| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:10:20 PM | Of course they do...I send them $3000 and a week later I get a sculpted young Russian virgin sent to me to be my bride and toy...oh, M-A-L-E virgins...my mistake...well, to answer that question...no. | |
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Millan
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:17:23 PM | averham,
..and do you know why you have nocturnal emissions ? ..and yeh..just a flick of the wrist.. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:22:46 PM | Dont you have to "flick" your wrist in both directions to masterbate properly?
OT
I would just shivel up n die with out a lil nookie from time to time, woman in a baaad moood  | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:22:54 PM | Hey girls...I'm a virgin searching for the highest of highs that comes with sharing this most magical of moments with the star-crossed lover of my dreams. will you be the one to fulfill God's plan with me? BTW, this is my pickup line at church... | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:23:53 PM | | Spending more than eight hours a day on Wikipedia, I believe I know why I have nocturnal emissions. | |
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Millan
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:31:46 PM | Why cant you just let people live their own lives Millan? No one asks anything of you! This kid neither asked for your opinion or your council...
8 hrs though??? Isn't that bad for your eyes?? But then they say masterbation is too....Maybe you could just do it till you need glasses? | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:33:00 PM | | Thank you; it is hard. I advocate masturbation, because it is more than enough to satisfy any cravings & impulses a hormonal teenager will have. I was once addicted to it, but I have been clean for more than a few years. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:36:09 PM | | Well, Im guessing you are probably loaded...Thats for sure, I'd warn my next GF if I were you lol | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:41:41 PM |
Well, Im guessing you are probably loaded... Thats for sure, I'd warn my next GF if I were you lol
Hahahahahahaha!!! Ahhh, that brings back memories of "Scary Movie".. | |
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Millan
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:42:11 PM | enchantress,
back off ok..? Do you have somekind of problem with me because I am against religion..? is that what yours tells you ..to be intolerant to people with another view..spare me.. And I just asked the kid if he knew why he was having nocturnal emissions.. that's it.. if he's man enough to talk about it..he must be man enough to get questions about it.. and I got my answer and I take my leave..
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:54:51 PM | No, no antidepressants or anything like that; it's just the way I've always been. For me, sex has always been something that I'd just use in fantasies; there was never a particular urge to make any of those fantasies real. I picked up from books and so on that sex is something you're supposed to do in a relationship/marriage, that I should worry if I was still a virgin at a late age, but that was all external to my actual desires. And it wasn't a gay thing; I didn't feel any more urges toward men than women.
Anecdote: there was one woman I dated who made it clear that she didn't believe in sex before marriage. I agreed to that, with no thought that I'd have to struggle to control myself in that situation; my only worry was that if we did end up getting married, I'd be agreeing to have sex AFTER the marriage without knowing whether I'd actually like it. As it turned out, we had four dates, which never got as far as a kiss goodnight, and then she cancelled the fifth date and wouldn't call me back. I had been considering saying something like "Should we be kissing by this point?", but that was just from knowing what people normally do on dates, not from any desire in me to kiss her. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 1:56:19 PM | Like you Millan I am free to give my opinions when and where I see they are fit. This kid takes allot of pride in his sacred beliefs, and Im not going to sit here and watch you bash them with you closed minded views....Not with out doleing back out exactly what you give.
My problem lies in the fact you talk down to people who have a belief system, like you have somehow peiced together more wisdom in your 21 years than mankind has in the last 40,000
You have shown intolerance on your thread, and now here you are preaching your views, it was pretty obvious he was offended by your question, is it any of your buisness how often he masterbates? Or where the urges come from? Anyone whos had 7th grade sex ed knows where it comes from.
My problem with you and many others like you is your claim to own the truth, and that the rest of us are "blindly following" maybe your the one who's blind.
