| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/6/2006 2:25:37 PM | Well I do have to say that I've enjoyed this thread, actually read it all the way thru not that I bore easily or anything like that The "Good, Bad & the Ugly" about Sag's and it all still sounds good. I've never really followed my sign or read up on it too much but after reading this there were WAY too many things that made me go "mmmmm...." and here I've always thought that I was just being me and here I see that I was just being me, go figure... The women in my life are treated Very special, thats just my nature, I am looking to have that one woman in my life to share everything that life has to offer and when I do find her, someone on here has already said that she will be a special kinda woman and as for me I wont accept anything less, yes I flirt but the main thing i love about flirting is making others smile and feel good about their selfs, dont mean that it has to be taken sexually but just to make someone smile, losy my last gf over jealosy and I dont know if its a sag thing or what but I Hate the jealosy thing and even having to explain myself or my actions, take me for what I am or dont take me at all basicly I'm either really good at what I do or just dumb lucky... ok, a little of both...my first post here also, WoooHooo | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/6/2006 3:37:33 PM | WELCOME to the forums WILDRIVER..........watch out now you will be addicted!
From one Sag to another I can completely relate to your description of yourself, like listening to myself talking lol
Yes, a Sag cannot handle jealousy or having to explain their actions, you either accept us for who we are and realize it is all done in innocent fun or you simply move on. We are freedom loving and hate to feel confined or controlled in any way.
Also yes we also seem to have that basic instinct which seems to give us luck in most everything we do, it follows us through our lives and I say really it is the COOLEST THING.
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/7/2006 2:46:16 AM | Well as a male Sagittarius I can agree on several things the women her wrote about us. Remember there are some of us that have personalities favoring the good qualities of the sign. I know I have my faults, but I do try. Sometimes we need the woman in our life to give us a little nudge in the right direction. I will admit I haven’t had much luck with Taurus or Leo’s, but Virgo’s look out if we go out on a date! I highly recommend if you’re a Sage and you’re going out with a Virgo to notify the local police and fire department, because it going to be a wild relationship!
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/7/2006 10:29:19 AM | Yes, Lessoule I agree with you on the whole Sag/Virgo connection and how it is a wild ride! Been there done that and dont want to do it again. The Virgo personality I think is worse to tame than a Sag, find them to be rather moody and on the dark side of life if you know what I mean.
I am very happy with the whole Sag/Sag thing.......first time doing it and its really rather cool, pleasant, comfortable, ...........yet intensely exciting at the same time!
Leo's I will stay clear of for the rest of my life............controlling, dominating, always have to be right, stubborn.........oh please dont get me started lol
Taurus.........hmmmm..........they seem to pique my sexual attention otherwise I find they ruffle my feathers a lot intelligence wise.
smile and enjoy the day
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Posted: 3/7/2006 10:40:42 AM | ok, what about, lets say geminis and sags?
oh, sorry, it's been talked over already.. just me lol :-S | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 11:06:52 AM | just cats...........
From my research on these two signs , this is what I have found...........
Geminis and Sag's sit across from each other on the zodiac wheel (east and west kind of thing) and we are known to be like mirror images of each other. I know this first hand b/c I have a male friend who is a Gemini and we think a lot alike and are very agreeable to our interests. If you are not going to date another Sag than I would say .......go for a Gemini! I believe that it will be an awesome match........just be prepared to be physically active because they are very much into their health and fitness. Sag's like to look good and feel good so this shouldn't be a prob.
good luck cats..........if thats the relationship you are trying out.
smile and enjoy the day! | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:13:00 AM | i was married for 20 years to a sag man... and your description is right on.. wished i would have been wise to that in 1972.. could have saved many tears and heartache....still single but a lot smarter... | |
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Posted: 3/9/2006 4:58:25 AM | I like naturelover's pro sag attitude! :)
Since I read this thread, I have noticed a lot of people on
this site are Sag. Maybe they just dont enter their correct
birthdate. That info is kinda of a security question on
some financial dealings. | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/10/2006 10:12:13 AM | | I am totally a sag male. The best way I know how to describe us is in the words of my ex Sag's are a very diffrent breed of the human race u will find out alot of ur big time athletes are sag's. The main problem with us though is that we dont like to be told what to do or that we cannot do something. Dont ask me why something in our blood. Sadly (cats pay attention to this) is that our counter parts the gemini males make up a large portion of the prison population. so there once again they dont like to be told what to do or that they cannot do something. If I was to actually give u an opinion on wich zodiac sign to go for I would have to say aquarious | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 2:17:34 PM | I have experienced two 'turned out bad' relationships with Sag men. I will have to say that the common major problems were self-centeredness, violence, controlling personality, and the list goes on. I don't know if it was because of their zodiac sign (I highly doubt it) or if they were just losers from the word go.
