ab_qt
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Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 26 | |
| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/26/2006 3:07:55 PM | | Gibson I'm the type of person would would come flat out and say it. If he wants wants help with improvement, I'll help but I'd rather be straight up with someone rather then hold back. | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/26/2006 3:18:06 PM |
At my age, 33, the last thing I want to do is teach a guy how to have good sex..my lordy...if I wanted that, I'd take a 21 year old virgin as my boy toy....
how about a 23 year old that already knows his way around a woman and had a big crush on his 9th grade english teacher  | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/26/2006 3:20:45 PM | you should try porn and try to have him imitate the scenes. if he just climaxs to early then that will take his mind off cumming. and if he just doesn't know what to do then he can learn a couple of things from the videos. also we only know what to do by your noises and if you are just mouning to hurry it up then he thinks he is doing a good job. reward him llike a dog scream when he does something good and play dead when he sucks. | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/26/2006 3:37:22 PM |
saw guy for a bit but when it came down to sex YUCK it was like being 12 again tottal turned me off how to let him down nicley or make that hard attempt at making him good
I guess it's been too long for me. I would just be happy that I was getting a piece! If I like everything else about they guy, I think I could make the sex work.
if you say sex is bad with him, he can say sex is lame with you.
think about it.
That's why I won't complain aboout it.
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/26/2006 4:44:56 PM | | To start with: I wouldn't contemplate going out with a young guy in his twenties or even under 40. I know straight away: if they can or can't, or they have no hope at satsifying me, especially if they say they have had experience and are "good at it." These guys are certain loosers and failures. I tried dating young men and boys when I was 15 and 16 and I was very straight forward with them, after they had failed miserably, I would tell them to "visted a sex worker and take lessons." The lesson I learnt: was never again. | |
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kce33
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Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 31 | |
| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/27/2006 8:13:25 AM | how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed ..........MOST guys lie like hell trying to be macho, but try to find out before you go to bed with him.... that mite help...
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/27/2006 10:25:33 AM | Maybe, just maybe ...... it is you that is not good in bed. Maybe, he is thinking the samething. And doesn't care to perform ...... I went out with a girl and after a couple weeks we started getting intimate ( hell, started to f*** ) who would just lay there spread her legs apart...hell no I'd that, hell wouldn't even put them up in the damn air
talk about dead F***ing .
I ate, she wouldn't suck... barley touched, hell I pratically had to jerk it hard for her
I rolled her over onetime to go at it doogy and she felled flat on her stomach IF I didn't see her walking earlier I'd think she was a parapalegic ......
Good thing I have a little extra manhood size or I'd off been f***king her ass crack.
No I am not saying I am hung but, am above the norm
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/27/2006 4:02:15 PM | | I rarely have to say that, because I am out of sight when any young studs arrive, and the others; if I don't think I will enjoy it, I don't let them help me out of the truck, and they don't get "turned on" and I don't have to say NOHHHH! Most times: "a frown is worth a thousand words." | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/27/2006 4:12:04 PM | Do we not talk about sex to each other anymore, wow
Like you want bad sex lay there like dead fish shesssssssssssshhhhhhhh
God gave women hands for a reason, and men ears for a reason.
Your sex your responsibility...........................................................
Read a darn book for god sakes........................read it together but do it!!!!! | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/27/2006 4:53:14 PM | Yeah been there... done that... its a very touchy subject... but you dont want something like that to ruin whatever you think you might have.
I say suggest some things in bed... say oooohhhh i love when a guy does this... or just show him other ways of doing things he is doing wrong lol.
GOOD LUCK!!! | |
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cbi
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Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 36 | |
| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/27/2006 5:02:19 PM | Have you checked to see if Hallmark makes are card for this type of situation? 
But seriously, if there was anything positive, try to focus on that and build on it. If you are looking at an LTR with him, then now would be a good time to see if you can communicate, especially intimate communication.
If you can't work past it, then you may have to move on; sadly, not everyone is compatible. | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 2/27/2006 5:23:27 PM | it normally always sucks the first time.
if it still sucks after bout the 5th time.. then I might be concerned.
Im with the other woman on here that said.. at my age.. im not sure I wanna train someone to be a good lover.
I agree with this statement.
sometimes.. things just dont mesh sexually. happens. | |
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KolDad
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Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 41 | |
| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:43:54 AM | all you women that dont want to train at such and such an age forget we train all the time. Whats wrong with teaching him what makes you explode in orgasmic clouds of climactic release? I do it with my new girlfriends and i also learn from them not even with words but by simply listening while the act or in my case , ACTS , long never evending acts that eventually culminate in juices flowing and body entwining and ..... oops sorry. I dont see why if you like the guy so mich and he sucks in the sack why ya just cant look him in the eye and say you know dear, you really need to lick here because unlike so many other women this spot right here just makes my liver quiver.
Turn it that you suck and you need special treatment that maybe he hasnt done before and then the fragile male ego is not hurt and actually comes out the warrior for staying the course and figuring you out. All the time you smile while he chews on that and smacks this and your mind gets once again lost in the throws of extacy.
or i guess you could substitute drinking for sex | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 3/5/2006 11:46:11 AM | If a man I am with is disappointing in bed...I would first take time to show him things I like....again and again!!!!
Exploring what each other likes can be a lot of fun!!!
I would also communicate clearly my concerns and if he still didn't change, then I would back off and tell him why I did so.
I guess it depends on whether he is just unlearned or selfish.
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KolDad
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Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 45 | |
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dud
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Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 46 | |
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7times
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Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 47 | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 3/6/2006 10:22:04 AM | | Being's your only 22 I guess its safe to assume he's around your age and does not have a lot of experience. I know every woman I have been with have been different. Some like fast some like slow, some prefer more of a grind. Orally they may have prefrences also, softer, harder side to side, up and down, clockwise or counter clockwise. Hope you get the point, he may have only been with one other person and thats what she liked. I would suggest that if you like him then be verbal and tell him how you want it. For me I ask, and they tell and all is good in the universe. | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed
Posted: 3/6/2006 10:24:00 AM | | If all else fails ... start filing your nails during sex..or grab the remote and switch over to cartoons..give a giggle here and there...or fall asleep..he may not notice the sleeping thing tho..try snoring.. | |
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