| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/3/2008 2:11:51 PM | What really makes me upset is that people having a hard time in believing that I am a virgin.
When I tell people I am a virign they just make fun of me, doubt my sexuality and they think that I am such a loser for not having sex yet.
Is sex and having a girlfriend really that important to attain some type of a social status?
To be honest, I never had a girlfriend in my life, never kissed or never any sort of inimacy with any woman. Is that really bad?
I prefer to live this way. This is my choice. Why people can't accept for who I am? | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/21/2008 6:56:34 PM | | Late to this thread, but It's been so long for me, that I am officially declaring myself a virgin again!!! | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/21/2008 8:03:48 PM |
Male virgins exist.... female do not.
blue_eyed_beau, why do you say that? I'm female, and I'm still a virgin (and proud of it, thank you very much). Why do you believe there's no such thing as female virgins?
Patricia | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/22/2008 2:13:12 PM | K sorry... Since this is posted under the "religion and spirituality" section I had to add this because I think it is interesting.
Does anyone here realise what the "biblical" definition of a virgin is? If so, than they would realise that by religious standards, no male can be considered a virgin. It is true, and it is not to say that men are less "pure" (because I don't think that they are). I also do not believe that your "purity" or "goodness" Is measured by your abstinence or partaking in sex. The original meaning of the word Virgin is a woman who has not birthed a child. It was only later perceived and there for added to define virgin as a person that has not had sexual intercourse. So, by religious definition, all woman who have never given birth, and only woman are true virgins.
That being said. Do I believe there are Men out there who have not had sexual intercourse? Of course. I personally know a few. And bravo to them for having strength... And bravo to those of us who have not abstained from sex. In my opinion, It is not only peoples actions that should be examined or rewarded... Sometimes it is the reason for someones action that is most important. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/26/2008 1:25:36 AM | I am sure there are many men who have never had sexual intercourse with anyone out there, for various reasons. However in my view, I don't think virginity is the most important thing one should consider before getting deeply involved with someone. A man might be a virgin but may well turn out to be a complete **stard, while someone who is not a virgin has a very decent personality. Some men are much more likely to be virgins if they come from certain backgrounds (i.e. very conservative religious backgrounds) but I don't think being a virgin makes you an intrinsically good or bad person, neither does not being a virgin. Therefore in my view it is not the litmus test we should use to judge whether or not someone is suitable for us.
Even if we do make virginity a 'deal-breaker' for a relationship or marriage with someone, with men there is no way you can tell if their claim to be a virgin is actually true (save if you know for sure they have an STD). | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/26/2008 12:25:26 PM | Two Hawks takes the Talking Stick:
I have been told that if there is a male out there who is NOT a virgin...he can go to the Virgin Isles and get recycled thus becoming a virgin again!
I couldn't pass up the opportunity to toss that one in! 
Two Hawks passes the Talking Stick | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/26/2008 2:48:49 PM | | This is a silly question of course they do (unofrtunalty i know alot of **** girls who think that because im a virgin at 28 there must be something "wrong" with me and that they shouldn't feel "attraction to me" cos they dont want to be seen with someone who's never "done it" before!!!) | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/29/2008 8:39:00 PM | | yep I did not lose mine till I was 24 but sadly that was not by choice it was due to my genetics as when I was 24 I still looked 16 and even today at 44 I still get proffed for beer | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/29/2008 8:52:06 PM | Unfortuately, some men behave like virgins after years of sex :) (p.s. - I don't know how I got here but I like it)
p.s. - I didn't lose mine until 21 because I couldn't find anyone cool enough. Shy. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/30/2008 4:26:43 PM | | I'm not even a Christian freak yet I'm a virgin and am waiting to get married. So they do exist. And it feels good to be a virgin and I can stay this way forever. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 2/21/2008 11:54:38 AM | | I have been in a relationship for over 10 months with my guy. He was a virgin up until the age of 28 until he met me. lol! | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 2/21/2008 12:01:06 PM | I was a virgin until 32, the sex wasn't that great when I had sex I would have been better off staying a virgin, first time. This time I will wait until marriage if that ever happens, it's for my spiritual practice.
