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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed Posted: 4/6/2007 2:12:38 AM | I'm assuming that the guy was around about your age? He may or may not have had much experience in bed - sounds like he hasnt yet. I honestly believe that if you liked guy for more than "sex", then the attraction would have been a deeper sharing of values and beliefs - then take the time and have the patience to make it good (everything in good time and with practise). If you were attracted to the guy for his physical attributes and nothing more, then there is no reason to hurt his feelings - just walk away. | |
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| how to tell a guys you just dont like him in bed Posted: 4/6/2007 2:34:52 AM | hmm, well.. you can do it sideways by getting him to let you get on top and take control sometimes. Then at least you can show him the rhythm ;)
If that doesn't work then you have to appeal to his ego. As long as he knows that he can't loose you if he's doing his best at getting better then he should be able to improve with suggestions etc. But be tender. Guys tend to measure their sexual identity by their believed ability to give their partners pleasure (orgasms). | |
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