|rough sex?Page 11 of 13 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13)|
Trust me. It wasn't that she wasn't a willing party to anything I wanted to do... and we tried more things than a Jewish Deli... won't go into detail. She was just a fan of... seriously...
"Lay me down on the bed missionary, and **** me all night that way".
She's do anything I asked... it just isn't fun if she's doing it for you, but isn't INTO doing it.... you know?
Some girls just don't like sexual variation.
Posted: 3/14/2006 7:57:15 PM
if you TRULY don't know why women ask to play with the handcuffs...
I'm afraid I won't be able to help you at all.
Now there is a cop-out. "Well if I have to explain it to you, then you don't get it." Whatever.
Posted: 3/14/2006 11:35:48 PM
|sometimes I feel like being punished- be as rough as you can- what can you do to me?|
Posted: 3/15/2006 3:56:10 AM
|It completely depends I like hard and fast unless it's been one of those lovey dovey days then sweet and sensual, special occassions call for sweet and romantic, there is no rule on this one, follow her lead, if she seems bored try harder/faster listen to her breathing biggest tip pay atttention!!! not enough men do this she'll let you know by how she moves and breathes, this applies to oral as well, if you don't hear anything or see her squirm move on, try a diferent spot like the hotter or colder game if she squirms or you hear a noise that's a good sign stay in that area lol |
Posted: 3/15/2006 8:06:26 PM
|I think my bf sneaked on here and read some of my posts.... wow.... his sexual tendencies have changed some and I'm NOT complaining!!!|
Posted: 3/16/2006 3:57:36 AM
|Didn't read the whole thread, i skipped around.. Im lazy. But heres my take.|
Its not a cop-out, its a valid point. rough sex is a genre your kind of... Born into.
If you don't see the point NOW, then your probably never going to see the point.
different strokes for different folks. I mean. My opinion on the whole thing is that its mainly a mood thing. Im for the ocassional vanilla sex. But for the most part rough sex is the way to go. its just... Much more passionate. I'm really not into being slapped in any way shape or form. ass, face, Nothing. But in my... aresenal , i have ripped up bed sheets to tie others (or myself) to the bed (lets face it, once you get handcuff bruises/welts, you draw a line), blindfolds, ball gags, and all sorts of other fun stuff.
I found a bumpersticker that describes it best.
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me,
so throw me down and tie me up, and show me that you like me. "
And a hint!! guys! if she likes it rough, chances are shes a BIG fan of dirty talk too. So open your mouth once in awhile
Posted: 3/16/2006 5:49:16 AM
|A woman can get me just as bent out of shape by hugging me and caressing my cheek and whispering "make love to me" as she can by surprising me by coming in half dressed into where I am and saying "F*ck me....f*ck me right now."|
Posted: 3/16/2006 5:50:56 AM
|Works for me, too...|
Posted: 3/16/2006 7:00:59 AM
|I think I am going to have to agree with most of the ladies here. You shouldn't have to ask. We love it both ways and don't be afraid to spank us, not too hard, but that can be nice. OH and hair pulling-gently mind you you don't want to rip it out- is awesome. I love it when guys change it up during sex, especially if they start out slow and then really make me feel how much they like it. I have a nice body you know.|
Posted: 3/16/2006 7:05:14 AM
|its fun to do sometimes espessially when the girl is just beggin for it.oh ya and sarah c man o man you sound like you would be hella good time baby|
Posted: 3/16/2006 10:00:53 AM
|PIANIST...Well I wasnt trying to be a therapist here, some women just have a hard time asking for what they want.... I never do and then some men feel intimidated by it all (sometimes I just cant win LOL). I actually love missionary the most cause it gives me the feeling that the man has all the power...its a real turn on when a man knows how to do missionary the right way...I wont go near a man who just wants to lay there and have a bj...what fun is that for me, besides it makes me think of men as little weaklings while they lay there doing absolutley nothing LMAO...Having ROUGH SEX with a man indicates to me "REAL MAN WHO LOVES REAL SEX...BJs are fun in the throws of everything else...|
I know this is a different topic but men are getting way to lazy now....when asked what do you like best...most say BJS, I adore oral, but prefer ****ing our brains out...