I will have to say they were both outgoing and personable and lots of people seemed to like them.
Maybe I brought out the bad in them!
Sag women, on the other hand, I get along with just fine. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 1:50:02 AM | well folks
I am born in December and that makes me a Sagittarian man
some of your desciptions sound interesting and familiar to me
but, I am sorry I don't buy as this astrology stuff kids....
the concept that we kind of belong to '12 different tribes' is laughable
and, the women that buy into it tend to be the one's
that buy those --99 cent-- astrology books at the grocery store and read harliquin novels..........
I would suggest spending your mental energies on more meaningful things
ps-"spoken like a true Sagittarian male".............
there I said it.......... so you can't, and still you are clever
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Posted: 3/11/2006 2:43:33 AM | ps-"spoken like a true Sagittarian male".............
there, I said it.......... so you can't, and still think you are clever
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Posted: 3/12/2006 4:32:24 AM | ther aint no problem with sag s male or female. Just dont try to tie us down or bore us.dont micro-manage or multi-task. do one thing and do it well till your done. if you have too much to do for that, delegate and keep your eyes on the big picture----if you cant DO these thing you are in our way...
personaly if you ever say " you/I cant drop what we are doing to chase some really big dream right now" get out the trumpet and start blowing taps. a sags gonna get his hunt/adventure between someone elses legs most likely.
dont blame us if you cant hang w/ the noble warrior/ philosopher. ordinary aint good enuff. | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:04:36 AM | Hi Ladies,
It's not just the men. I've dated 2 sag women who were high maintenance, somewhat impressed with themselves, and felt perhaps that they need to put on a higher pedestal than this cancer boy, heh, heh. Don't get me wrong, they were nice people but they have a strong opinion on matters and my comments weren't as valid as theirs :). Both ladies were attractive, but their self importance got the best of my goat! lol. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 6:32:26 AM | I'm a Sag woman, and I can tell you that one of the things I have noticed about my sign is a unwillingness to settle unless things feel completely "right".
We want our freedom and understand when our partners want the same - I've had more then one guy believe that I didn't really "care" about them (typically Scorpio's but I really shouldn't date Scorpio's... they sting) because I was so willing to let them have their freedom.
My last boyfriend cheated on me at this big outdoor music festival last summer (also known as a big drunk fest) and he told me when he got back immediately (he was also a Sag), I was upset with him, but I forgave him, because well we had just started going out.
He later became concerned about whether or not I actually cared because I was so willing to let him go out and do things without me. I would have thought that as a fellow Sag he would have got that I cared, but I was understanding of the fact that just because we were dating didn't mean that the rest of his life needed to end.
Either way, I really do think that Sags are simply unwilling to settle down if things don't feel right.
Dos and Don't for dating a Sag:
Do ...
... keep the bright, happy side of your personality showing. Your Sagittarius will set the example, displaying an ever cheerful and optimistic nature.
... give your Sagittarius the emotional and physical freedom that they need.
... listen up -- they will teach you how to obtain and treasure that freedom in your own life.
... keep a travel kit complete with a few essential outfits and toiletries packed at all times. Your Sag will whisk you away at a moment's notice to secluded spots or exotic destinations.
... appreciate a good practical joke, a roller coaster ride or a hike through a national forest. Your Sagittarius will introduce you to all these diversions and more.
... be enthusiastic, energetic and ever ready for adventure.
... enjoy all sides of the relationship -- Sagittarius can be your playmate, your inspiration and your best friend.
Don't ...
... subject your Sag to the darker, more negative side of your personality. The Archer needs to see the positive side of life, even if it means ignoring your depression.
... tell a Sag that you're right and they're wrong. They like to feel that they have the best answer to any question or situation.
... try to keep your Sagittarius in a small, confined area, no matter how plush it is. They will feel cramped or caged and will need to escape.
... turn a blind eye to the Sagittarian fondness for betting. Some Sagittarians can't restrain themselves when it comes to the tables, the sports book or gambling in general.
