Ladies, you really just need to have a little more confidence in your self as a woman and in who you are as a person!
You know, I've got this really good friend of mine that I grew up with, he is absolutely, drop
dead gorgous.
He takes good care of himself, has his own home, Great job, he's a riot to be around, he really has it all going on.
So many of my girlfriends over the 35 years i've known him have wanted to go out with him so badly, but would never approach him because they thought that someone that handsome would never be interested in them. you'd think that someone like him would be going out with so many women. ..."If only", as he says. He told me, that if a woman liked herself and was proud of who she is, why wouldn't he? About 5 years ago he was at the Abby flea market looking at some tools and had this woman who was over weight and not all that much to look at, come up to him and ask him a question about this paticular tool. Well I guess she cracked a few jokes about the tools and really made him laugh. They started walking and talking for a bit then she asked him if he'd be interested in having lunch with her, and so they went out for lunch and had a great time together. As a matter of fact he enjoyed her company so much he asked her to dinner, well they went out for over 2 years. She told me once that it took absolutely everything in her power to ask him out, but what did she have to lose? well it worked. He told me that a woman doesn't have to be a 6,7,8,9,or a 10 to be sexy or attractive. sexiness comes from within and if you feel sexy, others will find you that way as well, also what he finds attractive and sexy is when a woman is happy and confident in herself. Just think of something clever or funny to get their attention, then dazzle them with you!! ...Just my two cents worth. Good luck and like mike says, "just do it, you might be surprized"!!