|rough sex?Page 9 of 13 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13)|
|i guess it depends on the conection between the the two and the intensity of the passion getting a little rough never hurt anyone ..ummm or has it ..experience has nothing to do with it it is all in verbalization who doesnt like to be told what turns their partner on .p.s. never say well my last bf/gf liked it when i did this acckkkk ....|
Posted: 3/8/2006 2:13:44 PM
| Hope i did this right, my very first time responding to a forum. |
I can't agree more with your comment. It's all about passion, exhuberance, fire, hot and cold. Without varying degrees of emotion it becomes ritualistic, and in many cases the downfall of a relationship.
But first and formost, no other word matters but.......COMMUNICATION!!!!.
If your sexual preference is spicy, vanilla, or off the wall, without both (or more ) parties agreeing someone's limitations are being pushed too far. Not acceptable.
No I'm not Dr. Phil or whoever the latest psych is, just a woman who has dipped her toe in a few different pools of water. I know what I like, what I don't, and what I still want to try. With the right partner of course.
I'll try to be not so long winded next time.
cheers. Be sweet, but not too good. :)
Posted: 3/8/2006 2:17:44 PM
|I think there's always a time when women want it rough !!! Not very often though !|
Posted: 3/8/2006 3:48:51 PM
|"sometimes treat her like bambi, sometimes treat her like the pig that she is."|
Bambi was a boy.
You don't like boys, do you?
Oh, did you find any Christmas presents hidden in that closet, whle you were in there?
LMFAO this guy is funny!
Posted: 3/8/2006 3:53:48 PM
|Guess he should have said "treat her like a care bare then" |
Posted: 3/8/2006 3:54:14 PM
I agree with what he said, But I always thought it had something to do with me having two different personalities..being a gemini and all. I like a guy who can be the sweetest guy ever and be affectionate and just hold me (feminine as he called it) but I also like a guy who can be very masculine, and I like it rough every now and again....lol...Boy am I glad I found another gemini...with the two different personalities like me, hes the sweetest...but when he starts talkin bad it gets me goin too. lol......
Posted: 3/8/2006 5:01:47 PM
|Well every woman is different...for myself personally...I like it rough more often then not.|
I like to feel the extreme passion and intensity it offers. Every now and then a nice and slow session is amazing too but rough is definately my fave. Gimme a hair pull...some gentle smacks on the ass..and shake me up real good:)
Posted: 3/9/2006 9:28:49 AM
|Ninjastars I feel the same way you do. I also like it when you make the experience worth something to remember.|
Posted: 3/9/2006 9:36:27 AM
|Start out slow, licking and teasing... right at the toes... then all the way up the back of the legs.. tickling and caressing, dropping little kisses...use a feather... your fingertips... spread the cheeks of the bumm... lick up the center... then bite right where the back meets the bottom.. *shivers*.... keep moving slowly up to the neck... grab all my hair in your hand... and gently tug it back... pulling until I am up on my knees.... position yourself strategically... then wrap both hands around my neck... squeeze tightly... and get ROUGH!|
Posted: 3/9/2006 9:44:44 AM
|^^Have mercy..ENOUGH. Thanks now i need a cold shower|
Posted: 3/9/2006 10:05:34 AM
Thanks now i need a cold shower
take it easy Big Rig....it's just a Post..............................................
Posted: 3/9/2006 10:06:46 AM
|Glimm....I love stalking you...I find you in the best threads!! |
Posted: 3/9/2006 10:24:36 AM
|heehee......don't get me started glim....don't get me started! |
Posted: 3/9/2006 10:45:04 AM
then wrap both hands around my neck... squeeze tightly... and get ROUGH!Yikes!!!! That's a little too rough and scares me! No choking allowed on me!!
Personally I do like slightly aggressive guys who display just enough dominance to make me want to surrender and give up control sexually. It's a big turn on to be pinned down or up against the wall...having both my wrist held together with one of his hands while the other one takes advantage in any way he wants............
(Of course that only takes place when I'm comfortable and trust someone I'm mutually into, we have excellent communication, and we both understand that many things we'll do are just sexual turn ons!!) Hmmmm where's my cuffs!
Posted: 3/9/2006 10:49:36 AM
|hehehe... *shrug*... rough sex...|
gotta have a little asphyxiation...
no smacking or black eyes... but mmmm.... nice pressure around the throat...
while they are kissing you deeply and giving it to you hard....
Posted: 3/9/2006 10:58:17 AM
|I'm with you Passion...I love a man who is a bit dominant and somewhat aggressive...knows what he wants without all the bruising (thank you very much)...I bruise too easily as it is. |
Ahhh, to give up control...nothink like bing vulnerable huh?
Posted: 3/9/2006 11:10:47 AM
|@Elizabeth: I agree..but..........I only want to give up control sexually!! lol|
The rest of the issues have to be full of compromise...you know...99% me, 1% him!! LMAO...just teasing........ 50-50 on the compromising, with both giving 110% works for me
Posted: 3/9/2006 11:16:56 AM
nice pressure around the throat...I did'nt notice you said that in your first post maybe beause i had to take a shower after reading the first half of it...lol. I have heard of people liking this but i really dont see how that could be arousing
while they are kissing you deeply and giving it to you hard..
Posted: 3/9/2006 11:21:29 AM
|Well... *shrug*.. I don't know... people have died doing this.... |
gotta really trust your partner... have signals for when it is too much...
You also have to be careful not to crush their windpipe.... just enough pressure to bring about a slight level of excitement... cut off the oxygen a little... the orgasms are fantastic.
Posted: 3/9/2006 11:22:35 AM
|Passion, that's the only time I will give up that kind of control too.....it's not my nature to be submissive alllllll the time! |
And, yes the rest of the time a complete joint effort works for me......
Posted: 3/9/2006 11:25:33 AM
|dont mind me i am just having a look around.|
Posted: 3/9/2006 2:03:48 PM
|Well if you're gunna ride my ass why don't you pull my hair while your at it?|
Posted: 3/9/2006 2:07:47 PM
|^^ Sure of course, why not ....wouldn't want it any other way ...|
Posted: 3/10/2006 6:18:04 AM
|Women were built to be taken |
Why else do a man's elbows lock so nicely around a woman's hips?