| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:35:54 PM | | From my experience(s) Both and more. The hotter one is the more they lose control of their thoughts and thinking. "you have heard your partner talk dirty, but have you heard them talk gibberish senseless language that comes at a time of body spasms" Women also tend to want 2 types of men at different times of the month. sometimes more feminine and sometimes more masculine..this is a fact. Then there is the women who think rough is a very masculine trait that they need to stimulate them. | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:38:26 PM | ^^^Thank You Dr Phil.............now somebody slap me.......................... | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:40:17 PM | OP: Experience should tell you this... depends on the person you are with.
You SHOULD be able to tell by body language and other ways what your partner is yearning for... case in point... last year I dated a girl for a while... the first time we made love... and... I've NEVER done this to a girl before, or since... I slapped her!!! She had never had it done to her... but it drove her wild... I, to this day, have NO idea why I did it... something just told me she would dig it.... I would have my hand up by her face... she would start to bite it... and I'd slap her and tell her that only I was allowed to do the biting... so she'd try again, and I'd slap harder... alternating sides of her face...
She had the hardest orgasm she's ever had.
Later, we were talking about it... and she'd never had it done... never even thought about it... but it REALLY turned her on... AT THAT MOMENT.
We saw each other for several months.. and never repeated it...
It's all about the mood, what you and your partner are in... and can you realize when she needs/wants at that moment!
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:44:56 PM |
I've NEVER done this to a girl before, or since... I slapped her!!! She had never had it done to her... but it drove her wild... I, to this day, have NO idea why I did it... something just told me she would dig it.... I would have my hand up by her face... she would start to bite it... and I'd slap her and tell her that only I was allowed to do the biting... so she'd try again, and I'd slap harder... alternating sides of her face...
Err ya ummm Hmm??
For as much joking I have been doing on this thread that would be where I draw the line...I'd never slap a girl during sex..I'd lose all respect for Her...
A nice crack on the ass or some play biting is where I would draw the line... | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:47:05 PM | k yeah...slappin in the face....ummm not a chance.....but slap my asssss and wooohoooooo | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:50:57 PM |
but slap my asssss and wooohoooooo
Daddy likes it rough....... slapping the ass.............................. | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:53:09 PM |
"For as much joking I have been doing on this thread that would be where I draw the line...I'd never slap a girl during sex..I'd lose all respect for Her"
I completely agree with you, Glimmer, but even worse, I would lose all respect for MYSELF.
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:54:53 PM |
I would lose all respect for MYSELF.
Ya that too....Playing is fun but know where to draw the line.... | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:55:04 PM | Like I said... never done it before or since... it was just one of those things... you never know till you are there I guess lol...
But... tell me... (I agree with you)... why is spanking ok but other forms of corporal punishment during sex arent? I do agree with you... I'm just curious as to why YOU feel there is a difference?
To me it's all about what the woman wants... regardless of my feelings... hehe
I get off on making HER fantasies come true... whatever they may be  | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:55:27 PM | there is a fine line when it comes to rough sex.......hmmm umm....but yeah i guess slappin the face is the only thing i can think of that wld turn me off.......
whose ur dadddddddyyyyyyyyyy | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:58:04 PM | I've never gotten into the rough stuff, wild and crazy, but not rough. | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:00:15 PM | mmm wild n crazy is goooooooooood | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:00:48 PM |
it was just one of those things... you never know till you are there I guess lol...
Yes I do...and like I say it's not for Me..and Ya I would know if I was there....I'd be turned off
But... tell me... (I agree with you)... why is spanking ok but other forms of corporal punishment during sex arent? I do agree with you... I'm just curious as to why YOU feel there is a difference?
there is a big difference to a slap to the face,,,and a play crack on the ass slapping a Woman in the face is just plain disrespectful at any time let alone sex and is just to violent...
To me it's all about what the woman wants... regardless of my feelings... hehe
I get off on making HER fantasies come true... whatever they may be
just know where to draw the line I guess....maybe a safety word is in order..different strokes for different folkes I guess.. | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:01:13 PM | I was in a relationship where he was totally uncomfortable with being rough in any way...I had a hard time getting him to even pull my hair...I have to say that I found our sex life rather unsatisfying.
For me...I feel like if I am with someone I trust...there is not a lot that will turn me off. I like sweet and slow sometimes...but on a whole I like to have a lil pain when I wake up as a reminder of the night before. | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:01:35 PM | Sometimes I wonder if people pose these sex questions with the intent of masturbating to the answers.
Do women like it rough? The answer is out there somewhere...on the tip of my tongue. Oh oh oh.....yes. **** me like an animal. And slow and gentle too...when the mood calls for it.
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:02:42 PM | Ahhhh you just repeated what you'd previously said.
Why is a slap in the face disrespectful, but spanking with the whip is not?
I'm not looking for *one is disrespectful, one is not*... I want to know WHY one is disrespectful, and one is not.
After all, in both cases, you are striking the woman!
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:03:33 PM | Was it good for you baby?
can I have a smoke now????,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Ahhhh you just repeated what you'd previously said.
Why is a slap in the face disrespectful, but spanking with the whip is not?
I'm not looking for *one is disrespectful, one is not*... I want to know WHY one is disrespectful, and one is not.
After all, in both cases, you are striking the woman!
ask this question to some one who slaps women in the face during sex...cause I would'nt know.....
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:06:28 PM | It depends on what type of mood I'm in and what type of mood he's in. Sometimes ass smacking, sweaty, wet sex is in order........Other times slow,sensual sex is wanted. Another variable is how much I've had to drink!  | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:06:48 PM | Glimmerman, If you wouldn't know, then why would you say one is disrespectful and one is not?
Or do you always say things without knowing WHY you say them?
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:11:00 PM |
Glimmerman, If you wouldn't know, then why would you say one is disrespectful and one is not?
Or do you always say things without knowing WHY you say them?
The thread topic is about rough sex..if you want to battle witts with Me take it to mail....
I'll repeat....There is a big difference from a play slap to the ass and a slap to the face,,during sex......sounds like your feeling a little uncomfortable about your post......
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:13:17 PM | Glimmer, I'm not trying to battle wits! You made a statement to me... and I'm simply asking you to explain why you feel this way!
Is it really that difficult?  | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:17:00 PM |
Glimmer, I'm not trying to battle wits! You made a statement to me... and I'm simply asking you to explain why you feel this way!
I gave My thoughts on Your post...I did noy say personaly hey piano..hitting women in the face is a no no..did I say that??I may have responded but was not directed personally...
I for one have not slapped a woman in the face during sex...I gave my response if thats not good enough for you too bad...... | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:18:14 PM | | SOME women are into everything and anything........and SOME guys are as well....it just depends what u like and feel comfortable with....... | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:19:18 PM |
SOME women are into everything and anything........and SOME guys are as well....it just depends what u like and feel comfortable with.......
good point....thanks.. | |
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| rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 3:20:46 PM | No problem, Glimmer! You did, actually.... you said that it was disrespectful to slap on the face, but OK to slap on the ass. Just trying to understand the difference in your mind!
Don't worry... I won't lose sleep over your inability to define your own statement!!!

So I'm done now. Sorry for the break in the action, folks...
Now, BACK to your regularly scheduled posting
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