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 Texwolf

Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 196
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submissives on POF?
Posted: 10/8/2008 2:58:58 PM
Well this could be a few diffrent things. People can be submissive in there whole life and really like to help other people. usally these people are taking adavnatages of others. It is sad thing because they usally get feed up and then stop trying to help all together. Some people are domminent by nature but that does not mean they have to be mean or use others. In the end some are better at being in charge some are better at taking orders. One is not better or worse then the other.
 ~Kyn~

Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 197
submissives on POF?
Posted: 10/8/2008 3:22:19 PM
I wasnt gonna answer this thread...cos to be completely honest I dont think its appropriate to go meandering all over the internet publically displaying your sex life.
Lacks class IMO
Oh and Im NOT btw...Im talking specifically about many many men over the years who've contacted/approached me.

However...I did want to make comment to one thing in regards to this.
I tend to be a dominant personality...Im INTJ female...so I find huge numbers of male submissives are interested in me and its something that comes up in conversation reasonably quickly cos when people have got a specific kink...they like to talk about it.

The one thing Ive noticed with all of them is...they're all emotionally weak. Like leeches.
Even men that are successful in other aspects of their lives and enjoy the passive side to being a sub...will still be emotionally weak.

Now Im sure the subs will disagree and say they're not...dont much care...but fact is...
...it bores the absolute crap outta me...cos frankly from everything Ive seen of these men...I truly believe its based on nothing but apathy and downright laziness.
Perpetually being pathetic. Hardly a lifestyle/personality/character I can love.

Im no more interested in being a continuous dictator in a relationship than being dictated to.
And if I cant trade reins with a guy in every aspect of our relationship...I cant respect him...and he's useless to me.

I wont be kissing any man's ass (so to speak hehe..)...and if I want someone to lick my damn boots...I'll buy a fricken dog.
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