| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 8:40:19 AM | this is just my opinion on condom carriers F Moron... and an opinion can often be judgemental.
i don't really care how many men you have slept with on a first date .... if other people have said you are intelligent then i'm sure you are intelligent .. and if you say that you are interesting then i'm sure you are.
i apologise if you took my comment personally about being an easy lay ... it was just an observation but you seem offended by it as if it were directed at you !!
but for someone so intelligent you seem to have trouble distinguishing between being judgemental and being prejudice.
maybe you didn't read all the posts regarding the TS issue or maybe didn't quite get the point i was making. | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 9:01:19 AM |
Anybody go on first dates carrying a condom on their personage or in their handbag (purse)?
i personally always carry a condom everywhere i go.
im not going off topic like anybody else, cant be arsed | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 9:28:45 AM | I have carried condoms in the past but not at the moment. I tend not to sleep with people on a first date. However there have been times when I wished I had one on me | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 9:28:46 AM | Everyone should carry condoms on or about their person in this day and age!
I do, there's a couple in each and every handbag I own. *which means thats theres a couple of hundred condoms in my house* *must start having $ex again!!!*
Think what you like ... I'd rather be classed as a wanton slapper than catch something nasty.
and for the little boys who wouldn't date a woman that carries them ...... I taught my daughters 20 and 17 to carry them at all times .... Isn't that what the massive advertising campaigns in the 80's were about??? Carry a condom, no unwanted pregnancy or diseases! | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 9:37:03 AM | | Why would it be 'my responsibility' to carry a condom around with me? There are still one or two of us who are not about to be even tempted to sleep with a stranger. And this is not me being judgemental. I just resent strangers inferring that I might not know my own mind. Trust me, it ain't gonna happen, so why should I carry one 'just in case'? So the answer is 'no'. | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 9:42:40 AM | Everyone should carry condoms on or about their person in this day and age!
Why?
Do we not have any self control?
I do agree it's safer to make sure there's always one upon your person if the possibility is there, like going out on the pull to a club, or a date, where it maybe on the cards, and for those that are shall we say, sexually active or potentially 'up for it'.
If I am going to take things further it will be after getting to know someone better (certainly not the first date and i don't care if she was fit and gagging, i can also afford to be choosy thank god, but do prefer inner beauty over outer sexuality at this point in my life), at my place or theirs, and I would expect that condoms will be on stand by I'm sure! No need for me to have any on me for no real reason anymore, I think I'm getting wiser and more selective when it comes to women. There's no rush after all.
As lassnotlooking says, If you are not looking for sex, and you had the opportunity to take things further in the heat of the moment, I would definitely know where to draw the line too and I have proved that in my actions in more recent encounters.
But give us a bar of chocolate, that would be different, resistance is futile! | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 9:45:53 AM | | Ah well - chocolate? Now your talking! I guess my protection device should be a calorie counter... | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 10:22:40 AM |
i just don't want to date a woman who carries a condom and is prepared to shag a stranger on a first date. i quiet like nice girls Fully agree
Jayzuz...do you still club women over t'head too? ...get with the century boys, & forget what your pious mommys told you bout sticking to "nice girls" ...it's tosh!!! While girls may increasingly think its cool to sleep around and tell everyone about it, you'd be surprised at the number of men who don't like such women. I think women are actually believing the hype that its cool and trendy. It may be a new century, but not much has chnaged on this front. In fact nearly all guys I know think this way, its shameful to have the local bike for a girlfriend. And a girl that carries condoms on nights out fits into this category | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 10:23:43 AM | Personally I think its sensible for both men and women to carrty condoms. I admit if I met a woman and she had them on her I'd may think abit less of her but that would be my problem not her's, she's being sensible. Why is it that all men think that we have the right to have no control when it comes to sex but a woman should be able to excercise self control. A bloke carries a condom he's sensible and woman carries one she's a slag or easy. Please this is the 21st Century.
