty extreme for kink though. If you have ever watched the show Kink, you'll know what I mean. My definition of kink can be as different as the next person. Someone might think that using a blindfold or feather, is the most kinky think that they have ever done. The next person might think that tying up her boyfriend, using a ball gag and flogger on him, is just a warm up session.
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/18/2007 11:10:26 AM | kinky is when your ex hubby says you can`t go out tonite unless you promise to let me tie you up in the stables, and give you six lashes, kinky is when your ex hubby starts having normal sex and then all of a sudden smashes you across the face, or take your earing out of your ear,whilst holding your hands, and sticks it through your nipple, kinky is when ex hubby, waits till children have gone to school, comes home gets you by the ponytail and rapes you every day,i think kinky is things done to another person when they don`t want it. | |
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Tarika
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Joined: 8/30/2006
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/18/2007 2:02:09 PM | | I agree with astropants....You define kinky. Some kink is fun, however that is based on my definition of 'kinky'. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/18/2007 2:07:57 PM | | 'Kinky good' ...or 'kinky bad', is a choice that we each make when we agree to step out of our familiar 'comfort zone' and try something new. Even if I originally hail from Chocolatetown, USA, I was rather 'vanilla' before my last tryst ...and still may be for a willingness to engage in certain sexual practices, but if I trust my next tryst as being more than such, I just may be willing ...and more imaginative for scratching her deeper 'darker interests'. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/18/2007 2:19:32 PM | hmmm well everone seems to define kinky by different criteria...for me it's most things beyond vanilla (missionary) sex.
there's the more mainstream side of kink...role play, power/control games, bondage, pain, aggression...all good kinds of kink in my book. and there's the hardcore stuff...degradation, abuse, filth, and a few things prohibited by law. i stay away from the latter.
of course...people in the hardcore scene might consider my 'kinks' vanilla and bland. it's really based on personal experience and perception. | |
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mam69
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Joined: 1/16/2007
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/18/2007 2:52:39 PM | | Kinky/not kinky?? If it feels good DO IT!!!!!!! What I have done with one partner I may never have dreamed of doing with an other. As long as you are happy that is all that counts. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/18/2007 4:05:05 PM | | There is no such thing as kinky. Just things you either would or wouldn't do. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/18/2007 5:09:10 PM |
i think kinky is things done to another person when they don`t want it. No that's battery / sexual battery / rape. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/19/2007 5:52:20 PM | | Kinky is things that turns people on but others think its weird. Like pushing the limits, breaking the boundaries,Roleplaying,BDSM,spanking,pulling hair things like that! Everyone has there own def for the word kinky. For some people they dont get turn on by those things but some is a major turn on. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/19/2007 6:36:28 PM | | I think Kinky would be described as anything that pushes your normal sexual limits. | |
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| What defines kinky?
Posted: 2/19/2007 6:52:03 PM | | southerncherry has it right,also nymphomania and satyr's push the limit i think | |
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