... be impatient with the relationship -- if you expect declarations or demonstrations of eternal love, your patience may be tested. Sagittarians are independent, and will likely not fall in love quickly or demonstrate it too effusively. | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 3/12/2006 8:39:55 PM | There is no problem with Sagittarain men, the problem lies in people's misconceptions of Sag men. We are no better or worse than any other sign. If you've had a bad experience with one of us, that's your problem and certainly not our fault. So don't stereotype one group of people or men beacuse you got shit on.
I am a 35 year old Sag man and proud as hell of it. I am not self-centered, popus, self-absorbed, or think I am better than anyone else.
Feel free to respond if I offended you!
Cheers, Kent. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 9:52:56 PM | Ok, Sagittariuses are undoubtedly charming, and often talented performers, but when they're unevolved they are the most annoying people ever.
I find the people who dont like sagitarians are usually afraid or us. Ive been told on several occasions that my intelligence is scary and as a result we tend to think well know really that the person has something to hide. Im not talking about the accumilation of knowledge but the intelligence were born with.
We tend to have the abbility to see right through people and we can pick a fake. We can read between the lines in an instant.
Sounds like you're describing a Scorpio here rather than a Sag. Scorpios inspire fear. Sagittariuses inspire annoyance.
The problem is our honestey and saying out loud things we should only think, or at least filter.
True, very true. Much like a child, wouldn't you say?
Another problem is that Sagittariuses sometimes have way too much confidence for their own good. For example, when someone doesn't like them, they chalk it up to "jealousy," implying that they're better than this person. Christina Aguilera is a Sagittarius and she once claimed that other women are jealous of her, when in fact other women (and men) were disgusted by her "dirrrrrty" phase.
therefore anyone who is pretentious or small minded hates us because we tend to have a way of blowing their cover and keeping our cool about it.
There's this thing called "tact". Mature adults have it. Children don't but they can get away with it because they're still cute.
Also some people hate us because they like to be centre of attention and when a sag is around your chances are not good.
See, this is what I mean when I said that Sagittariuses chalk things up to jealousy.
We can be the most commited people when were in love but boy you have to earn it by being a really beautiful person inside
And if you don't meet the Sag's expectations by being a "really beautiful person inside" (and outside), prepare to be abandoned.
And never try to hold us back from our out bursts of crazy fun things we do. never ever ask an opinion if you can t handle the truth coz youll get brutal honestey. hey were great should be more of us. Go sagitarians!!!!!
Sounds like you're describing a 5-year-old here.
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I think you should base your decisions on a person's character and how they treat other people and not disqualify someone because they were born at a particular time of the year. Thats even more shallow then disqualifying someone because they are short. Tall men is a universal preference women have in respects to mating. Its not personal and it can be overcome by being attractive in other areas. Astrology on the other hand is a construct of humans. You can't tell a person's sign by their look or personality. It's also a horrible way to decide to keep partners because there are good, compatible people of all signs.
Typical male Taurus response. Obtuse. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 6:57:37 AM | sag s are very inteligent byy nature and get along well with scorps....
and if you find us anoying yer prolly one of those folks who sit in a bar trying to carry on a quite conversation and ends up getting " annoyed" cause there are loud rowdy drunks playing the jukebox and raising hell.
i like my booze top-shelf and out of the bottle, i like my steak rare and right off the cow,
if the truth hurts i like the pain, it reminds me that i care. its ok i can handle it......
sorry im not gonna give in to weaker sensablities. telling the unfiltered truth is STRENGTH.
weaker minded folk and bull$h(#ers like to call it tactless or childish.
and yeah a sag can smell bull$h(# or pretension a mile away. Plus i gotta tell the truth. screw tact......SNIFF SNIFF ....HMMM any hairybums around here?? smells like.............................
sorry to say it but its true, we do deserve to be the center of attn, if yer mad or jealous its just cause we got better stories and we're more fun than you. grab a beverage and follow along ,we may get locked up but we ll have a GREAT time.
ordianary aint good enough. if you aint got what it takes to keep us interested, go back to school jr... lifes to short to wait for you to earn it. you got it or you dont l life is 1000 new adventures every day and sag s want it all. if its childlike maybe you should have never grown up. that what life is supposed to be.     | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 7:39:48 AM | Well the only "problem" I see with these folks is that they may argue alittle more the others. But if you are a person who likes to argue then you shouldn't have too much of a problem with them. | |
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