| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 11/5/2008 6:19:59 PM | | I have a friend who's a 41 year old virgin. - What happens if you don't find the right person, are you supposed to be a virgin for the rest of your life? | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 11/5/2008 7:42:30 PM | | There is a book called "When God writes your love story" by a married christian couple who were both virgins when they met.. they went through many of the doubts you speak of Op.. might be an inspiring read :) | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 12/7/2008 11:41:10 AM |
I do not think that losing my virginity to average Jane will leave me a better person
¡AMEN! I, too, am a vigin, and waiting untill after "I do".
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 2/18/2009 11:06:17 AM | I knew more virgins males than females while growing up . . . a LOT more . . .!!
I turned sex down again and again until 18 . . . but as far as adults are concerned . . . I am not sure that I know or have even met any! Maybe that is where there are more ladies than gentlemen . . .?
goodluck!
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 2/18/2009 11:31:52 AM | Most of the virgins are available either in Islamic countries or Israel. For more information, contact male virgins at 1800-m-a-l-e-v-i-r-g-i-n-s.  | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 2/20/2009 8:30:24 PM | Finally someone else who also believes it's not about religion AND understands the whole "deeper relationship" aspect!
There's a different kind of relationship that can develop when sex isn't part of it until commitment. People can have sex with anyone. But a deeply connected relationship is unique. And sex in the context of that type of relationship can be beyond amazing. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 9/17/2009 9:39:36 AM | | I'm a 35 year old man and I'll wait until God provides the right woman for me. I don't care how long it takes me. I will NEVER engage in pre-marital sex. Ever. Is this strange for a guy? It could be, but I have not had pre-marital sex and would prefer that the woman I meet and eventually marry (whenever that time may be) would not have engaged in pre-marital sex, but that is not a requirement. However, it is a very STRONG preference. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 9/17/2009 3:36:03 PM | | I'm a 21 year old guy and still a virgin, never had a girlfriend either, always been single, because there is nothing I can do to change it. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 10/29/2009 10:55:11 PM | I'm still a virgin, I have never had a girlfriend. Never kissed or even held hands with a girl.
I could have lost my virginity manytimes before though. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 11/8/2009 8:14:24 PM | | There has to be more male virgins out there than female virgins, because if a person, or human being is struggling to get laid, it almost all the time is a male, for obvious reasons. Since almost no straight male will say No to Sex. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 11/11/2009 9:06:56 PM | Now, let's look at the other side of the fence, instant sex society, you've got STD's all around, herpes and all sorts of fallout when it comes to having sex with anyone or the wrong person. Just think, why are there so many STD's around if having a promiscious sex life is so great? The Bible really has it head on - having one person to live with your life where you have sex together and build a family is the way to go.
I agree and it's great to see such widom coming out of the keyboard of one so young. Most of those on this site and on others are not virgins and even at your age are probably onto an unknown number of partners. People are engaging in serial monogamy, which essentially means that they sleep with one person until the relationship tanks and then move onto the next. This happens over and over again until individuals are too burned out to feel anything for anyone; at that point I think they begin looking for the friend with benefits style relationships or they do the polygamous thing, or have an open relationship.
Our parents and grandparents were right. For the girls, wait until you make some special person your husband and for the young men, wait until you find a girl that realizes what you're offering and what it means, who is offering the same, if you can find that these days. People are jaded and very promiscuous; this age of rampant sexually transmitted disease clarifies this clearly. Those who would make fun of you or jeer at you are jealous! They know they are jaded and used up. Those who want to convince you to be like them? They are jealous! Don't listen to them.
Be proud of yourself and get this right. There are so many who blew it and here they are on this very site, looking for yet another serial monogamous affair. You can do better than that. | |
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