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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 3:56:21 AM | i definately know what you mean...sometimes u can know almost instantly.. the first time u make contact the magic can be there right from the get-go..
i know...i've been there...
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 3:59:50 AM | Yep it's true sometime's it doesn't matter or even take "3weeks" being with/around
somebody before you KNOW he/she is "the one", you wan't to be with for the rest of
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 7:00:09 AM | I BELIEVE YOU GIRLFRIEND, I HAVE BEEN ON HERE FOR A LIITLE LESS THAN 3 WEEKS AND I HAVE FOUND A GREAT FRIEND AND THE MAN THAT I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR. YOU KNOW ITS RIGHT WHEN ,YOU CAN FALL INTO HIS ARMS AND FILL AS AT EASE AS YOU POSSIBLE EVER THOUGHT YOU COULD, HE MAKES MY HEART SKIP A BEAT EVERY TIME IM CLOSE TO HIM. I MUST SAY I THOUGHT I WOULD NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE AGAIN BUT THANKS TO OUR AWESOME GOD , HE HAS GIVING ME A CHANCE TO LOVE AGAIN. SO GIRLS DONT GIVE UP HE,LL COME JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES.GODS GOT VICTORY WAITING FOR YOU I PROMISE. AND IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU AMY KEEP IN TOUCH AND LET ME KNOW HOW YOUR NEW LOVE LIFE IS GOING!!!! GOOD LUCK GIRLS!!!!!   | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 7:39:31 AM |
We both agree that its crazy how well we get along and how connected we are in such a short period of time The chemistry,communication and connection is there. For me I feel he is who I am meant to be with ...and everything else that has happened in our life before this..has happened for a reason and brought us together.
It does happen and it is real. At least at the time.
The one I felt that way over just finished divorcing me this week. We had been acquanted for about two years b4. She moved closer to where I lived and we started getting friendly over the net (I hooked up her systems and showed her how ta use em). Same thing ur describing, chemistry connection, and communication at levels I'd never experienced b4. That was when we really were only friends! But then she got single at the same time I was and we went from friends to married in less than a month. I will say we lasted longer than any of her other relationships and she was probably happy with what I call a "normal" life for the first time ever but a year and a half falls far short of the lifetime commitment we made to each other.
Remember ... free advice is worth what ya pay for it but take the time ta really get ta know the life he is living b4 ya take it to the next step. Chemistry, connection, and communication aren't always enough ta hold it together for the long term.
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 7:41:38 AM | I guess anything is possible. They say women decide whether or not they would have sex with a man within the first five minutes of meeting him.
Just put off the divorce for about three or four years ... I’ll be able to refer you to a good attorney at that time | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 8:40:12 AM | From personal experience, wait until the petals fall off the roses and you are left with the thorns..........it will happen sooner or later.......but the bloom might come back. Like my mama always said, wait for the spots to appear, then make your decision if you can live with it. It`s fantasy land in the beginning, always is.........when he passes gas in your presence, then you will see.......
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 8:54:25 AM | | SECOND LIFEI HAVE FOUND MY ONE AND ONLY AND TRULY BELIVE THAT HE IS THE ONE , BUT IT DOESNT MEAN I HAVE TO DROP THE FRIENDS THAT I HAVE MADE ON HERE OR HE DOESNT HAVE TO DROP HIS FRIENDS . THATS WHERE TRUST COMES IN AND IF YOU DONT HAVE TRUST THEN YOU DONT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP.... RIGHT!!!!!! | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:00:38 AM | All I have to say is...take it slower....get to know each other - it is fine to think he and you are right for each other...but after a few months, things will look different because that is when the blinders come off. Be happy in the meantime but do not make any long term plans or you could be in for a big surprise.
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 2:49:29 PM | So many cynics. Wow. Its no wonder there are so many unhappy and lonely people in the world. When I was 21, I met a young lady at a company bbq. She later introduced me to her sister and we dated for about a month. Then the company I was working for moved me across the country. She was all I thought about for months. One day I called my boss and told him I had to either quit or transfer back to WA. I was transferred and she met me at the plane. We began a 14-year marriage only 3 weeks later. She never once in those 14 years heard me “pass gas”, nor did she ever hear me swear. Not because I was so afraid of offending her, but because I didn’t want to offend myself.
I guess its really about respect for yourself.
Never lie to your partner, and never do or say something that will require you to apologize.
Because if you were truly sorry, you would not have done or said it.
Never settle. If the person you are with is almost right, more likely than not it wont last long.
