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 MR77100

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 51
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Posted: 8/17/2005 1:17:04 AM
Yes, chalk up another one! I am 24 and have yet to have my first.
 hilariousdogs

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 8/17/2005 6:26:56 AM
i know someone he is close to 30 and have never had masturbation or sex "offcourse for religious reasons" why else would one do this

and he is searching for a woman as a wife i dont think a person like him could ever leave his wife alone

beware all women next time u have sex it could be ...



frivoloumous after 21 yr u turn out to b a pig, but tell me did u break with the first one because u told her that u r a virgin or u r just evil
 hilariousdogs

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 53
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Posted: 8/17/2005 6:55:55 AM
frivo... my friend
surely u r funny

Lord give u the wife if u start having sex with her but u said u wont even have masturbation ur wife wont b very happy then

u started it again i mean no masturbation or sex why

u dont like sex or is it just woman???

this person i told u about in my last post on this thread, he is a muslim and muslims dont even drink alcohol usu

they are just too family oriented so even though divorce is allowed though not ideal either but there are hardly any divorces among them as compared to other religions where divorce isnt evn allowed

r u a muslim too frivo.. in that case u were still a sinner because islam says no masturbation so ppl get married soon and wont be irresponsible but then u said u were having sex with ur hand at the time (i am sorry but u must admit its a hillarious thread) also do u
 Zain.

Joined: 9/20/2005
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Posted: 4/12/2006 6:57:07 PM
you're not a virgin yet you want a virgin man?
I usually hear it the other way around
 tim4925

Joined: 2/9/2005
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Posted: 4/12/2006 7:44:10 PM
I'm not a virgin at my age, of course, but I sure do remember when I lost mine.

Can't say I'm a better man because of sex but I do have something else to bring me great satisfaction and joy from pleasing another. I do have many other things in my life that make it worth living though like friendship, my many interest and ice cream.
 ShatirLavan

Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 56
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Posted: 4/15/2006 7:50:47 PM
I had sex for the first time about 10 days before my 17th birthday. My ex-gf and I had been together for about a month, and we were ready for it. We were in love, what can I say. That 2 year, 9 month relationship ended in January. Since then I've had a couple of chances for hookups, but I'm not the kind of guy who can sleep with some random girl. But I in no way want to abstain. I just want to have a girlfriend who I can have sex with. I don't need attachment, it doesn't matter to me if it's a short term or long term relationship; I just need a true metaphysical connection.
 RobMalibu

Joined: 3/31/2006
Msg: 57
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Posted: 4/16/2006 11:55:02 AM
well I have give credit to anyone that has had sex and is going to abstain till marriage or something. I tried to do it, I couldn't. I have had my fair share. My last girlfriend though was a virgin, we dated for 8 months, she wanted it, she said so, but didn't want to do it until at the earliest we were to get engaged. I loved her, and part of me still does. But amounst other things, it was driving me insane.

and for her religion did play a part in it.
 AK338

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 4/16/2006 3:41:33 PM
What is the exact definition of losing your virginity for a guy? I personally think it's definately taking the high road , and i commend those who wait until marriage for sex. Even if you've done it before, does'nt mean you have to give up completly. Would you led your child give up in school if they failed a test? or would you have compassion on them and tell them to "get up and try again, never give up, you can do it"! How special it would be for the families attending the ceremony, even more so for the two getting married. Knowing that, they made it, what a journey, what an exciting night. Who wants a honeymoon that's just business as usual. We are not dogs who just can't help themselves, or are we?
 Blueberry

Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 4/16/2006 4:01:19 PM
flshygrl, that is wonderful that you have chosen to wait, despite your past. I'm in the same boat as you, and have held to that choice for years. It's difficult at first, but it does get easier. And I really do sympathize with you in your search. Nearly all of the men I have encountered, even on the Christian dating sites were not virgins, and so decided abstinance was no longer an option. They basically gave into the sin and decided it's fine. It can be a little depressing at times! But hang in there, There are also some great Christian men who are abstaining, and even some virgins out there still. They're harder to find, but they are out there.
 A Private Guy

Joined: 4/12/2006
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Posted: 4/16/2006 7:34:32 PM
The great thing about being a virgin is that people stop mentioning sex to you when they realize what they are saying isn't connecting where it needs to. After that, you almost forgot you are one.
 biozealot21

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 61
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Posted: 4/17/2006 12:41:38 PM
At the age of 25, I am still a virgin. I think it's sad that so many people are astonished by that fact. My reasons for abstaining are not religious. However, there is no single reason for my decision. I'm a very logical person and weigh all the pros and cons before making decisions. I also don't drink alcohol or speak profanely.