As you informed me, "no one has forced you to spit you mind", or lack there of | |
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Millan
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 2:00:11 PM | ..what the.. enchantress,
what the hell did I do wrong by asking this kid if he knows why he has it..?don't you think you're taking it a bit to serious..? He told me not having sex is the apex of self control...well my uncle is a priest and he told me not masturbating is the apex of self control.. then he told me he didn't masturbate but did have nocturnal emissions..did I ask for that..? NO he told me.. so I asked him if he knew why he has those things since my mom is a doctor.. that's it. I didn't bash anybody anywhere.. And maby my young wisdom is a LOT more pure than one that has been changed and corrupted to the hands of the one abusing it for 400,00000 years.. I didn't mean any harm to the kid.. I sure can't help it you have a fix on me.. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 2:04:37 PM |
No, no antidepressants or anything like that; it's just the way I've always been. For me, sex has always been something that I'd just use in fantasies; there was never a particular urge to make any of those fantasies real. I picked up from books and so on that sex is something you're supposed to do in a relationship/marriage, that I should worry if I was still a virgin at a late age, but that was all external to my actual desires. And it wasn't a gay thing; I didn't feel any more urges toward men than women.[/QUOTE]
Well, I asked you the pointed question about the antidepressants, because that is my situation. I learned about sex as something that is natural, and forthcoming when two people get together and are inseparable. However, I came to my own conclusions about it, because I have been computer savy from a young age. The gateway, the internet, is purely an educational tool for me. Of course, I have seen my fair share of pornography.
[QUOTE]Anecdote: there was one woman I dated who made it clear that she didn't believe in sex before marriage. I agreed to that, with no thought that I'd have to struggle to control myself in that situation; my only worry was that if we did end up getting married, I'd be agreeing to have sex AFTER the marriage without knowing whether I'd actually like it. As it turned out, we had four dates, which never got as far as a kiss goodnight, and then she cancelled the fifth date and wouldn't call me back. I had been considering saying something like "Should we be kissing by this point?", but that was just from knowing what people normally do on dates, not from any desire in me to kiss her. [/QUOTE]
Sounds like you're living in the Twilight Zone, friend. We have an analogous train of thought, so much so that it's creepy. Heh. | |
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Millan
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 3:04:24 PM | Where are the VIRGINS???
If you play with yourself...does that make you still a virgin? YES. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/21/2005 4:18:15 PM | One of the best ways to remain a Virgin is to waste your time posting on this website.
I get more emails in one day from bleep.com than I do from scarcityoffish.com!
However, these forums are addictive...
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Millan
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/31/2005 10:59:16 AM | avraham, dude..sorry it's beside the point but..you have one extremely 'cool' but seriously freaky profile... shit.. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/31/2005 2:52:34 PM | Vermonter wrote:
One of the best ways to remain a Virgin is to waste your time posting on this website.
This is probably true. But in PoF's defense, it's just how it goes for men on dating sites. The male to female ratio is never even remotely even. There's way more men than women, so you have to take that competition into consideration. You just have to tighten your belt and try that much harder.
On the topic of this thread, I'd say that male virgins are more common than most think. Generally, for a male to admit that he hasn't had such intimate physical encounters, is a bit of a blow to ones self-esteem since being a virgin sounds like one isn't particularly masculine. So you won't hear many admit to such things. Cheers to those brave enough in the thread here who have.
I'd bet a ton of cash that there's more male virgins than female ones. If a woman is even remotely attractive, she's getting harassed constantly by men.
 So if she wants to retain her virginity, she has to work at it. Conversely, a male has to work at losing his virginity. So I'm sure there's more male than female virgins. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 7/31/2005 3:47:43 PM | I maintained my virginity until I was 21. It was for religious reasons. Then I went through a major breakdown in every area of my life, couldn't see up for down.. left for right.. inside for outside.. evil or good.. got taken for a trip through my mind, my social being and my binding force was torn to shreds. I was sick of being different and thought that having sex would be a way for me to reconcile my differences.
a year and a half later and I've had 3 partners. I've decided once more to abstain from sex but this time I'm going to avoid masturbating as well. It's been 2 weeks so far and I really hope the good Lord finds me a wife soon.
Generally, for a male to admit that he hasn't had such intimate physical encounters, is a bit of a blow to ones self-esteem since being a virgin sounds like one isn't particularly masculine.
How true it is! I didn't tell my first time that it was my first time until about a week before we parted ways. She couldn't believe it... apparently I was a natural :p | |
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