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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 8/10/2006 9:32:05 PM | | Yeah...ok...but now to help the other person to realize that it doesn't have to be as scary as it seems.....just have to help her to put the past away where it belongs......so found it and trying to hold onto it... | |
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 8/24/2006 9:08:40 AM | | I may have, who knows, only time will tell and taking it one day at a time.......but it feels great right now for sure....... | |
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pec
| Joined: 6/15/2006 Msg: 33 | |
| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 9/2/2006 8:59:35 AM | hmm I sometimes wonder.. Is love something you find? Or something you already have?.. I was very young when I realized each persons perception and definition of love was different.. then over and over I had to re-learn that lesson.. and we have no way of knowing when a person uses this word that they mean what we mean
That being said perhaps it is worth pondering the idea that love does not exist anywhere except inside our heads.. which means we don't have to go find it.. and in fact probably can't find it.. because the image we created in our heads.. is just a concept we cling to.. an illusion in that sense.. like chasing a ghost..
ANother thing probably worth mentioning here is that "love" is just a word.. a symbol we use to communicate a concept to each other except.. we are basically trying to convert chemical and elecrical signals from our brain into something we can name and talk about.. I'm not sure it is truly possible to efficiently share that kind of concept in a clear and agreed upon sense..
Perhaps there is some external thing called "love" I certainly can not say for sure, but evidence does seem to indicate that if everyones concept of this is different.. than there really is no such thing as "love" in the sense that it is some force that exists on its own..
Hmm from that angle love is like reality, but that is a different babbling session.. | |
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 9/2/2006 1:05:49 PM | | No i have not found love yet but i will, i think someone will definately fall in love with me, if they do not they have had it. | |
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 9/2/2006 3:42:09 PM | | LOVE..HA...THATS A LAUGH,MOST WOMEN ARE ON HERE TO FIND A MAN WITH A CAR, HIS OWN PLACE, MUSCLES, LOOKS,AND MONEY.MOST OF THE CHICKS HERE HAD SOME NERVE TO USE THE TERMS OF LAID BACK AND DOWN TO EARTH OUT OF CONTEXT.ANY OF YOU PEOPLE WANT THE REAL MEANING OF THOSE PHRASES ARE FREE TO EMAIL ME ANYTIME. | |
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 9/9/2006 4:50:47 PM | so far i found 1 person i really enjoy to talk to but it's very new. (a week) For now it's a friend ... but who knows...let see where it goes  | |
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 11/1/2006 8:57:19 AM | The only person you need to love in life is YOU. Trust me, I lost that love and respect for myself in my last relationship and am now starting to gain it back. It's a great feeling. I am not talking about being concieted, just appreciating the good things within yourself. Once you have that then you can be in fulfilling relationships where 'love' is a factor.
I have met some interesting friends here so far though from all different walks of life, that I would probably never meet in day to day life. | |
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Freja
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 11/11/2006 9:15:51 PM | Good for you Freja...good luck
Just to jump in... I am a New York. Most of the guys I have met have been fom Conn. Cant figure ..more CT then NY. Found 2 and trying to figure the best one! Looks like this thread is old. Not many forums here in CT. | |
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meisie
| Joined: 11/9/2006 Msg: 40 | |
| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 11/13/2006 10:22:20 AM | Hi,
My user name was Pienk, I found love on this site after two months and after meeting a hand full of people and going through the abuse some of the guy's put the girls through as some of them think we are here for a good time only...I helped my friend "Meisie" register on here now so she my also find happiness...anyway, it was love at first sight and we have been together for three months now, after another three months we want to move in together. One thing I will say to all seekers out there COMUNICATION always talk about your feelings about what you want and where you see yourself in the future .... by doing this you will soon know if you were ment to be or not!!! I am still very much in love and very happy...his parents also love me and my parents love him...things can only get beter!!!!
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 11/14/2006 7:56:27 AM | | I know of one couple... and as for myself... I've fallen for one guy, but he's too far away...and have dated some really nice guys closer by... as for love... not yet. But it's a fun site, and it's free, so just go with it... I've made some great friendships which I cherish. | |
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 11/15/2006 4:51:27 AM | Good for you. Hope it works out! I am realizing that most here are just out for fun! So to the others who are looking for true love...... maybe not...just have some fun! If love is suppose to happen ...it will. Have fun fishing Susan | |
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Jroch
| Joined: 3/14/2006 Msg: 43 | |
| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 11/15/2006 2:55:14 PM | No love. I haven't been looking for love either, so....
I have made tons of friends from around the country, Canada, and out side the US. I have learned a lot about Thier areas, and what is the same/different than where I've lived. I have recieved a better education, through these conversations, than if I had traveled there. Nice to have an insider's opinion, to count on. What has other's experiences been? | |
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 12/4/2006 7:38:16 AM | Interesting place. ..... I have made a few nice friends as well as 2 lovely guys that I have more then one date with. I try not to put to much stock there as of yet cause ya know ....lots to learn.........Have many philosophies to date. If interested in hearing them ....drop a line!
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| Has Anyone Found Love On This Site?? Posted: 1/3/2007 8:41:10 AM | | i think it all depends on what u consider love. to me it is not something that u find but something that comes from inside of u alreay and grows when u r with the right person. i have friends that i love intensly that i have met through dating sites and have found some really great friends but love that is too quick to judge; need to know the inside as well as the outside. | |
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