I personally never carry one as I know I'm never going to get lucky!!!! | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 10:29:26 AM |
shameful to have the local bike for a girlfriend. And a girl that carries condoms on nights out fits into this category
There are those of us that don't sleep around but just happen to carry condoms ....... I suppose its because those of us that were teenagers in the 80's remember the panic that ensued when the AIDS figures were being released and when celebrities were dying.
We also remember sex education at school and graphic pictures showing syphillis ridden women. I remember our teachers drumming it into us that it wasn't a sign of being 'easy' to carry a condom, rather a sign of being a responsible teenager! That philosophy certainly stuck in my mind and I've carried them ever since!
Make of that what you will but stop being so victorian and judgemental, each to their own. I wouldn't want to date someone with such prissy and anal views. | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 10:48:03 AM |
While girls may increasingly think its cool to sleep around and tell everyone about it,
ermmmmmm... Girls maybe, women no... As a WOMAN if i chose to sleep with a man because we like each other then i will do... So what does that make the man that sleeps with someone on a first date then?
you'd be surprised at the number of men who don't like such women.
I couldnt care less, if a man cannot see past the fact that i have had a couple of one night stands then he can go back to the Victorian era where he belongs
I think women are actually believing the hype that its cool and trendy. It may be a new century, but not much has chnaged on this front.
I dont get this thing where you think that women actually give a chuff about trends... I really dont.
In fact nearly all guys I know think this way, its shameful to have the local bike for a girlfriend. And a girl that carries condoms on nights out fits into this category
Men can be hypocrites at times... Are you telling me that you and your friends have NEVER EVER had a one night stand or slept with someone on the first date??
So a woman who is sensible and has a condom on her vicinity on a date is a "bike", a woman who lies and says she never ever does this and sleeps with a man 2 dates in without a condom isnt??
Double chuffing standards 
And to be honest, i wouldnt in a million years want a man who thought a woman who carries a condom is a slapper... I prefer MEN to silly little BOYS | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 10:50:51 AM |
they are simply a precautionary measure in case things do actually progress to sex at some point. Yes so she's the type of girl who sleeps with men she's just met. And just the type I don't like, whats wrong with that? | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:02:40 AM |
And to be honest, i wouldnt in a million years want a man who thought a woman who carries a condom is a slapper... So a woman who sleeps around with men she's just met is not a slapper?! Ok then what is a slapper?
I dont get this thing where you think that women actually give a chuff about trends... I really dont. I was replying to a "get with the century" comment. Even you mentioned victorians, impying different trends over time. So you shouldn't really have a problem 'getting it'.
So what does that make the man that sleeps with someone on a first date then? A stud. Men pull, women get pulled, such is life. I'd love it to be all equal but it ain't... | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 11:03:10 AM | | i personally dont think its a bad thing for a man or a woman to carry condoms with them on a first date. I personally don't take condoms with me anywhere because as a rule i wouldn't sleep with someone on a first date or on the first night i have met them. But that doesn't mean i wouldn't if it felt right and don't think that there is anything wrong with ppl who do. | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:03:26 AM | ^^^
Don't I get my questions answered Frozen?
Isit 'cos I is a bike? 
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Edit:
It doesn't matter. After reading your last sentance I realise I'm expecting someone can debate & justify their own opinions...who evidently can't as they are devoid of a brain. It was a compliment to you though, & I'll always treasure my initial misconceptions of you.
VVV
Foxy, your right. But remember it's saintly to pity imbecelic morons.  | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:06:56 AM |
So a woman who sleeps around with men she's just met is not a slapper?! Ok then what is a slapper?
You tell us, you seem to be the one happy as a pig in poop with giving people these titles..
I suggest you join "virgins are us" if you want a woman that wouldnt be certified as a "slapper" by someone or another
A stud. Men pull, women get pulled, such is life. I'd love it to be all equal but it ain't...
I am happy to not comment on this thread now, there is little input that actually isnt odd from most of the men on here..