HPV is pretty common now, the more sex partners you have the more chances of cancer in the private part. Condoms doesn't work for HPV. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 3/11/2008 6:04:35 PM | | I like TedjMill (Msg: 18) kind of helped, but Im not platonic. its not that Im religious, or saving myself for marriage. I cant say Ive had a lot of times to lose it, but the relationships that Ive been in, Ive never really pushed for sex, so we just didnt have sex. I feel like Im missing out sometimes, but its more of the status of not being a virgin, then really wanting to have sex. Im 20, so I still blend in pretty average when others at work discuss sex, due to the whole save it for marriage thing that people do. it doesnt really matter to me if shes a virgin or not. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 3/19/2008 12:35:52 AM | Mitt romney is ready for viagra for god sakes! can anyone refute the fact he was a virgin since he has been married 30+years?
The bible was written by man (as was the book of mormon which Mitt is following).
I'm really surprised no one has mentioned that a man with a teeny weeny penis and no sense of creativity decided woman should be virgins-therefore denying them great sex for life after marriage and not knowing the difference. As for you who are older and still virgins- I'm not promoting promiscuity- far from it- I'm suggesting you have your hormone levels tested. Please- no vulgar emails suggesting intimacy- i do take it seriously. I just can't believe adults are this ignorant!! | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 3/20/2008 9:54:14 PM | No one brought up this point, or I missed it in my skimming...
Staying a virgin until your married is a great way to end up with someone like you, sexually inexperienced. When you do finally get to have sex, it might be "special," but there's a good chance it won't be very good. Sex is a skill. With practice your skill and personal style will develop over time. Not all styles are compatible. If it's important to you to have a good sex life, find out if you're sexually compatible with someone before you marry them. Otherwise you're rolling the dice. You may end up with a good partner, or you could end up with boring vanilla sex for the rest of your life (or until you become part the large percentage of marriages that end in divorce). If having good sex is not important to you, then don't worry about it... For me personally, someone who is inhibited (read- uncomfortable with themself sexually) is not someone I want to be with.
And in response to all the STD references: GO GET TESTED! Then stop worrying about it. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 3/20/2008 10:29:39 PM | Generations ago, many men were virgins, although they wouldn't admit it. I'm 67 years old and have two boyhood friends the same age. They were both virgins when they got married at the ages of 24 and are still married to the same wives, who, incidentally, according to them and the wives, were also virgins. My first wife and I got married when she was 19 years old (I was 22); she was a virgin. I have a close friend who is 82 years old. Both he and his wife were virgins when they got married in 1961: he was 35 years old and she was 37. I had another friend who died in 1995. He and his wife were virgins until they got married in the 80's at a more mature age (I belive he was 30 and she was about the same age). All the virgin marriages I know, where both the man and woman were virgins, there was no divorce and they are still married to each other even decades after.
Today there probably are older virgins, but there's no question that people today are much more sexually active -- by far! | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 3/21/2008 12:53:31 PM | | Sure they exist, especially amongst christians or people of other faiths who are devout. There are some threads dealing with this issue at "christianforums" if you're interested. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 3/22/2008 8:00:04 PM | | OP, if you are fortunate to meet someone, regardless of their sexuality, that has experienced physical passion to the extent of sexual intercourse - and you love them, why would it matter? Love doesn't come with a lable that says "only virgins need only apply." I'm sorry, but please get real! | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:44:48 AM | Here's the way I see it.
For women:
Keeping/loosing virginity is a choice.
For men:
No man chooses sexual abstinence. Sexual abstinence chooses them.
I'm 22 and in my live I can only remember meeting one male in my life who choose to remain a virgin and it was for religious reasons. Even then he felt oral sex was still ok. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 9/13/2008 8:37:40 PM | I actually address this issue in my abstinence thread, kinda sorta in a way.
Most of the time Sexual Abstinence chooses the guys, because they could have sexual intercourse, but are too picky.
Or they could choose to wait along for someone who is special enough to give away their gift of virginity. Of course, in this day and age remaining a virgin past 16 curses is a social stigma. Each year the curse gets stronger as people question your sexuality, insult you, etc. etc.
Oral sex is still sex btw lol. That's like the one christian girl who I overheard at the bar last night who proudly championed the fact that she was a virgin, but substituted anal sex instead of vaginal. The degree of hypocrisy was utterly amazing lol
Oh btw, go to a star trek convention and you will have your proof that they exist lol. | |
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