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 Author Thread: do women like to have it rough or nice and slow?
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 226
rough sex?
Posted: 3/10/2006 7:26:48 AM

Well if you're gunna ride my ass why don't you pull my hair while your at it?


I am on my way...not sure if you are into older men mind you.
As for the post about choking. I find that a total turn off and cannot see the arrousing from it. I see it too much now in today's porn as well. What is the fascination about a guy choking you and you can hardly breath? Ass slapping and hair tugging I can live with no problem, but the choking I will never do.
Now when will it be that women become aggressive to men. I would love to be thrown up against the wall and her take control of me sexually. That woyld be great, but seems practically no women today are dminant they all want to be submissive.
 july16ladybug

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 227
rough sex?
Posted: 3/10/2006 1:38:07 PM
LOL choking is beyond any woman who just enjoys a man being physically in control and rough.....its more with the S&M stuff. To me personally FluxCapacitor it such a turn off when a man wants a woman to be aggressive or dominant.......I cant stand that Im a Sub are you a Dom thing from a man.....makes me think of them as weaklings......sorry but true for me.

The whole idea for me really is not so much a man, man handling me, but like I said previously a man being a MAN..
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 228
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 5:30:51 AM
^^^^Hmm thanks for the insight and now I know why I have had no luck in any area of dating. I can be dominant as it is said, but hey I was just saying it would be nice for a woman to take control in the bedroom, she does control the dating scene as it is come on now.
But seen as I do suck in bed, is another good reason why I stopped dating as well. Too many expectations in sex and dating today and no way in hell can I match up to it. Rough sex? Never had it and if a guy has never experienced it, a woman who is into it will steer clear of him.
 graykisses

Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 229
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 7:54:45 AM
Don't be scared flux. We can practice together. I'll give you all the pointers you'll ever need.
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 230
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 8:08:57 AM
*gulp* Uh..Uh..why can't I live in Cali!!! Damn it!!
 deadwh*re

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 231
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 8:26:39 AM
Always a time and place for rough sex. Spanking, pulling hair, biting, nibbling, throw me down on the bed and take me.
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 232
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 8:44:21 AM
Hmm can I come down east and meet?^^^tug tug
 Capt Joe

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 233
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 9:22:34 AM
Personally, I love throwing a woman up against the wall and having my way with her there or on the hood of a car. Oh and I do loveeeeeeeeeeeeee thanking her for the gift of giving, of herself that she brings. LOL ALSO: can she come to my back door in nothing but a trenchcoat, garter belt, thigh highs, heels and nothing else and have her way with me? Is another question that begs an answer.
I'm an equal opportunity provider. LOL
Joe
 july16ladybug

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 234
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 10:19:02 AM
Its refreshing to find a guy who knows what rough sex really means Capt Joe......good for you ...you have described it well. Not many men get it and then if as a woman you tell a man what you like, some actually look at you like your not all there, LOL or some will say Im not into that, I treat my woman nicely. Well who said anyting about not being treated nicely. Some women just prefer to feel the strength of a man, the feel of their arms tightly wrapped around them, the feel of their strong bodies holding them down so they cant resist. I think it takes a clever, gentle, giving man who knows how to do it rough, you also have to have trust with them, cause there are fools out there that think if a woman likes it rough they are asking to be raped.

Also if your a woman like me who clearly enjoys it that way the most, some men analyze it and think must have been something in her past to make her want it that way, LOL, and that is not the case, its just like men who prefer blow jobs to REAL SEX lol......anyways you can tell that this is a sensitive subject for me and it takes time for me to find a man who knows how to do it right.
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 235
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 4:38:31 PM
^^^gee I am glad to know I sure would not be good enough for you in this catagory. Not experiencing it to begin with is what women find a total let down and turn off...
 tabbybld2

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 236
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 4:47:45 PM
Both! Not one or the other at different times, but both during the same session..lol
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 237
rough sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 6:15:44 PM
Kentucky women seem to get what they want all the time...it is that southern charm
 UnzippedPassion

Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 238
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rough sex?
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:28:00 PM
rough sex!!
Isn't that something dogs do? Ruff ruff..lmao
 sweetness-one

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 239
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Posted: 3/13/2006 10:33:00 PM

Always a time and place for rough sex. Spanking, pulling hair, biting, nibbling, throw me down on the bed and take me


couldn't have said it better myself!
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 240
rough sex?
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:37:30 PM
Slam Bam thank You Mam.....now please let go of My Hair.......................
 RedTrucker

Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 241
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Posted: 3/13/2006 10:37:46 PM
I love rough sex...

I have to be careful not to be too loud or my mom on the other side of the trailer will get mad if I am too noisy and wake her up.
 torentrap

Joined: 11/21/2005
Msg: 242
rough sex?
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:40:49 PM
Rough sex/ rape fantasy acted out
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 243
rough sex?
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:05:13 PM
Rough sex/ rape fantasy acted out


Not into the rape fantasy thing...way to touchy a subject.......







But if She wants to rape Me..then hell ya I'm all for it........lolz....
 Majestic_Lizard_Returns

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 244
rough sex?
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:25:15 PM
Why do women always want to use hand cuffs? I am very uncomfortable with them and do not understand the point.
 _westcoastgirl_

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 245
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rough sex?
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:41:45 PM
God im scared to answer this with my brother lurking around the website rofl.
 Mrsmiggins

Joined: 2/18/2006
Msg: 246
rough sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 3:15:52 AM
do blokes like a damn good thrashing in general or is this best reserved for British public schoolboys?
 allclass2

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 247
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Posted: 3/14/2006 3:35:44 AM
Wow, most of you guys are way too rough for my liking. Pain or somone pulling my hair or slapping me is the biggest turn off I know of. Tenderness, passion, all good.
 Pianist_1971

Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 248
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Posted: 3/14/2006 7:31:01 AM
Majestic Lizard...

Unfortunately, as cruel as this sounds... if you TRULY don't know why women ask to play with the handcuffs...

I'm afraid I won't be able to help you at all.



However, trust me when I tell you this... there are women who just like to lay there like a rag doll and not be involved in ANYTHING... I was married to one... ugh... SHE is the absolute best example of WHY to have PRE-MARITAL Sex of anyone I can think of...



I'm free again... my suffering and boredom is now over!
 july16ladybug

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 249
rough sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:54:20 AM
LOL sorry to hear that Pianist but thats not a women who loves rough sex....I doubt they just lay like rag dolls lol... Handcuffs are a bit much cause it takes away from a man showing his strength....I believe its all about women wanting to be with strong men...thats my whole point surrounding this topic.. Bondage and S&M and Sub & Dom are really a different breed from just enjoying it a bit rough.

Pianist was there anything you could have done to showed her that theres more to it then just laying there......you should have asked her or just did things to see what would make it happen for her. I dont think men realize that just
laying back for a blow job will do it for a woman LOL...

Word of Caution Pianist...dont make the same mistake twice.....find out what she may want as well!!!!!
 mt nester

Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 250
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Posted: 3/14/2006 11:03:47 AM
rough sex?????? is that when you drank to much the night before and woke up with the trolip from the bar and had to chew your arm off to get away?,,thats ruff dude!!!
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