| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/2/2006 2:51:31 PM | fran (help me out here Nature) - as stated earlier - I'm of the Sag world and understand it completely, to me those character traits don't describe a zodiac sign but a man with deep seated issues - I've been in a relationship with a Virgo man (10 years) who very much sounds like your Sag man - a Scorpio man (13 years) who very much sounds like your Sag man - just recently a Libra and a Gemini - both possessive, jealous and manipulative.
Please don't hold one morons actions against a ton of good people that happened to be born around the same time frame
I fear it may not be the zodiac sign but the men I chose as partners, oops my bad  | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/2/2006 3:52:11 PM | Privatenites,,,,how old are you..... .........Yeh GEMINI'S.........GEE ONLY BEEN OUT WITH 1...and it was the worst relationship that i have ever,ever,ever.been in..But i do understand the issue thing ^^^^and she had heaps of them...but i am lead to believe that they have a type of split personnality? All that aside i know other gemini women that are fantastic people.... | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/2/2006 4:13:04 PM | Plucka - I'm really really really old - but still have 8 more signs to check out.....so much to do....so little time  | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/2/2006 4:20:51 PM | FANTASYLAND11 hit it right on the nose!
The sag. man I know is very superficial, self centered, non-stop quest of new targets.... Always has more than one woman on the go. Duality in characters. A Charmer, irresponsible , no faults of his own... fear of commitment.. he feels superior by degrading others.. a user, a taker not a giver...... he seems to be an adolescent and refuses to be an adult when it comes to relationship..........need I say more??
DIND DING DING DING....what has she won Johnny! | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/2/2006 8:53:39 PM | EOWIN:
If you are NOT an emotional person YES.........sag males can tend to shy away from dealing with the emotions of a woman.
All must be happy and they dont like drama.
Tread carefully is all I must say..........I am dating a Sag male as well. Very interesting ride I must say.
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/3/2006 3:44:24 PM | Whew - that was my marriage to my kids Dad - can be an awesome pairing - both very passionate about life and love - good luck to ya - your Sag man needs to be guessing to not get bored and remain interested, being a Scorpio woman, Queen of mystery and passion, you have what it takes to keep him interested and on his toes, you guys are intense for sure.
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/3/2006 5:24:13 PM | PRIVTENITES:
What are you thinking about two Sag's together ? It seems like it is a more deep, sweet, passionate, compassionate kind of relationship.........it's kind of like both of our softer, deeper sides become more exposed.
Very different than anything I am used to 4 sure. Was married to a Leo and we constantly butted heads and he was very dominant. The Sag male I am finding is far from that, very very relaxed and easy going, and agreeable to almost anything I suggest.
Looking for some insight into what I have gotten myself into .......lol | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/3/2006 6:17:16 PM | | I suppose if ya believe in that! I dont follow my astroligical sign I do not and will not compare myself to other archers. Although there are alot of coincidences wich make some things seem true. However Iam myself and not some mythalogical creature that can be compared to the way others act. | |
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| There is NO problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/3/2006 6:51:33 PM | Nature - My personal opin is that it's awesome, it doesn't sound like you need a whole lot of insight since you are a really intelligent girl and sound like you have plenty already.
If it feels right - it probably is, just relax and go with it - but I definitely agree that two Sag's are better than one!! - You two could rock the house down - I dated a Sag guy when I was 19 for about two years - we allowed each other space, shared the same feelings almost on an unspoken level and had a hell of a great time together, hindsight? - shouldn't have let that one go! - as far as what the "experts" say - it can be the most magical experience of your life - there's passion and a thirst for life at it's finest between you.
Best wishes and **congrats** to you both, I wish you all the best life has to offer !!

now if I could just find me one - I think we could all be happy  | |
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| There is NO problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/3/2006 11:04:49 PM | awwwww privatenites..............thank you !
What you say is already what I knew or felt but a confirmation is always nice and from reading your posts girl, I would say you are very intelligent as well.........that's why I asked you.
It does almost seem magical, yet I keep my distance because this is like my first relationship after 19 years. Kind of scary yet his laid back easy going manner helps to make me adjust to being in a relationship again.
Rockin the house down eh? hmmm too funny........yeah two crazy people who love to entertain.......there is always a party going on. Like we went to a party on the weekend and he was doing an acoustic show in the living room and I was handing out tequila shots in the kitchen!!!! Sag's love to be the center of attention, make friends, and just have fun and we are not jealous in any way if our partner is that as well, actually personally I admire him for being the entertainer that he is!
Thx sweetie for the best wishes and I certainly send them back your way as well!
Enjoy the weekend........and take care all.