But if he/she inspires you, completes you and truly makes you happy go for it. | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 8:47:21 PM | *been there...*done that...lolz...nah...
i've been in the whole *chemistry* within such a short period of time. actually...more like HOURS of notes exchanging from the initial note i dropped him...then i had to cut it short cuz i had to go to work. then, we just kept emailing, talking, all that. i had a chance to hook up with him but i was *too skeptical* cuz everything was too fast. [a month or so after the first note]. i let him go [well...not like he was mine mine to begin with...but you know what i mean].
every single day after that, i kicked myself for being stupid...WHY?! why did i let him go? i kinna regretted it, but at the same time, i wouldn't have known how much feelings i have for him...had he not left for awhile. so...meh. newaize...that was a yr n some months ago from now. we still talk n chat as friends. it's not like it was from before...and he hasn't changed as a person. he's still nice n caring n all that. well...busier...but still has time every now n then to see wassup with me. i'm on the mode that "if it's meant 2 be, it's going 2 happen." i've never known any1 like him...so...who knows...maybe in the end...by some mysterious ways we'll finally get to hook-up...or i'll meet some1 even more wonderful =) meh...either way, i've grown A LOT as a *lady* within that time span...because of him [or lack of him atm...hehehehehe]. so really...it's a win win situation =D
the point to that is, you can take a risk [what the hell! rite], or you can *play it safe* and wait...
in whatever step you make, before taking it, *think*...for whatever the outcome will be, when you look back at this moment, will you regret it? if you think you would...then don't dig yourself a hole =) | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 8:50:45 PM | If its meant to be after 3 weeks, It will still be meant to be after 4.
Wait 3 months, see if its still meant to be.
Wait a year, and see.
"meant to be" for now, isn't always "meant to be" for ever. Yes, it happens, and I fully believe its supposed to happen that way. but only time will tell, no amount of advice (good or bad) is going to help you know if its meant to be other than "Wait, enjoy what you have now, and see what the future holds" | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:14:59 PM | Veldamirx wrote: ""meant to be" for now, isn't always "meant to be" for ever..."
That perfectly sums it up.
Every single one of us, I'm sure, on more than one occasion has met someone who blew our minds and caused us to be so sure that they were "the one" - but here we are. It's very easy, also, to want so badly to believe that someone is "the one" - afterall, isn't that one of our biggest goals in life - to find "the one" and live happily forever? | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 4/3/2006 4:53:19 PM | | Ok here is an update. Amy and I are still together after 2 months, and our relationship is stronger than anything, and has withstead some problems, mainly with each other's ex's. She is the best thing that has happened to me, other than my daughter's birth. She is everything a man could ever want. | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 4/3/2006 5:11:54 PM | | You're making me smile. The beginning is always beautiful. That's why it began right? Ahhhhh! the six month bliss. Soooo Beautiful. Just keep it real, and work hard together at it. Respect one another. If it still doesn't work, at least you won't hate one another. | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 4/3/2006 6:34:00 PM |
(Msg 43) Amy and I are still together after 2 months, and our relationship is stronger than anything,
Now is a good time to write down what is important to each of you. For example, would you consider moving if your partner didn't want to move? Is playing golf every Saturday more important than your partner? Is a TV program you want to watch more important than your partner?
They may seem like crazy questions now but they're the type of things that destroy relationships later. Many times people change and become selfish.
Each of you grab a piece of paper and a pen and think up questions. You can call it "Things that are more important than my partner".
1. Is the word of my neighbor or co-worker more important than my partner?
2. Is watching Sunday sports more important than my partner?
3. Is deciding where I want to live more important than being with my partner?
We always hear people say they grew or they and their partner grew apart. That's just another way of saying they put other things ahead of their partner.
Make your lists one rainy Sunday afternoon and keep it in a safe place. Should a disagreement arise both of you can refer to it. You'll quickly see who was honest and the value of a person's word. Also, it will remind each of you what you meant to each other when you first met. | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 4/3/2006 6:53:02 PM | Sure you can fall in "love" with your new found soul mate after only three weeks...
Uh, no.
Having said that, I wish you the best of luck. Really. Honest. I mean it. | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 4/3/2006 7:48:45 PM | | I do believe this can and does happen. However, I also think that there are many people out there (men and woman) who think this is the only true way to romance , at the expense of ignoring someone who may be perfectly suitable as a partner if given a little time to truly get to know . I meet so many people out there looking for instantaneous love. Personally speaking, my most solid relationships have been those where I was first "just friends" with someone. I do hope the best for you two, but what would impress me more is if you could honestly tell me you felt the same way five years from now. That, in my mind, is true love. | |
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| He is the one....only after 3 weeks
Posted: 4/3/2006 8:04:52 PM |
i definately know what you mean...sometimes u can know almost instantly.. the first time u make contact the magic can be there right from the get-go..
i know...i've been there...
diane
hmmmm, wondering then - why are you here???  | |
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