Posted: 3/16/2006 4:14:34 PM
|whats wrong with the guy just laying there? 95% of the time, thats the way i'd prefer it. EX: im on top, and riding, and theres a nice rhythm going.. Then he starts to get way into it, and totally ****s up the rhythm RIGHT when im about to O. So then its back to square one. With a lot of my ex's, when we first started sleeping togeter, i'd usually make them lay there for a little bit, just so i can make sure i get off :X . I've dated enough men who think sex is a race, and i DONT want to make that mistake again.|
Posted: 3/16/2006 8:52:10 PM
|LMAO.... usually a man laying on his back while your giving him a bj and doing nothing else is lazy and really not into you at all except getting off....but if you prefer that then best of luck to you LOL.....Lol at when he starts to get into it he totally ****s up the rhythm...why have a man even there if you dont want him into it...just do it yourself. Are you sure thats what you wanted to mean....thats confusing, I mean why even have sex with a man then hahahahahahahahahahahahaha...sorry this is so off the topic about rough sex but wow I cant believe what I just read!!!|
WHOA.....Oh pardon me, you must really be experienced being your what?..... "20". I apologize!
Posted: 3/16/2006 9:06:50 PM
|^^^^ I think your reading too far into her response...chill...:P|
I enjoy rough sex :)
It doesn't have to happen everytime, but it's nice to mix things up :)
Posted: 3/16/2006 9:08:14 PM
|Grabs his helmet, purchases his ticket for out east... :p|
Rough sex is awesome, so much more intenstiy... the hormones are ragging, the excitement is everywhere... Never enough walls in a house when rought sex is involved... :p
Posted: 3/16/2006 10:46:52 PM
|Being taken by surprise is also really erotic.....|
When I come out of the shower still wet & dripping haveing just a towel loosely wrapped around me, & he grabs me passionetly by my waist & pulls me toward him to kiss me.
Deep passionate kisses that turn frenzied & when his hands begin exploring my butt he pushes me on the bed making me lose my towel.....
Posted: 3/17/2006 7:35:10 AM
|Please call me before your next shower. I'll come right over...|
Posted: 3/18/2006 2:51:20 AM
|lady bug... way to be a****;) Im just saying. some guys are so awful, they HAVE to lay there in order for you to get off|
Posted: 3/20/2006 6:02:26 AM
|LMAO if any guy is so horrible during sex, that you feel that they have to just lay there to get you off, then let me give you a little piece of advice.....WHY ARE YOU WITH THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE (YUK)......unless thats what you like.|
Posted: 3/20/2006 6:22:02 AM
|Some people have sex with people they love.. I'm sure that may be a farfetched idea for YOU. Buuut. Some women out there DO put up with bad sex and TRY to make it better for both parties, as opposed to leaving the man they love, just because he isn't fabio in the sack. Rearrange your priorities. I thought i was supposed to be the ignorant one.. |
Posted: 3/20/2006 8:56:18 AM
|LMAO (who said anything about leaving the man they love) ummmm I think I never said anything of the sort.....and thats right instead of putting up with a man who just lays there, you either try to make it work or like I said ADIOS AMIGOS lmao....but just doing what you said a few posts up is defintitely not the answer but like I said if thats what you like who am I to judge, I sort of know a bit a head of time into a relationship what it may look like, thats why I suggest no one ever get involved unless they know each other first, so please stop with reading to much into what Im saying...dont take it so personal. YOU my friend have a whole life ahead of you and really shouldnt worry so much about it. OMG are you saying I called you ignorant...sorry but I cant see where I may have said it. Please dont insult me as there are rules in these forums and also are you suggesting that I have never had sex with a man I love....I actually LOVE THEM ALL lmao...Im a very loving person. Now you need to not assume stuff about strangers who post on a forum...thats quite honestly disrespectful. |
I suggest you stop worrying so much about what I like (that is not being in any type of a relationship with any man who just lays there during sex)....dont worry about me Im enjoying my sex life thank you very much~~~
Now have a pleasant and wonderful day, you seem like a very lovable and kind person
I see you changed your post....ummm Im still referring to what you said before you changed it.
Posted: 3/20/2006 9:17:07 AM
|lol. The only thing i changed about my post, was the fact that i left a letter OUT OF A WORD. Your telling me im being disrespectful..blah blah. Your the one flaming every post i've made. Christ woman. Im done. The end. Piss off |
Posted: 3/20/2006 10:17:08 AM
|What a nasty thing to say to me....oh well... I wont let it spoil this wonderful beautiful day we are having in Vancouver on this gorgeous first day of Spring...Good luck to you|
Posted: 3/20/2006 11:12:48 AM
|i guess some like it one way and some like it another depends on the woman and what she likes|
Posted: 3/31/2006 3:04:27 PM
|Give me a man who knows what rough sex is and can do it without breaking a womans ribs...|
Being frantic. locking hands, having urgency, devouring etc etc that is what it means to like it rough...a big difference from S&M and Bondage and D&S.....big big big difference!!!!!!!