There are plenty of other male virgins...we don't exactly have ads in the Yellow Pages though. Maybe there should be a dating site with the "I'm still virgin" checkbox? I've actually never met a female virgin over the age of 24 though.

I haven't gotten much flack, but it seems to me that most of the verbal bashing comes from non-virgins directed toward virgins. Maybe that's just because the majority of people on these forums have had sex? Obviously, I have friends with opinions that differ from my own. I embrace sharing viewpoints and learning from others. However, I have very little respect for those just out to "get some" and treat the opposite (or same) sex as a mere object to satisfy a passing whim. What I'm looking for is someone who is respectful and responsible.
 Robertj64

Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 4/17/2006 12:50:48 PM
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Hopefully you won't hook up with someone who upon hearing you are a virgin:

No sh*t!! That is f****** amazing...I cannot believe it...pass me those condoms by the case of two-four.
 ThE mArD

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:50:10 AM
Heyyo,

I'm sure there are virgins out there... I was thinking about it before, ya know, saving yourself for the one? but I ended up blowing all that away in Vancouver in college... If I ever met a chick in the same situation like you? I'd be up for giving it a try. But like chronic said there, it would be hard. :)
 truthseekr

Joined: 3/7/2006
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Posted: 4/18/2006 3:44:18 AM
They exist, but I think that they are rare. I have never met a male virgin over the age of 18. I am a male virgin for two reasons. I am a biblical Christian who avoids fornication and adultery, and because STD's are widespread. I came close to loosing my virginity years ago when my faith was weaker. In the US, with its increasingly loose morals, the loneliness and rejection produced by male virginity is often more than most men can bear, and they usually yield to the temptation.
 TheRandomGuy

Joined: 3/21/2006
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Posted: 4/18/2006 6:53:23 AM
"The only thing more powerful than sex is no sex"

- a virgin
 guardianknight

Joined: 11/17/2005
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Posted: 5/28/2006 4:29:24 PM
They do exsist. I am one by choice and by religious beliefs. I was raised to believe that a man and a woman should wait until marriage and I still believe in that. I know that it is old fashioned; but that can't be helped; I am what I am. But some women tend to be afraid of such men, that maybe they are fools, or that something is wrong with them, they woud even tell them to go see a prostitute and get some experience. Don't judge a man for his personal or religious beliefs in maintaining his purity for that someone special on their wedding day.
 skypoetone

Joined: 3/24/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 5/29/2006 3:59:17 PM
No virgin here, but I have not had sex since well before my divorce, that was over three years ago.
 hammerhead21

Joined: 11/19/2005
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Posted: 3/29/2007 8:19:17 AM
hi i'm a male 22 yr old virgin and damn proud of it too lol if you know of a girl willing to date me lol let me know
steinbach manitoba
 abstinent lady

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 69
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:25:10 PM
I'm sure their are male virgins, I have not been lucky enough to meet one, but would love to , we would have alot in common, even if a guy did have sex and commit sin and gave his life over to God I would give him a chance IF he no longer wanted sex.
 abstinent lady

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 70
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:29:25 PM
Any good christian men in here from Michigan?
 Mr. Ivan

Joined: 3/13/2006
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Posted: 3/30/2007 5:30:13 PM
I'm still waiting for a woman to marry. And I'm a bad Christian!

 dbz77

Joined: 12/5/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2007 1:07:53 PM

At the age of 25, I am still a virgin. I think it's sad that so many people are astonished by that fact. My reasons for abstaining are not religious. However, there is no single reason for my decision. I'm a very logical person and weigh all the pros and cons before making decisions. I also don't drink alcohol or speak profanely.

How does your family feel about this?


Michael
 BlueMoonIsis

Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 3/31/2007 6:26:22 PM
Yes, I have known a number of male virgins--some even into their 30's.
 RussArtLover

Joined: 2/9/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 4/1/2007 7:18:55 PM
I am. Sometimes I think I wouldn't be if I hadn't lost my hair, then I meet someone and realise I want love. I have a long length wig I rarely ware under a black cowboy hat. Women "lean" at me when I do. I think that is more a vibe thing they pick up from me than looks though. I want grandbabies.
 strawberrykitten

Joined: 5/4/2007
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Posted: 5/18/2007 2:53:02 PM
Yes, they do exist. Just depends at what age. Perhaps they exist at all ages, but in society today, I think the number starts dwindling even more at early to mid-twenties. This isn't scientific, of course, just my impression. Iit seems different for women (I'm one of them). I still wonder why that is.

Of course, who knows how many are losing their virginity before they even graduate high school.
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