I thought that the "slapper and stud" thing was the sort of attitude held by immature, young minded, petty fools... Not sure if i am wrong or right | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:11:21 AM | ^^^^^
Lily my lovely ....... You didn't get your question answered cus he knows your wellllll out of his league.... 
Stick to your own Lily, nice, bright, articulate, generous, witty, intelligent men ... not stupid little boys with their heads so far up their own ar$es they licking their own tonsils. I mean Lily, look at him, he's probably still practicing kissing the mirror.
Mind you, 99% of the women on here are out of his league!
And as for the women who don't carry condoms .......... Shame on the fooking lot of you!  | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:11:31 AM | huh is this some kind of silly question????
YES YES and definately....
I dont actually class meeting someone as the 'first date' anyway, although it technically is....
by the time you have got to know someone through the wonderful world of t'internet, to me, it is like those first date 'getting to know you' things have already been done...
But i have to agree with some of the female comments on here... there are some really neanderthal opinions around, I hope they are actually tongue in cheek ironic ones, and there are not guys around that still think like that. | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:11:36 AM | | at my college we were given a sex advice type talk warning against disease, unwanted pregnancy etc etc the usual things...........and then the advisor said something that will stick with me forever! She told us about a case (this particular one was America, but i'm sure it must have happened elsewhere too) where a man broke in to a woman's home and raped her....before he did this, she asked him to wear a condom. If for no other reason, that has always stuck with me as a fantastic reason for a woman to always have a condom with her! sure, the liklihood of getting raped is low (thank god), but as has been mentioned many many times in this thread already, i'd rather have one and not need one, than need one and not have one! be it consentual (sp?) or not, i was a girl guide and as such i will always be prepared!!! (guess that means you must add my name to the 'bike' list eh!!!) | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:11:50 AM | Sorry missed you lilly...
Just out of curiousity, do you not think men should carry condoms either? They should yes in case they get lucky. I never said women shouldn't. If they want to sleep around they definately should. All I said was I agree with the other guy that I wouldn't want to go out with such a girl
Does that make me a bike?! No. I was talking about women who go on nights out and carry condoms and sleep around with men they just met. Talking to someone for months, you know them pretty well, much better than a few hours in a bar | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:12:06 AM |
So what does that make the man that sleeps with someone on a first date then?
A stud. Men pull, women get pulled, such is life. I'd love it to be all equal but it ain't...
Oh pleeeeeeeeeeese, grow up  | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:12:47 AM | | Better to carry a condom than get a sexual disease or an unwanted pregnancy regardless of what people think. | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:17:36 AM | Sure, keep one in my handbag but the last one from in there was used to show my kids what one was when they asked actually.
For someone to be so decidely stupid to say women who carry condoms are slags rather implies that someone who carries a lighter in their bag are arsonists. Just because one has a condom handy, and onlt you know you have it, doesn't mean you intend to use it. BUT I wouls CERTAINLY like to use my lighter to put a fire under your unwanted correspondent who called us slags. Now that would be arson of an arseole that I could certainly enjoy. I would even put the condom on my strapon and give him a lesson to remember up his own ronson. He might be a little more polite afterwards.
Gosh, too many metaphors !!!!
KQ | |
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| Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:20:49 AM | Tan Y -
(certainly not the first date and i don't care if she was fit and gagging, i can afford to be choosy thank god)
This from the man who openly admitted, in another thread, to sleeping with a prostitute.
With men tis chuffing double standards. Spineless fooking ar$es the twAtting lot of ya....
So what if we carry condoms? It doesn't change our personalities you know. | |
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...everyones entitled to opinion of course...but IMO anyone with those views are hung up & immature... so defo not my bag. *shakes head*
...kinda grew out of that about 25 years ago funny enough, along with clicking my chewy & flicking my Phil Oakley fringe out of my eyes ... 
...& f I wanted to shag around I could quite easily, & no-one round these parts would be any the wiser?! 