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| There is NO problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/4/2006 6:32:13 PM | | thanks so much naturelover70 and privatenites,,you ladies rock..must be the sag thing..lol,,well i guess i should change my profile to looking for a sag girl for a long term,,huh..take care ladies have an awesome weekend,,laters.... | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 9:59:30 AM | thanks naturlover,interesting ride to say the least.and i am definatly treading carefully been hurt way too many times in the past.we are both in agreement(the sag man and i) that we will take things slowly | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 10:16:50 AM | There is no problem with sag men it is with the ones that can't handle them.
My best relationship was with another sag.
To last with a sag you have to be a cut above the rest of the crowd sensually. | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 10:16:53 AM | So far no problems with Sagittarian men:
Restless, cheerful, and friendly, Sun in Sagittarius people are generally on the go. They have a love of freedom, and a disdain for routine. Generally quite easygoing, Sagittarians make friends with people from all walks of life. They love to laugh and tease, and get along well with both sexes.
Sagittarians have an often blind faith in people, and in the world. Their optimism is infectious, although it can get them into trouble from time to time. These are curious people who love to learn. Their idealistic nature is hard to miss.
Although generally easygoing, Sagittarius is a fire sign. This gives natives a generally quick temper. Fortunately, they're usually as quick to forget what got them angry in the first place.
The need for escape is generally strong, and some Solar Sagittarians come across as a little irresponsible. They're generally easy to forgive, however. After all, their direct, honest approach in life is admirable.
Love Bears and the sign of Aries
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| The problem with (understanding) Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 10:40:08 AM | privatenites... your message in reply #51 describes sagittarians perfectly! (or at least me) THANK-YOU for your valued support.
O.T.- Sagittarian males are used to being "bashed" because of our astrological sign, but it is usually only due to a "lack of understanding" by the other astrological signs, about our true nature and philosophical views. I've read many pros and cons about Archers and if given a choice, I would'nt trade my Astrological Sign for that of any other. I am proud to be a Sagittarian! 
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| The problem with (understanding) Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 10:48:37 AM |
I am proud to be a Sagittarian!
and never change that
Im a Sagittarius, though not a man ;-), and never dated a Sagittarian man, but I guess we must have some features in common.. and though I admit not having read all the posts so it might just be an echo of what sb else wrote ... but I think that the reason why there are so many of them here is because they're more open and more ready to take risk, easy-going and trying new things more readily...
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 12:05:06 PM | Sagittarius gets along really great with Aries. An excellent match up, Aries With Sagittarius has a outstanding chance. Sagittarius With Aries: This can be an honest, fun and warm union, loaded with love, togetherness and caring. Soul mates for Aries abound under the sign of Sagittarius. Even though Sagittarius is not the "best" match, it most certainly ranks really high up there! The Sagittarius will just love enough to entice without scaring you off! Also, Sagittarius will defend Aries, in both verbal and physical conflicts.
sagittarius and aries - astrological compatibility rank = 7 (10 is best) The only factor that makes it not the greatest of all is they BOTH tend to want to be the leader, the dominating force in the relationship. This can be easily overcome, but still, it is a factor that knocks Sagittarius from the number one spot with Aries.
SAGITTARIUS goes with Leo, Aries, Pisces and Aquarius. (Best match is Aries)
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 12:17:20 PM | lol I can really really sign under this one here:
sagittarius and aries - astrological compatibility rank = 7 (10 is best) The only factor that makes it not the greatest of all is they BOTH tend to want to be the leader, the dominating force in the relationship. This can be easily overcome, but still, it is a factor that knocks Sagittarius from the number one spot with Aries.
My ex is an Aries, and the beginnings were great, but the fact that we are both strong personalities led slowly and inevitably to the end. And I was the one willing to bend more often, but one day you have to say: enough is enough...
Oh yes, this is so true...  | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 12:56:01 PM | I am female Sag and spent 18 yrs with a Leo and let me tell you , it was a constant butting of heads. The Leo has to always be right and they are very dominant.....whereas Sag doesnt like to be argumentative, we just want to be peace loving and free.
I totally dont agree with the Sag/Leo thing, in fact I can spot a Leo male in 2 mins of conversation and well........../I head the other way.
My Sag/Sag relationship is going awesome, no conflict, easy going, happy...........
I think it is true a Sag needs another Sag because they are the only ones that can understand our complex natures.
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| The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/6/2006 1:04:27 PM | Let me first say that I'm a Sag. However, I don't even consider someone else's sign when I'm dating someone. At best, Astrology is a mildly entertaining way of taking a different look at something.
People who believe in Astrology have every right to believe in it to their heart's content.....it's what makes a free country great. 'Viva la difference' and all that jazz.
But seriously, it's just another construct developed to conveniently explain the unexplainable, and easily package groups of people into homogenous piles. To me, it seems like a tool for the weak mind if it's used to make broad generalizations or used to direct one's life decisions. | |
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